That's Fun

Nikki and Damaris respond to a question from Sam in Pittsburgh: Can you still have fun without alcohol?

They dive into the rise of the sober-curious movement, the cultural pressure to drink, and how it all shows up in real life—from work events to weddings to Wednesday night cocktails.

Damaris shares how choosing not to drink has become second nature (but not always easy), while Nikki gets honest about how bartending shaped her relationship with alcohol—and how pregnancy was her first real experience of opting out. They also share how they’ve learned to make space for joy without needing a drink in hand.

Plus:

• What California Sober actually means
• Why the fake pressure to “join in” is still real
• How mocktails and maraschino cherries can change your whole vibe
• The role of self-confidence in social drinking
• And the infamous night they once did tequila shots with Lil Jon at 3am in Atlantic City…and deeply felt it the next day.

As always, the episode starts with what brought some fun into their lives this week—Damaris shares her front porch ritual with press-on nails, and Nikki finds surprising confidence in the perfect sports bra.

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, or simply sober-sometimes…this one’s for you.

Nikki and Damaris tackle a question from Fred in Atlanta: Is it possible to have fun at home—or is that just code for “we’re trying to save money?” From board games and soup nights to scavenger hunts and themed movie marathons, they share the small rituals that make “staying in” feel joyful instead of just practical.

Nikki introduces the concept of “radical acceptance”—and how it’s helped her reclaim energy from daily frustrations—while Damaris explains why she stopped judging her husband’s date night plans and started embracing what actually works.

Plus: popcorn hacks, the case against color-themed parties, and the underrated luxury of a perfect glass of ice water.

As always, they kick things off by sharing what brought joy into their own weeks—Damaris with a music-filled mindset shift, and Nikki with a fresh way of thinking that helped her let go of things she can't control. It's cozy, candid, and full of take-it-or-leave-it ideas you’ll actually want to try.

Nikki and Damaris dig into the world of white tablecloths, prix fixe menus, and $59 glasses of champagne (yes, really). Listener Louise from Buffalo wants to know: is fine dining actually fun—or just something we’ve all convinced ourselves is worth it?

Nikki and Damaris answer by unpacking what makes a restaurant experience memorable (and what absolutely kills the vibe)—from overly quiet rooms to overpriced wine that just doesn’t deliver. Nikki shares her go-to move for making upscale spots feel more relaxed, and Damaris drops tips for turning a fancy dinner into something that actually feels joyful—like lunch instead of dinner, or a seat at the bar instead of the dining room.

They also debate a $729 plant-based tasting menu, reminisce about the glory days of surprise dishes before Instagram menus, and reveal a truly wild story about naked dining in Paris.

And as always, they kick off the convo by sharing what brought them a little joy this week—Damaris finds unexpected peace in feeding backyard squirrels and rescuing worms, while Nikki finally conquers her winter headaches (thanks to a bedside humidifier cloud, naturally).

Whether you’re a foodie, a fine dining skeptic, or just here for the chaos, this episode is a full-course meal of laughs, insights, and very honest opinions.

This week, Nikki and Damaris tackle a question from Carla in Minneapolis: Are museums actually fun…or just something we’re all pretending to enjoy?

From iconic art museums to bizarrely specific collections (looking at you, Museum of Jurassic Technology), they unpack what makes some museum visits magical—and others just a long walk in silence.

Damaris shares how her museum pro of a husband taught her to gamify the experience (would you buy this painting for your mom?), while Nikki reveals the one sculpture she almost dropped $32K on.

And as always, they kick things off by sharing what made their weeks a little more joyful—Damaris builds a new self-care routine (spoiler: it involves very soft washcloths), and Nikki opens up about the nerves and courage behind testing a new business idea.

Whether you’re a diehard museum-goer or a reluctant tagalong, this one’s packed with real talk, unexpected inspiration, and tips to make your next museum trip a little more fun.

Nikki and Damaris dive into the world of all-inclusive vacations—from tropical resorts to cruises and everything in between. They tackle a listener's question about whether all-inclusives are worth the hype, sharing their own stories of dreamy escapes, hilarious mishaps, and the occasional not-so-glamorous experiences (looking at you, closing-weekend Club Med!).

From private island cabanas to tips on setting vacation boundaries (and not blowing the budget), this episode is packed with laughs, practical advice, and a little J-Lo-level fantasy.

Plus, they discuss how to spot a good all-inclusive or cruise, why reviews matter (even if bread is the only highlight), and whether Nikki is finally ready to try her first cruise. Spoiler: a cruise is officially on the horizon for these two. 🛳️✨

Grab your sunscreen and let’s talk vacations!

Nikki and Damaris tackle the joys and chaos of family reunions. From managing 25 relatives under one roof to navigating the sometimes not-so-fun realities of planning for adults who don’t read the e-vites, they share personal stories, tips, and hilarious moments about bringing everyone together.

Nikki talks about hosting the ultimate Dinki family gathering (with air mattresses galore), while Damaris dives into her experience organizing a multi-house reunion for her 16 cousins. The two explore the art of managing expectations, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the quieter moments, like late-night wine chats and s’mores by the fire.

Plus, they answer a listener’s question about making the leap from hotels to vacation rentals. Tip: it’s all about reading the reviews (and counting the bathrooms).

Whether you’re a seasoned reunion planner or the one who just shows up, this episode is packed with laughs and practical advice to make your next family gathering one to remember!

This week on That's Fun, Nikki and Damaris dive into the world of staycations. Whether it’s staying in a treehouse, biking through Fire Island, or booking a quirky "unique stay" (from an artist-designed apartment to a hobbit house), they share the charm and occasional chaos of these mini-adventures.

Nikki recounts her family’s staycation struggles navigating a shared vacation home with in-laws (pro tip: bring blackout curtains and patience), while Damaris highlights the magical moments of sleeping under the stars—on a treehouse platform, no less. They also explore the pros and cons of pools vs. RVs, helping one listener decide which adventure fits their new, simplified lifestyle.

Nikki and Damaris tackle the growing trend of "experience" attractions — from the world's largest bouncy house to Instagram-sold pop-ups like the Trolls Experience or slime museums. Are these activities worth the price tag, or should you pivot to something more memorable?

Nikki shares her rollercoaster adventure (literally AND figuratively!) with a rain-soaked bouncy house, wet socks, and varying fun levels. Meanwhile, Damaris looks forward to an over-the-top Bridgerton Ball and explains why the lead-up to an event — crafting costumes and prepping with friends — can sometimes be the most enjoyable part.

Plus, they offer tips for families traveling with kids and how to find meaningful local experiences that won’t break the bank.

Whether you’re debating between a pop-up museum or a Broadway show, this episode is packed with insights and laughs to help you make the most of your next adventure!

Nikki and Damaris dive into the world of self-care, exploring pampering techniques that are fun, not-so-fun, and downright questionable. Nikki recounts her less-than-relaxing facial experience, while Damaris passionately defends the joys of monthly facials and the magic of dermaplaning (“We all have fur!”). They also debate massages, laser treatments, and whether silence during a spa treatment is a blessing or a curse.

The duo takes a listener question from Lori in Savannah, who’s planning a budget-friendly bachelorette spa day. Nikki and Damaris share creative and cost-effective ideas like DIY nail stations, experimental beauty tools (jade rollers, dry brushes, and under-eye bag drops!), and nostalgic face mask fun. Plus, Damaris talks up the oddly meditative experience of floating in a sensory deprivation tank.

Whether you're a fan of intense treatments or crave the calming vibes of a spa day, there’s something for everyone in this hilarious and relatable conversation.

Follow along on Instagram @NikkiandDamaris for beauty hacks, pampering tips, and behind-the-scenes fun!

Nikki and Damaris dive into the joys (frustrations?) of games, puzzles, and playful adventures.

Damaris shares her board game escapades with the fabulous Carla Hall, revealing their secret LA hangout where board game lovers and D&D fans unite for $5 all-day fun. Nikki reflects on her own love-hate relationship with puzzles, thanks to a well-intentioned but questionable gift from her husband.

The duo also tackles a listener question about family-friendly games. They share their top recommendations for adults, kids, and everyone in between, explaining why quick, creative, and laugh-out-loud games are the key to bringing groups together (and avoiding awkward silences).

Tune in for relatable laughs, creative game ideas, and a reminder that not all activities are worth the struggle.

And follow along on Instagram @NikkiandDamaris for game recommendations, outfit inspo, and more!