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In my second deep dive episode, I dive into DMX’s business to share bits of pieces of his life and career!

I share some of the stories told in his autobiography, “E.A.R.L.” and stories I read about online.

DMX, formerly known as Crazy Earl, and then DMX the Great, was a raw, ICONIC and vulnerable rapper from Yonkers! His music is rough, dark, spiritual but shows who ...DMX truly is,  “a man who never was a boy.”

It truly is a blessing to leave behind something that will stay with world forever. Rest in Paradise to a LEGEND. Send me some of your favorite DMX songs!!! Thank you for listening!

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WORK KINDA CITED:

https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/people-african-american-history/dmx-earl-simmons-1970-2021/

https://thevogue.com/artists/dmx/

Book: E.A.R.L : The Autobiography of DMX Book by DMX and Smokey Fontaine

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Hope all is well!

Girrrrlllllll,  I am sharing some of my notes in my phone in this episode!!

I read off some of my most dramatic, vulnerable, funny or random notes. I also explain what I was probably feeling or doing at the time... or at least try to lmao

I also asked my friends to do so and I am so grateful to them for doing so <3

Thank you for listening and I'll see you next week :)

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DID YOU MISS ME????????????

LIE TO ME LIKE EVERY MAN I'VE EVER DATED DID AND SAY YESSSS :)

LOL in this episode I talk about my season of singleness and what I've learned in this time period. 

Let me know what your single period was like???


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in this episode, I sit down with my FIRST BEST FRIEND & LEO COUSIN, NIJA!!

We chat about our childhood crushes, embarrassing things we used to do as a kid and what our childhood was really like.

Me and Nija been locked in since birth and it’s like no time has passed when we are back together <333

I am so grateful that I got to grow up with the funniest, sweetest, courageous and PRETTIEST woman ever! I am so proud of you & the woman you are & I LOVE YOU NIJAAA!

Nija's IG - @_Januaryk


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Welcome backkkk!!

I said I wanted to get more vulnerable, so cheers to me starting to!

In this episode, I open up about the father figure relationships in my life and what that has meant to & for me.

I was blessed to have 2 main father figures in my life and love them both dearly.

Hope by me being vulnerable and opening up, it helps you dissect your own father figure relationships and how it has impacted your life. Sending you all my love, my dear!!!

Thank you for listening, I am so appreciative of you!

Please don't forget to rate, like, comment and subscribe!!!

I appreciate it!!!

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back with another episode!!! How y'all doing??? we doing a midseason check in!!!!! 

I talk about how I'm feeling about the season so far, what I want to improve on and what I'm looking forward to. 

Please don't forget to rate, like, comment and subscribe!!!

I appreciate it!!!

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Warning: This episode contains references to suicidal thoughts and drug abuse

Hi,
In my first deep dive episode , I dive into my favorite artist of all time’s life and career, Marvin Gaye Jr.

Marvin was an influential artist and was named the “Prince of Soul.” His soft, beautiful and gentle voice would not only put you “in the mood” but also make you reflect on the world around you.

A link to my favorite songs by Marvin are included below and all the cites I used to find out this knowledge. Hope you guys enjoy this episode and see ya next Tuesday!

Shout to my Mom for adding her insight,  love you mommy!!

As always, thank you so much for listening. If you like, please rate the show and comment a rating <3

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Playlist: ALL MY FAV SONGS BY MARVIN

Marvin Gaye Playlist

WORKS KINDA CITED:

https://www.marvingaye.net

https://www.biography.com/musicians/marvin-gaye

Death of A Rockstar Podcast - Marvin Gaye

Crimes of Passion, PT. 1 AND 2 - Marvin Gaye

https://english.elpais.com/culture/2024-04-01/the-tragedy-of-marvin-gaye-from-changing-the-course-of-soul-music-to-dying-at-the-hands-of-his-father.html

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Hello my Dears!!

Welcome back to another episode! I am so grateful for you for tuning in and it is greatly appreciated! In this episode, I have a yap session about my weekend with my friends, food I ate this weekend (very taurus of me) and coming to the realization that I am indeed bubbles from the powderpuff girls.

Anyways, hope you enjoy this episode. Please check my YouTube channel for VLOGS of this weekend and also VLOG of Mother's Day with my family. My YouTube channel is linked below!!!

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Happy Mother's Day!!!

for this episode, I had my mom as my special guest. We talked about her life, motherhood, her interesting takes on love and life, drugs and growth. I want to send all my love to those who may have a tough time during this holiday and send my love to all the wonderful mothers out there. I am so grateful for mine and all the other women who played as mother figure in my life. I LOVE YOU.

TIME CODES:
Childhood/Racism/Middle child - 5:55
Teenage : 12:12
Meeting her husband and marry young: 13:13
Her take on Love and her first heartbreak/ her advice to young folks about love: 19:40
Motherhood: 23:10
My mom’s drug history and recovery 26:00
Story time: 27:00
Biggest lesson she learned 30:20
This or that: 31:00

WORK KINDA CITED:
Link to TikTok Mentioned
Washington Post
National Geo

if you like this, please like, follow, subscribe, and all that good stuff, THANK YOU MY DEAR!!

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Episode 4

not our fourth date????

in this episode I talk about the feeling of not being enough and the areas I have experienced it in my life.

Intro 
Question of the week: 1:35ish
Answering the question of the week:1:45ish
Story time of the first time I felt not enough : 3:45
Where it the feeling of “not enough” comes from: 6:20ish 
What has helped me navigate thru this feeling : 7:30ish
Advice segment: 14:00 ish


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