Who else has ADHD? Our guest noticed a lack of sexuality-related info for people with attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder. For two decades he has served people who need help with dating, sex, self-care and relating. Let’s learn and laugh with therapist and author Ari Tuckman.

3:00 he wrote the books because there was a lack of help for ADHD-ers

5:00 a lot of mental health and medical pros have little or no sex education

7:00 he gravitates to people with ADHD

10:00 how does ADHD make dating hard for you?

14:00 more examples

19:00 people-pleasing behaviors

25:00 maintaining interest after novelty wanes

30:00 ADHD and staying in the mood 

34:00 moving on after oopsies

37:00 other tips for re-directing your attention

41:00 more ways that ADHD can show up during sex

44:00 one study about ADHD people and sex

49:00 quirky can be charming or annoying, truly 

55:00 medication and sleep question

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