The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi

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The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi episodes

  • Why You Still Feel Anxious Even When Life Looks Fine

    Everything looks fine from the outside. Good job. Good relationships. No obvious crisis. And underneath all of it — a hum of anxiety that never fully quiets. That gap between how your life looks and how your nervous system feels is not irrational. It is information. Dr. Jenny Martin specializes in exactly the kind of anxiety that hides inside capable, high-functioning people — the kind that gets minimized because there is no obvious reason for it and pushed down because there is no time to deal with it. What she has found about what anxiety is actually trying to tell you will change how you relate to every anxious moment you have been trying to think your way out of. This episode stops fighting the symptom and starts listening to the signal.

    You’ll learn:

    🧠 Why anxiety is a nervous system signal
    💡 Why high-functioning people often miss the warning signs
    🔍 How to identify anxiety patterns in daily life
    ❤️ Why self-judgment keeps anxiety stuck
    ⚡ Small tools that can help you build real change

    Connect with Dr. Jenny Martin:

    Website: gemstonewellness.com
    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jenny-martin-psyd-2935888
    Instagram: @gemstonewellness
    TikTok: @gemstonewellnessinc

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    37 min
  • Why Smart, Capable Women Still Feel Stuck — And It Has Nothing to Do With Willpower

    You know what to do. You have known for a long time. And knowing has not been enough. That gap between understanding the problem and actually breaking free from it is where so many capable women quietly lose faith in themselves — not because they are weak but because they have been fighting the wrong battle with the wrong tools. Christine Trimpe has been inside that cycle and found her way out — and what she shares about self-trust, shame, and what it actually takes to start doing hard things again goes straight to the root that willpower was never designed to reach. This episode is not about trying harder. It is about finally trying differently.

    You’ll learn:

    🧠 Why willpower often isn’t the real problem
    🔍 What may actually be keeping you stuck
    🌱 How small daily choices can create lasting freedom


    🔗Connect with Christine Trimpe:

    Website: https://christinetrimpe.com/
    SugarFreed Book: https://christinetrimpe.com/sugarfreed/
    📱Follow Christine Trimpe:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachchristinetrimpe/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristineTrimpeLLC
    X: https://x.com/TrimpeChristine
    YouTube: https://youtube.com/christinetrimpe
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-trimpe-07123299/

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    52 min
  • Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys

    From the time they are small, most boys receive a clear and consistent message — feelings are weakness, crying is embarrassing, and strength means staying quiet. By the time they are grown those lessons have become walls. Walls that damage relationships, block connection, and leave men emotionally stranded in moments that require them to show up fully. Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst has spent her career studying what boys actually need — not to become softer, but to become whole. What she shares about emotional vocabulary, the role of fathers, and what parents can do right now — even if they feel like they have already made mistakes — will change how you raise the boys in your life and how you understand the men they will become.

    You'll Learn:

    ✨ Why boys are often taught to suppress emotion

    🧠 How emotional disconnection shows up later in relationships
    💬 What true emotional strength actually looks like
    📖 How parents can build emotional vocabulary at home
    👨‍👦 Why fathers and male role models matter so much
    🔄 What to do if you feel like you’ve already made mistakes


    Connect with Dr. Gloria K. Vanderhorst
    Website: https://drvanderhorst.com/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloria-vanderhorst-ph-d-730826b/
    Business Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvanderhorst
    Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gloria.vanderhorst.7
    Substack: https://gloriavanderhorstphd.substack.com/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/results?sp=mAEB&search_query=gloria+vanderhorst
    Seeking secure, virtual therapy in Maryland or Washington, D.C.? Learn more and request a telehealth session on her website!

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    44 min
  • When Life Changes Overnight — How to Find Yourself Again on the Other Side

    You did not see it coming. One moment life looked one way and the next it looked completely different — and nobody handed you a map for what comes after. Jenny White knows that moment. A brain tumor diagnosis changed everything she thought she knew about herself, her identity, and her future in an instant. What she rebuilt on the other side — through writing, faith, and a willingness to start before she felt ready — is a guide for anyone who is standing in the wreckage of a life that no longer looks familiar. You do not have to have it figured out. You just have to take one step. This episode will help you find it.

    You’ll learn:

    ✨ How to rebuild after a life-altering event
    🧠 What healing and identity reinvention can really look like
    📚 How Jenny turned pain into purpose through writing
    🌱 One small step to start creating a new future
    Connect with Jenny White:
    Website: https://www.jennywhite.ca/
    Facebook: authorjennywhite
    Instagram: author.jennywhite

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    30 min
  • Who Are You Without Your Achievement — And Why AI Is Making That Question Urgent

    You have built your identity around what you produce. What you accomplish. How much you get done. And now AI is quietly doing more of that — faster, cheaper, without needing sleep. For high achievers that is not just a productivity shift. It is an identity crisis. Megan Mazzocco works at the intersection of burnout, sleep, and the deeper question of who we are when the doing stops. What she has found about overachievement as a coping mechanism — and what rest, stillness, and disconnecting from output actually require in the age of AI — is the conversation every exhausted high performer needs to have before the crisis forces it. This episode will help you find yourself underneath everything you have been achieving.

    They explore:

    ✨ Why sleep is foundational to mental and physical health
    🧠 How overachievement can become a coping mechanism
    🤖 Why AI is intensifying identity disruption
    🌿 Practical ways to reconnect with yourself through rest, nature, and stillness

    🌐 Connect with Megan Mazzocco and Wellbeing X Design!

    Website: https://meganmazzocco.com

    The Sleep System - 28 Days to Better Sleep: https://meganmazzocco.com/thesleepsystem

    Instagram: https://instagram.com/wellbeingxdesign

    Facebook: https://facebook.com/wellbeingxdesign

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    59 min
  • Burnout Doesn't Just Exhaust You — It Steals the Way You Used to Think

    You used to have ideas. Energy for problems. A mind that made connections and found solutions naturally. And somewhere in the constant stress and relentless output that version of you went quiet. Burnout does not just drain your energy — it fundamentally changes how your brain works, suppressing the creative thinking, clear decision-making, and emotional resilience that used to feel effortless. Dr. Andre Walton has spent his career studying exactly what chronic stress does to the thinking mind — and what it actually takes to bring it back. This is not about taking a vacation. It is about understanding what your brain needs to rebuild from the inside out.

    You’ll Learn:

    🧠 Why stress reduces creative thinking
    🔥 How burnout impacts decision-making
    🌱 The link between creativity and emotional resilience
    🚶 Why walking, rest, and reflection help the brain reset
    ⚠️ How to recognize early signs of burnout recurrence
    💡 Simple ways to begin rebuilding creativity

    Learn more about Dr. André Walton

    Speaking & keynotes: ⁠https://plan4change.org/⁠

    Coaching & programs: ⁠https://www.hiredrandre.com/⁠


    Follow on Socials!

    X (Twitter): ⁠https://twitter.com/DRplan4change⁠

    LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/plan4change/⁠

    Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/drandrewalton⁠

    YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@PLAN4CHANGE⁠

    Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drandrewalton/⁠

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    54 min
  • Tired, Heavy, and Emotionally Off — What If Your Energy Is the Missing Piece?

    The lab work came back fine. You are getting enough sleep. Nothing is technically wrong — and yet you feel drained in certain rooms, depleted around certain people, and carrying a heaviness you cannot explain or locate. That is not imagination. It may be your energy system signaling an imbalance that conventional medicine was never designed to detect. Sondra Bailey has spent her career working at exactly that level — helping people understand what their energy is doing, why it gets disrupted, and simple ways to start restoring it. If you have ever felt like something is off that nobody has been able to name, this episode will give you a completely new place to look.

    You’ll learn:

    ✨ What energy healing is in simple terms
    ✨ How the aura and chakras work together
    ✨ Signs your energy may be out of balance
    ✨ Why some people feel drained in certain environments
    ✨ Simple ways to support and protect your energy
    ✨ How grounding may help you feel calmer and clearer


    Connect with Sondra Bailey!

    🌐 Website: https://www.shamansondra.com/

    📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1GssfsQacA/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shamansondra

    ▶️ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@shamansondra

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    32 min
  • The Story Your Body Tells When You're in Survival Mode

    Your body has been trying to tell you something. The tension that never fully releases. The exhaustion that sleep does not fix. The hypervigilance that fires even when nothing is actually wrong. Survival mode does not announce itself — it just quietly becomes the way you live until you cannot remember what it felt like before. Dr. Randolph Schiffer has spent his career studying the intersection of fear, grief, and neurological resilience — and what he explains about why the body stays stuck in survival long after the threat has passed will change how you understand everything you have been feeling. You are not broken. You are responding. This episode shows you how to finally respond differently.

    Connect with Dr. Randolph B. Schiffer:

    To learn more about Dr. Randolph B. Schiffer, his work, and his books, visit randolphbschiffer.com.

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    36 min
  • Stiffness After 40 Isn't Aging and Stretching Won't Fix It

    Stiffness that greets you every morning despite daily yoga, stretching, and doing everything right — that's not aging, and it's not your fault. Muscles don't actually stretch. They tighten on orders from a nervous system responding to trouble inside your joints, which is why pounding on the muscles never works.

    Jeff Bailey, founder of Avita Yoga and author of Mobility for Life, breaks down the muscles-to-bones-to-joints formula that calms the system from the inside. You'll leave knowing why hip openers backfire and what to do tonight instead.

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    CONNECT WITH JEFF BAILEY
    🌐 Website: https://avitayogaonline.com/
    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avita_yoga_online
    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-bailey-yoga
    ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jeffbaileyyoga
    📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/avitayogaonline/
    📚 Book: Mobility for Life, https://mobilityforlifebook.com
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    46 min
  • The Emotional Eating Trap That Keeps You Stuck in the Sugar Cycle

    You have started over more times than you can count. Monday motivation. January resolutions. After the holiday. After the vacation. And every cycle ends the same way — not because you lack discipline but because the trap is deeper than discipline can reach. Christine Trimpe lived that cycle for years before she understood what was actually driving it — not just emotionally but metabolically. The way sugar affects hunger hormones, energy, and cravings creates a biological loop that willpower was never designed to break alone. What she found on the other side of yo-yo dieting is not another plan. It is a completely different understanding of why your body has been working against you — and what finally makes it stop.

    🔗Connect with Christine Trimpe:
    Website: https://christinetrimpe.com/
    SugarFreed Book: https://christinetrimpe.com/sugarfreed/
    📱Follow Christine Trimpe:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachchristinetrimpe/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristineTrimpeLLC
    X: https://x.com/TrimpeChristine
    YouTube: https://youtube.com/christinetrimpe
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-trimpe-07123299/

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    30 min

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