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Attention and Meditation (10% Happier Self Care Journey) 1/27/20
I Can't Keep It Going (10% Happier Self Care Journey) 1/16/20
• Progress. Vs. Perfection....It's normal to have times in your practice where you lack consistency. Don't judge yourself and realize that using short times of deep breathing and mindfulness can happen anywhere and at any time. The goal is momentary intention which leads to consistent progress....not the unrealistic idea of perfection.
* Set goals that are so realistic and easy that it's virtually impossible to be inconsistent. Then add other more involved and complex goals on "top" over time. This way no matter what you always achieve consistency.
• Take time to "do nothing". With our day to day movement this practice can actually feel more stressful than other more obvious stressful activities. The goal is to practice this little by little to change our relationship with stillness over time.
• Periodically drop noting and focus and allow your mind to wander. The simple practice of doing this intentionally initiates reverse psychology allowing you to focus better when needed.
• Learn to enjoy your own company and always extend gratitude, gratefulness and thankfulness to yourself for intentionally making it a priority to make time for your self care.
The Brain On Meditation (10% Happier Self Care Journey) 1/17/20
• Cross sectional studies show that atrophy of the brain happens significantly less with those who meditate regularly.
• Exploring shifts between focused attention and mind wandering develops intentional and aware mind control.
• Through focused attention alone you are dampening and decreasing activity in the limbic system, a primitive area of the brain important for initiating and sustaining the stress response.
• This type of practice offers a chance to explore what it's like to direct our attention in two very different ways.
1. Focusing your attention helps to stabilize the mind from frequent distractions, improve stress, depression and anxiety.
2. Letting the mind wander intentionally improves understanding of how the mind works, flexibility, a non judgemental attitude and acts as reverse psychology toward the goal of becoming more focused.
• The more we can understand how the mind works and our capacity to train it, focus and be flexible the better resourced we are to meet the range of emotions, perceptions and thoughts that we have every moment of every day.
"________" Is My Meditation (10% Happier Self Care Journey) 1/15/20
• Meditation and mindfulness can be done during ANY activity. In fact the more activities the practice is invited into the better. Intention is the only ingredient needed to initiate this formula.
• Welcome everything into the experience and make a decision that you're going to work to not get uptight about anything.
• Always start with a focal point (the breath, point in the body, sound etc.) and use noting to bring you back "home" to the focal point when you inevitably get distracted.
* "Welcome to the party" - Use this statement to have a gentle and friendly approach to your surroundings. At some point nothing or no one will have to leave the party in order for you to be in a state of mindfulness and meditation.
• Periodically allow yourself to detach from your focus to examine and explore the other aspects of your surroundings. This actually creates better control to stay focused on your home base by not trying to block out, but welcoming your surroundings. Try to scan your surroundings without over analyzing.
I'll Loose My "Edge" (10% Happier Self Care Journey) 1/14/20
• Many people think that meditation will make them "soft". It's actually quite the contrary. Meditation and mindfulness breeds equanimity, compassion, clarity, clear and rational thinking and an "even keel-ness" that actually allows you to deal with all situations better. Those that require calmness and those that require aggressive alertness.
• The tendacy is to think that the best way to deal with stress or stressful situations is to agressively "stuff it down" or "be stronger" however the more rigid you are the more deeply it permeates your system. Opening up to it allows the energy to move through giving you the ability to reset and come back to an experience more healthy, positively and fully.
• This practice increases your capacity and develops invaluable skills for high intensity jobs especially where deescalating situations is a regular part of the daily work like being a police officer, fire fighter, etc. because you develop the ability to deal with intense situations with more clarity and less mindless impulsiveness.
• Clarity is the ability to "tease out" the details of our experience.
• Equanimity - Mental calmness, composure and evenness of temper especially in difficult situations. The ability to receive challenging energy without returning the favor.
• Learn to enjoy your own company and always extend gratitude, gratefulness and thankfulness to yourself for intentionally making it a priority to make time for your self care.
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