A fictional episode in which a newbie couple explores the lifestyle with a dinner date that escalates into boundary-crossing and confusion; highlights the importance of consent, communication, and respecting limits. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason uses the hotel mezzanine as a metaphor to explore social tiers in the ethical non‑monogamy community from the high‑visibility "shiny people" and secret side rooms to the lobby of newbies and burnouts. He reflects on inclusion, burnout, and how popularity often masks real connection. The episode validates different ways to engage, warns against chasing status, and encourages listeners to find their own tribe and experience the lifestyle on their own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening.  Jason connects Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol (via the Muppet version) to the lifestyle world, using the ghosts of past, present, and future as metaphors for memories, party energy, and long-term consequences. He shares personal holiday stories about raves, parties, shame, joy, boundaries, and community, urging listeners to come in, connect, and care for each other as the year turns.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality. Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd. He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events. This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship. The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks. Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. www.instagram.com/TheFlirtyPineapples/   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery. The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle. This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com