That's a Hard Pass

That's a Hard Pass

By Jess, Jas & PamSociety & Culture
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That's a Hard Pass episodes

  • Alexa, play "Bleeding Love"

    Part II of our delicious period talks. Last week, we touched on regulating periods, seeing the proper doctor, how old we were, etc etc. THIS WEEK, we get into the nitty gritty, what menstruating products we use, sexy things, bleeding through and where people put their blood ๐Ÿคญย 

    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

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    *And follow us on Instagram and TikTok @ThatsA_HardPass*

    21 min
  • PERIODT POOH๐Ÿฉธ

    Here on That's a Hard Pass, we think it's NECESSARY to talk about all the things: the good, the bad, the bloody. Menstruation is often something too taboo to discuss openly, so here we are. BLEEDING OUT IN THE OPEN for u โค๏ธ Bleeding once a month is NORMAL, NATURAL and nothing (you hear me? N O T H I N G) to be ashamed of.ย 

    We had SO much we wanted to share, we had to break it into 2 parts!
    Stay tuned for the 2nd half of this period talk out NEXT WEEK

    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

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    *And follow us on Instagram and TikTok @ThatsA_HardPass*

    18 min
  • PDAbsolutely not

    ...we're just rotating the homies at this point.
    NEXT WEEK WE PROMISE WE'LL ALL BE TOGETHER

    Welcome to the Taurus Episode โ™‰๏ธ
    This week, Jess and Pam discuss PDA (public displays of affection ๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคฎ). Yes, we Tauri are notoriously unaffectionate but is there room for it anywhere? How do we deal with it IRL? We also touch on love languages and CONSENTย 

    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    22 min
  • Is this A QUARTER-LIFE CRISIS ๐Ÿคก

    Another week, another 2 man episode
    WILL WE EVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN
    stay tuned

    In this week's episode, Jas and Pam talk about the struggle of being in their mid-20's. Some people are blacking out every weekend, going out, swiping & some people are getting engaged, married or having babies!! WeEeEee just happen to be the former ๐Ÿคช While it seems like it's all fun and games, there's a lot of pressures that come along with being as single as we are.ย 

    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    17 min
  • FOOD: A Love/Hate Relationship

    CONTENT WARNING:ย 

    • Todayโ€™s episode contains some potentially sensitive and triggering content so listeners discretion is advised. We will be mentioning eating disorders, self harm, body dysmorphia, body image & more.

    Episodes like this are why we made the podcast. We're here to talk about what needs to get talked about, creating a safe place to talk about the taboo, and helping you feel a little less alone. Jas and Jess discuss their individual relationships with food- the good, the bad, the unhealthy. U9% of the population worldwide (ANAD.org) and we don't talk about it enough. If you have any questions or simply need someone to talk to, DM us on Instagram @thatsa_hardpass

    ***BUT if you are in a crisis and need help immediately, text โ€œNEDAโ€ to 741741 to be connected with a trained volunteer at Crisis Text Line.
    You can also CALL orย TEXT (800) 931-2237***

    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    22 min
  • FIRST DATE: smash or pass

    On TikTok, @eveculling encouraged people to have sex on the first date. So, should we have sex on the first date? After 3 dates? 15 DATES????? What are the implications of each? Should the "when" affect how you view someone? Does "wHaT wErE lOoKiNg FoR" affect our decision for when? We answer all of these in this week's episode!


    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    16 min
  • WYD?๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฆ U UP?๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ‘…

    We've all gotten that (probably drunk) text at 3 in the morning asking what we're doing ๐Ÿ‘€ย  Shhhhiiiiiiit, a lot of us have probably sent our fair share (guilty ๐Ÿค ) but this week, we're talking about what we do or not do during a ๐Ÿ†HookUp๐Ÿ‘ What are the PRE-event deliberations like? What do we do after??? WHY DO WE ALL HATE SLEEPING OVER!?!?!?ย 

    And make sure to stay tuned next week when we discuss: Should we frick on the first date? ๐Ÿ™ˆย  (sorry, mom)


    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    16 min
  • RED FLAGS (pt. 2) ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ

    We're back with the same same but different! We got so many ๐Ÿšฉred flags๐Ÿšฉ from all our loyal listeners, that we had to come back and do it againnnnnn (+ a speed round ๐Ÿ‘€).This week we tackle: Jokes ๐Ÿšฉ Saturdays ๐Ÿšฉย  Secrets ๐Ÿšฉ Managers ๐ŸšฉManipulation ๐Ÿšฉ & and the most chaotic speed round known to man ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ


    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    21 min
  • RED FLAGS ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ

    Dating is HARD!! We know...But we're hoping this episode helps you think about what's truly unacceptable: ๐Ÿšฉred๐Ÿšฉflags๐Ÿšฉ "Sometimes it's hard to see the red flags through the rose-colored glasses" (ty, BoJack for the wisdom) but we're more than happy to shed some light on the nonnegotiable.ย 

    Stay tuned for Pt โœŒ๐Ÿปย  next week ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ


    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    19 min
  • Cherry Popped

    HAPPY HALLOWEEK, EVERYONE! This week, to spice it up, we're telling...VIRGINITY STORIES. Sorry to all the family and friends that may be permanently scarred by this content but itiswhatitis ยฏ\_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏย 


    Special thanks to Dan Henig for our Intro & Outro music

    18 min

About That's a Hard Pass

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Just a couple of friends in their mid 20s sharing life experiences: the good, the bad & the ugly. We wanted to create a safe space where we could talk openly & normalize conversations that mayโ€ฆ