That Based Dating Podcast

Relationship dynamics in the 21st-century are difficult to navigate. While fragile and soy-fed men and women continue to fill up the dating pool until it reeks of toxic waste, many humans are still trying to sort through what to expect from their counterparts.

On today's show I talk about the disparity between supply and demand of masculine ability. So many women find themselves working hard and pursuing excellence- which makes them uninteresting to the high performing masculine who seek nearly pure feminine traits.

Will men breach this gap emotionally so they can be evenly yolked or will women move out of the workforce? Are single mothers who can still bear children really the worst choice for traditional men?

It's always complicated. Tell me your thoughts!

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On today's show I address the plotless dystopian movie Barbie that I unfortunately paid to see. While assuming the film would be a nostalgic and probably left leaning film about pink and feminism- I was quickly surprised to find no plot line and a lot of misandrist mocking of men and traditionalist world views.

While the expectation that this movie would be conservative is laughable, I expected at least a veiled pursual of extreme anti-male propaganda which ended up being the forefront plot. While the males in the movie were sad, pathetic losers- Barbie and the two supporting female leads have to fix the world by restoring women to the top. ⠀

This movie was a waste of two hours and fifteen dollars - should have just watched feminist twitter for two hours instead.

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On today's show, I discuss my history growing up in a Baptist church, and how that molded my religious views.

While my intellectual knowledge of Christian theology is not some thing I happily ditch, I also can't claim to be someone who wants to label "Christian".

I have developed virtue, not by knowing about a guy who died and rose again- but by realizing the deeper, richer meaning of Christ- and how we must all take up our cross and find responsibility in our lives by chasing meaning and truth.

Enjoy the listen!

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On today's show I explain my feelings around "losing" relationships and how it has always looked like providence in hindsight. Like many of us, I have felt the incredible stress that comes with feeling rejected - that deep abandonment wound that pops back up from childhood or losing a partner that had a deep meaning.

While it can be difficult to get through losing someone in business, in friendships, or even intimate partners- esp when it triggers you- life will unfold and show you why you always deserved better.

Tell me if you have experienced this beautiful redirection in your life!

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On today's show, I explore how comparison, even to our hopes and dreams or fears can steal the joy of being.

Whether it's being in a relationship with an ideal, instead of the person in front of us, or it's longing to feel like an upgrade from someone's ex - it's easy to get lost in comparison.

Why do we settle for black and white thinking? Why do our brains construct things to cheer us up or make us sad? We can stay present and absent of comparison to have the most content joy. That's the real flex.

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On today's show, I confront facts and misinformation surrounding the word misogyny.

While this word was once used only to denigrate the worst of opinions held against women - it is now a catch all term that includes an attack on behaviors that just a few decades back were considered highly polite- such as opening a door for a woman.

I am no stranger to the horrific "manosphere" logic that degrades single mothers, sexual liberation, access to birth control and many other modern scernarios - but I think if we take a deeper look we will find most people are just seeking to cope with desperate situations.

Empathy is the way we can curb misogyny and not further shaming men for vaguely distateful behavior.

Have you seen real misogyny in your life as a woman? Has a woman ever mislabeled you as a misogynist?

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I'm going straight for the jugular on today's show - while I look at the term "gold digger" and where it gets a basis.

Are beautiful women really looking for a luxurious lifestyle?

While many men look at the highest status guys and think they are attracting "gold diggers" (and that may be the case irregularly), they fail to recognize the deepest of truths about evolutionary biology.

The hard truth is that women were not designed to hunt and provide. Our genetic make up, build, and muscularity leave much to be desired on that front. While we know the world is full of predators, on a subconscious level, we look for a man who can fend them off.

These men have the discipline and skills to keep us SAFE - money is simply a biproduct. Sometimes money is used to confuse women into thinking a man is high status (and ambitious) when he is truly peacocking - in many instances a man who show dominance in his domain is paid in status.

Women want to move that status closer to protect future offspring - and there's nothing gold digging about a mama bear!

Are you convinced? Have any feedback? As always, I love to hear your thoughts.

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I've finally made a political episode- vaguely! Ha!

On today's show, I explain the evolution of my beliefs. While I started as a very conservative Republican, I found my way to all out communism for a couple weeks, and then the rubber band went back to normal, and I found liberty amongst the rubble.

Have you undergone a political change in your life? Have your politic shifted since you were a young adult? Do you share your parents political ideology?

I love to hear your feedback as always.

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On this episode, I chat about my feelings around self medicating -- a vague but necessary subject. Each of us knows what our unhealthiest self turns to and it becomes bad for us when we confuse the self medicating to be self serving.

Regardless if it's porn, alcohol, cigarettes, cannabis, social media or something more nefarious like pharmaceuticals -- we have to be mindful of treating ourselves for wounds that we find inside.

Our closest friends and allies should be leaned on when it comes to checking in on ourselves. From our view- whether we have a healthy outlet for our experiences or are are using a substance to cope - we often can't always see this truth for ourselves.

Do you find yourself self medicating on occasion?

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Happy Memorial Day - and we've got a doozy of an episode where I unravel my inherent skepticism of even my own world view!

While, I've been a proud Anarchist/Voluntaryist for a while, I've run into a lot of folks who seem to miss the importance of respecting individuals and not institutions. That means we have to also respect humans WITHIN institutions who genuinely want what's best for their community (even if it's misguided.)

My experience with government workers is that most do want to help, serve, and care for their local folks and the country, but do not realize how counterintuitive their departments can be to the ideals of freedom and self ownership.

If we stay skeptical and humanize statists, we can expect the same understanding in return -- and that's something worth celebrating.

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