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Hi my dears,

First, my apologies for this inconvenience of a man's voice, opinions and thoughts.

In this episode, I chat with my friend Manny and dive into the mind of man so you don't have to! We talk about empathy, love, relationships, sex, exes and amongst other things!

It was so fun chatting with Manny and I hope you guys enjoy it as much as I did!

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Hi MY DEARS,

Hope all is well! Voting for a black woman for president was a moment of hope that quickly turned into a whirlwind of emotions with the unexpected election results. Join me on this emotional journey as I navigate the aftermath of political upheaval, confronting the harsh realities of those around me who supported an opposing candidate. This episode of That's so Thinkative offers a deeply personal reflection on resilience, particularly the resilience of black women who, despite consistently lifting others, often find themselves let down. I share insights into the emotional toll the election has taken on communities like mine and discuss the necessity of a social media cleanse to protect my mental health.

Switching gears, I open up about my personal growth, revisiting my journey from seeking validation from others to embracing self-love and worth. From humorous tales of past relationships to reflecting on my 2015 goals, I celebrate how far I've come and where I aim to go. You'll also get a glimpse of my passion for basketball, focusing on the LA Clippers' latest games, players, and season highlights. This episode promises a blend of emotional reflection, personal triumphs, and a dash of sports enthusiasm, all woven together to provide an engaging and thought-provoking experience.


TimeCodes:

0:01

Processing Election Results and Moving Forward

7:17

Reflecting on the Notes in my phone

13:20

What's going on with Clippers - Basketball Thoughts

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Hi my dears,

......It is Election Day and ya girl is
simply..... PRAYING for the BEST!!!
This is not a super political podcast nor
will it ever be but I wanted to take this
time to do an episode listing a few
random and UNUSUAL facts about a few
former presidents. I talk about who I
voted for and  we also hear from my
alter ego Nelly Nel!  

 I pray that this day is a step forward
and wishing us all A HOPEFUL AND
HAPPY DAY!!! Sending you all my
love!!

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Hi my dears!!!

In this episode, I talk with one of my favorite people ever, Ay Gabe! I met Gabe back in college when we were both journalism majors and realized we share the same birthdayyy!! We've been friends ever since! <3

We talk about his latest project, “Objects in the mirror,” his musical influences and what he wants to do next. Hope you guys enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed catching up with him!

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Hi!<3

In this episode, I talk about my journey with myself! I reflect on my negative beliefs and learning to accept all versions of me!

THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE I THINK I EVER DONE?? No lie.... as I'm typing this I am listening to it with my feet in the air <3

What a gift it is to rebuild yourself. What a gift it is to exist. I hope you enjoy this episode and wishing you a safe journey back to you, MY DEAR.

-da baddest


Shout out Asia @https.asiaj for your submission for the question of the week <3 I am proud of you to my dear!!
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Hi, my dears!!

Hope all is well! In this episode, I do my FIRST DEEP DIVE OF THE SEASON and talk about Ms. Eartha Kitt!! Learning about her and her life felt so inspirational and I was in awe of the woman she became after her rough upbringing. She was kind, curious, mighty, RESILIENT, and ICONIC!!

I read the book "Eartha and Kitt" by Kitt Shapiro, Eartha's only child. I shared the stories I read about in the book and how their relationship reminded me of my own relationship with my mother. I hope you guys enjoy the first deep dive and can't wait to share more of what I learn in the next one!!

-da baddest

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Hi my dear!! Hope all is well! In this episode, my mom shares 2 wild stories of her getting into a car accident after placing her panties on the rear view mirror and catching her man at the time cheating at hotel with her friend LOL

We also talk about our different views on love. Her idea is more “Sharing is caring, cause I can cheat better” and mine is more “i’d rather be alone” LMAOOOO

I kept saying bonus episode in this episode but it’s not LOL... well anytime you get to hear from my mom, it is a BONUS. Anyways,  I hope y’all enjoy it, see ya next week <3

-da baddest

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Did you miss me????

I know you did <3 For my first episode of the season, I talk about my heartbreak experiences and the things that I learned. I look at heartbreak so DIFFERENTLY now.

I now think heartbreak is a gift and the gift is you. I got me back! NOT THE OLD ME but the me I can be proud of. The me I am sure of. The me that I can TRUST.

I am so grateful to me that I allowed myself to fall apart and become a new. If you are dealing with any kind of heartbreak, I am sending you all my love and hoping that you let this lesson be truly felt so that you can see the gift left behind.

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"You will keep running. 
You will keep avoiding the mirror.
You will keep acting, dancing, and doing what they want,
..until you can no longer breathe,
and you fall into your grave.. embracing the man who was never you"

Passing Clouds: Synesthesia 

a note from your host inspired by this quote.

See you next season!

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IT’S THE LAST EPISODE OF THE FIRST SEASON!!!!!!!

hiiii <3 OMG!! I DID IT! We made it through the first season!! I am so grateful to all of you for being patient, supporting me, and tuning in. It’s been such a rewarding experience to push myself and I can’t wait to see what it will be like to PUSH MYSELF EVEN MORE!!!

In this episode, I reflect on the first season. I talk about what I’m proud of, what I want to improve on, and what you can expect next season. We also get a last check-in with Nelly Nel <3

Thank you guys again and you’ll hear from me sooner than you think, my dears!!


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