Abusers are very good at spinning stories to make them into the victim. All the while slandering you to build their defense against being called an abuser! That is how they isolate their prey until they have complete control. When you escape, they need to smear you even more! Sometimes recording explosions is the only way to prove you are not crazy and what you know happened did in fact happen. If you’re in this situation, please find a way to record your abuse because you will be made out to be the monster and more people than you think will believe them. Sending you love

I was asked the question, “What are your goals for healing?” Rather than come up with a quick answer, I delved deeper into finding the root and not focusing on the symptoms. Let’s see what I found out. What are your true goals for your healing journey?

This healing journey is not for the weak! And as you grow, there will be people who cannot handle the growth and boundaries that come with that growth. Keep healing anyway!!!

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Healing from trauma is necessary. But it hurts! And it’s scary! What we forget is that breakthroughs come after breakdowns. Forgive and accept yourself at every level of healing. Give yourself the compassion you should’ve been given and find yourself pushing through to the other side. Tear by tear, breakdown by breakdown. I know it hurts, keep going!!!

Sometimes we shouldn’t be so quick to think the message isn’t for us too!

Many of us who participate in therapy eventually feel “stuck” when healing from trauma. They say when you know better you do better. But what do you do when your trauma responses are still difficult to manage even when using the “tools” therapy provides you with?

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What does a heathy sexual relationship look and feel like?? MHO 💙🦋

Over time the idea of modesty has changed a lot! What does it mean to you???