That Talk

Even is a credit specialist and forex trader. His mission is to help people create investment opportunities using other peoples money! Is there a better way? He's on his way to create a empire by simply helping people take their power back using what they already have, but aiming at a different target. Great conversation!

D is a rapper, Entrepreneur, humanitarian, as you heard him say. D has been in the rap game for 10 years and he has had so many great experiences and opportunities it's unreal. Opening up for many of your favorite artists, and being involved in Paris fashion week. If you listen to D's music you can really tell how much he loves what he does. Theres there's something different about an artist that will stop at nothing to  perfect their craft. D doesn't have to say that's what his goal is, we can tell. On an every day basis he's constantly motivating through social media by encouraging  people to follow their dreams. We talk about the imaginary "island" feeling that we feel like we're on when we follow our dreams. You feel like you're crazy, mostly because everyone tells you you're crazy. You doubt yourself and you feel like folding. D's response to everyone else "respectfully, fuck y'all". Believe in yourself, because  self is all you really have to make your vision come to life. Nobody else can see it.

My guy Edgar Castro! This episode was a long time coming. We talk about E's journey in his music which he took a break from, then started back again when he was diagnosed with cancer. My main interest was his mindset during his time at the hospital, how he was able to remain positive and stable mentally. This is a hard working, interesting guy! You will see him on stages!

Zach stopped by the studio today to have a conversation with me about mental health and breaking through what is all holding us back... ourselves. We talk about the similar things we've been though, and how we worked though them. As we work though the conversation we got to touch some topics where we have some different views and opening talk about them. The best thing I pulled from this conversation, YOU'VE ALWAYS HAD THE POWER.

I had to do a part 2 of "the story". Today I talk a little bit about how your mind will always MAKE YOU RIGHT. Whatever you think about will happen, is it magic? No. It comes with the behavior behind the thoughts. We have to be aware of our self talk for this exact reason. The best lesson I gave in my last episode was "your thoughts become your actions and you actions become your results". So that being said, our story is very important. 

The Story
We all have it running in our head about ourselves and every situation we encounter. Even the smallest situation can interrupt great self talk and turn it into something negative. What I've realized about my life is that my thoughts always bread my actions, and my actions always lead to my results. Whatever I was telling myself is what my life turned into. We always want to be "right" so whatever you're telling yourself you generally make come true. With that being said, the mind is inherently negative. We are trained to survive, so were are always looking for "what's wrong" in order to do so. The best way to change your life is to change how you think about yourself. Start small, you can use something you've written out like me or you can just start practicing by interrupting every negative thought that creeps through and replacing it with a positive one. It's not a difficult task, but it is ongoing and can get away from you very quickly from habit or unconscious behavior.

This episode I opened up with a question I got over an instagram post "How not to be a victim of your situation of circumstance" I came up with a few tips.
1. Change your perspective about what is happening to you. Everything else falls after this.
2. Ask yourself what is this doing FOR me. How can your current situation be helping you or molding you into who you are supposed to be. Adversity is place in our live to help us grow to the next level. See it that way.
3. Take it as a challenge. You have already overcome everything that has ever tried to stop you, haven't you? Take this next situation as a challenge see what you're really made of.
 All of these steps are based on changing your perspective. Those tips are just different ways to do so. 

Today we're talking about arguments. Why they happen, how to prevent them, and how to get through them. Caliah and I talk about what has helped us throughout our relationship, so we can help you. Caliah has so much knowledge when it comes to relationships and how to understand the person you wish to connect with. Come along with us to hear some tips to help you and your partner/ friends and family. We all need help with mastering how to communicate with one another, so we can all flourish. 

Caliah and I have been wanting to do this for awile now. Talk about our struggles, how we worked though and help others in the process. We talk about how we met, what we were going though as individuals that gave us issues in our relationship. Caliah had issues with giving so much of herself only in hopes to get change from her partner. This ultimately let her to being more and more unfulfilled, until she realized she was unconsciously seeking transactional love and took the responsibility to make the change. I was dealing with issues of insecurity, thinking that every next woman I met was going to fix my problems. I was unhappy, I had issues I needed to deal with, I had to make me happy. We both made changes to make our relationship work. it hasn't been easy but it's worth it.

Caliah Denon: Mrs. Nasty Nate, Mrs. That Wasn’t Shit, Mrs. Why Not Me. Caliah is a brilliant mind, what I love most about her is her ability to be comfortable enough to ask questions about things that have almost become unquestioned overtime. We talk about Covid 19, westernized medicine, anti depressants, depression/anxiety, self accountability and bits and pieces of our relationship. At the end of the episode she gives some tips on healing trauma, which most are what helped me start my journey.