I WOULD FORMALLY LIKE TO APOLOGIZE FOR THE NONSENSE YOU'RE ABOUT TO OR ARE GOING TO WITNESS- but happy holidaze, everyone! You know we're a festive bunch 🤪 Not much left to say tbh, listen to us talk about conspiracies like the simulation, life after death and us flipping out about a stalker (it was not a stalker).

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We took a little week off, but here we are with something new for you!

We get a lot of questions on how we record, if we edit and stuff SO HERE WE ARE. BARING IT ALL. R A W. lmao the uncircumcised version 😏 15 MINS OF FULL ARGUMENT, hear all the mess-ups, the breaths (cringe) and interruptions.  

Let us know if you're into this kind of RAW 

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IN OUR LONG ONGOING RELATIONSHIP SERIES: Sliding in the DMs, Asking for a date, DTR'ing (tba) and now Second Chances... How many chances are too many? Do we believe in 2nd chances, or is it a one-and-done type of deal? Or like ALL THINGS- is it situational? Is it different if it's a romantic relationship vs a friend? Where do you think each of us falls on the spectrum of forgiving to not? DM us your guesses :)



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We all know the toxic manipulators gaslight... But did you know it's possible to gaslight YOURSELF 🤡 It be ya own damned self sometimes, man. Whether you're telling yourself you're being too sensitive or that it WAS just a joke, please remember: YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. Sure, you may be sensitive, but it's still not okay to make you feel some type of way. And of course, it could've been a joke, but if you're not laughing, it wasn't funny to me either. 


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We always keep it 100% on this podcast and talk about stuff WE care about but also share funny stories we think YOU'LL love! This week's episode is brought to you by Tequila shots and Long Island Iced Teas... The content writes itself! Kind of like those drunk texts you wake up to that you sent your ex #yikes But like all things in this life, it's happens to the best of us, it is what it is- just delete the number, bestie! Stay hydrated out there🧃

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So we told you how to slide in the DMs... But now what?? Don't worry, your girls got you covered 😏 Okay so you slide in, test the waters and now it's time for the next move. Who asks who out? HOW do you even ask someone out on a DATE? Who pays for it?? The asker or theaskee??? Do people our age even go on DATES anymore or is it always just "Netflix and Chill" 🌚 Will Pam finally ask out her crush for a social experiment????? stay tuned 😗.



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Like most things in life, friendships only seem to get more complicated as we get older. Making friends (*sweats*) and even keeping friends. Anything in life worth keeping around is work. Clinical Psychologist and Friendship expert, Dr. Miriam Kirmayer says, "Choose people who choose you." Friends feed the soul and if those friendships are worth it, fight like hell; And if they're not, know when to quit.  

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CW: In today's episode, we discuss topics that some listeners may find triggering or disturbing e.g. Depression, Suicide

Am I depressed, or is it just winter? Could it be both. Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, OR seasonal depression is something that affects more than 10 million Americans. It's hard to pinpoint what exactly makes us SAD- the weather, the lack of sunlight, the lack of social life! It can be triggered by ANYTHING and MANIFEST differently. It's just important to keep on chugging and make it through to Spring. We're almost there ♡

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Okayyyy, so Valentine's Day just happened. And if you're as single as a pringle, my advice is..... don't be scared- slide in the DMs!! This week, we discuss the WORST DMs we've ever gotten, the best, and how we think we're sliding in. 

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Hair done every 3 months
Nails done every 3 weeks
Therapy every week
Oil change every 5,000 mi

All of the above are normal things we do for upkeep. Sometimes you really DO just need an objective 3rd party professional to tell you how it is. HOT TAKE: PhD is more equipped to handle the drama than BFF.  This week, follow as Jess, Jas and Pam talk about their individual mental health journeys, whether it be: seeking help or finding alternative ways to feel better, the struggles of insurance in the United States, and fighting that ever-living stigma of "mental illness."


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