In this episode, Trudi & Weeze break down a real-life example of what happens when a White Ally tries to do something to raise awareness about racial justice but instead just centers whiteness. Hear a breakdown of what happened online that caused many racial justice educators to step in and call out problematic behaviors and understand why Glennon Doyle rightfully decided to cancel her webinar about Race in America. Remember to check us out in the Facebook group to join the conversation: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThatsNotHowThatWorks/

In this episode, Weeze shares an experience that she had recently in a coaching program. Although you'll hear the details of what happened we ask you to zoom out and think about the broader lessons here. Consider: How should we respond when someone tells us we have hurt or offended them? If we are on a journey to "do better", how can we engage in uncomfortable discourse when the impact of our words is different from your intent? How do we further the erasure of dismissal of marginalized communities? If you want to create a diverse community in your business, this episode is a must. We invite you to engage with us more on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/about/

In this episode, we share the tale of what happened when Weeze came to Hartford, CT! What started out as a regular work trip, turned into an amazing story of accomplice-ship. Special Shout out to Bryce, and the crew at Wood & Tap in Hartford! Good job doing better! Remember to join us on FB to keep the conversation going: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/about/

In this episode, Trudi and Weeze discuss one of THE MOST POPULAR questions they get. Should I offer scholarships for my coaching program? We will get into the What, Why and How of scholarships and we'll also talk about the WRONG reasons to be offering scholarships. As always, we'd love to know what you think. Join us over in the Facebook group for more conversations. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/about/

In this episode, Weeze and Trudi provide their definitive, unequivocal answer to the questions: Can people of color be racist? Can white folks experience racism? Is reverse racism real? To continue the discussion join us in our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/

In this episode, Weeze and Trudi and joined by guest co-host Catrice Jackson. The ladies explore the concept of race as a disease and debate whether there are differences between a racist and racist behavior if white folks can move past racism into antiracism and if that should even be a word.

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In this episode, Weeze and Trudi take some time to break down Nike's 2018 Just Do It Campaign starring Colin Kaepernick. Is Nike now trying to be an ally? Are they taking a stand with Colin? Or is it just a very smart marketing campaign targeting the changing demographics of our country? We'll address all that at more. Remember to join the FaceBook Group to continue the conversation: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/

In this episode, Weeze and Trudi are joined by guest Geraldine DeRuiter, a writer, and speaker who Trudi met at World Domination Summit in June 2018. Geraldine joins the show to explain her awakening to all things race, privilege, and power, and tried to help Trudi and Weeze figure out what to say to get more white folks on board. Remember to join us in the FB Group to continue the discussion: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/ PS: Shout out to Geraldine's mom and husband for helping her Step the all the way up! Thank y'all for doing better!

Did y'all watch the VMA's? Well, our dear friend Madonna showed up and showed out and we have to discuss this. Madonna's outfit leads us to a more important conversation about the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation. We provide definitions, insights, and, as always, ideas for how to do better. Don't forget to join us in the That's Not How That Works Facebook group for more information, links, and our weekly FB lives: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853

In episode 20 we welcome our first ever guest co-host to join us in a discussion about spiritual coaching, and how it can all go wrong when people use race to divide us. Je Tuan opens up about a recent experience with a coach was took advantage of many people and used race to silence people, divide people, and profit. This is a very important episode. Please join us for the discussion in the That's Not How That Works Facebook Group at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1077973785700853/about/