By Chris Wong & Lucie Tesarova
The podcast currently has 45 episodes available.
What can you say if your wife wants a separation? Or a divorce?
If you’re like most men, you’ll feel blindsided and/or you’ll immediately try to figure out how to solve this problem. Unfortunately, that’s actually not the right way to approach it at all.
In this week’s episode, Lucie and Chris talk with Randy, an experienced relationship coach focused on helping separated husbands reconnect with their wives. His faith-based methods center around growing closer to Christ and becoming the best version of ourselves, which provides the greatest chance of reconciling marriages.
Here he shares his best tips, including:
Why talking about it may not actually be the best option
Randy collaborates with professionals, business owners, and executives. Good men who accept responsibility for their part in the breakdown of their marriage and seek to reconnect with their wives. Through live sessions and actionable strategies, Randy and his coaches support them while holding them accountable, ensuring their relationships improve.
Before coaching, Randy was a professional comedy magician/juggler on cruise ships all over the world. His previous experience in the “funny business” helps lighten the mood when discussing the serious topics of separation and divorce, and helps husbands realize that, with Christ, there is ALWAYS hope.
Connect with Randy here:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachrandypryor/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@hopeforseparatedhusbands
Website: https://RandyPryor.com or http://SOSRandy.com
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In this episode, Chris and Lucie discuss what to do when someone keeps interrupting you while you speak, or, when you are the one who keeps interrupting others and want to stop :)
Key Takeaways:
Reasons for Interrupting:
How to Stop Interrupting Yourself:
How to Deal with People who Interrupt:
Any other ideas, what has worked for you?
Let us know!
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Navigating Political Conversations at Work
Politics can seem super divisive. And really, how do we talk about it in the workplace?
In this episode, We talk with Chris, a diversity, inclusion, and belonging expert at Navy Federal Credit Union about the challenges of navigating political conversations in the workplace, particularly during a charged election season.
Here are some key takeaways from the episode:
Chris Geggie is a leadership development coach whose passion is helping people discover their authentic voice. Drawing from his experience as a teacher and community organizer, Geggie has coached electoral candidates and business leaders to guide themselves and others toward ethical decision making and the strategic execution of their vision, mission, and goals. He is currently an internal business consultant with Navy Federal Credit Union’s Diversity, Inclusion and Belonging team and lives with his partner and dog in Baltimore, MD.
Connect with Chris Geggie here:
Linkedin - Www.LinkedIn.com/in/chrisgeggie/
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Setting boundaries with our family members might be the most difficult thing for many of us, yet not doing so might be very detrimental to our well-being and other relationships.
Imagine that your parent cannot stand your spouse and is very vocal about it. What do you do in that situation? How do you address it?
Tune in today's episode and see what from we share resonates with you.
Have you faced that situation in your family? How did you address it? What worked for you, what didn't? Let us know! Let's learn together, have better conversations and better relationships, and ultimately, a better quality of life.
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Sometimes, the hardest conversations we need are with ourselves.
Mainly, how do we find confidence in what we’re doing, even in the face of adversity? And more so, how do we build supports around us that inspire and move us, rather than pull us down?
Today, we interview Emily Aarons, a leading educator to spiritual entrepreneurs, renowned energy healer, and business coach. She shares about her journey and struggles in building a business and the often-difficult conversations that are needed internally to grow and learn.
We talk about:
- What it’s like to create a path with no prior example of what that path looks like
- How to build confidence in our own skills and talents
- How to learn to listen to our intuition
With over two decades of experience blending spirituality and business, Emily’s mission is to help outstanding practitioners to build a successful and sustainable business. Her dedication to excellence is setting the gold standard to see leadership as a spiritual practice.
If you’re a budding entrepreneur, a small business owner, or just looking to better trust your own gut instinct, listen to this episode!
Connect with Emily here:
Https://emilyaarons.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/emilyaarons/
Podcast - https://emilyaarons.com/podcast/
Email – [email protected]
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In this episode of "The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations," hosts Chris Wong and Lucie Tesarova dive deep into the complex issue of managing resistance to change, especially when it comes to implementing new technologies in the workplace.
Resistance to change is a common challenge in organizations of all sizes. Whether it’s introducing new software, processes, or policies, getting everyone on board can be tough. Chris and Lucie discuss why employees might resist changes, especially technological ones, and explore the underlying psychological factors contributing to this pushback.
Through an engaging conversation, Chris and Lucie share practical strategies for leaders and managers to navigate these tough conversations effectively. They role-play real-life scenarios, offer insightful tips, and discuss best practices for fostering a culture of openness and collaboration. You'll learn how to communicate change effectively, maintain employee morale, and ensure a smoother transition.
Key Takeaways:
Who Should Listen:
This episode is perfect for HR professionals, managers, team leaders, and anyone looking to improve their leadership and communication skills. If you're interested in navigating difficult conversations and managing change more effectively, this episode is for you!
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Summary:
You know what’s hard? Talking about money with your partner or family.
You know what’s even harder?
Talking about money and estate planning and death.
With over two decades in the financial services realm, Christopher Hensley's journey has been driven by a singular passion: helping individuals navigate the intricate paths of finance to achieve their life aspirations. His dedication isn't just rooted in numbers and strategies; it's about making genuine connections and empowering people with the knowledge they need for a secure future.
Today, Christopher joins us to share his tips from decades in the work, how to navigate difficult conversations around finances and death.
He truly helps demystify:
- How the legal and financial documents seem daunting, but are actually easier than you think
- The importance of having these conversations in case something happens
- How to navigate complicated family dynamics so you can honor your family’s legacy
Christopher's foundation in the industry is robust. He's collaborated with Fortune 500 frontrunners like Merrill Lynch and UBS Financial Services and has made significant contributions to non-profits, notably with MMI-Consumer Credit Counselors Southwest. His credentials, including licenses from FINRA and designations like the Retirement Income Certified Professional® and the Certified Estate and Trust Specialist™, speak volumes about his commitment to professional growth and expertise.
But beyond the certificates and affiliations, what truly sets Christopher apart is his ability to communicate. For a decade, he's been the voice behind the radio/podcast show “Money Matters” on KPFT Houston, demystifying complex financial concepts for a broad audience. His insights have been sought after by platforms like Wall Street Journal Radio and 1110 KTEK Business Builders Network Radio, and he's provided expert commentary on market trends in renowned publications.
Christopher's community involvement further underscores his dedication. As the former President of the Houston Midtown Chapter of the Society for Financial Awareness, he's delivered financial literacy seminars across Houston and the Gulf Coast. He's also been an active voice in Houston Money Week since 2008, currently holding a leadership position.
What difficulties have you had around these conversations with family?
Connect with Christopher here:
www.houstonfirstfinancialgroup.com
www.moneymatterspodcast.com
Email - [email protected]
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Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova
In this episode of "The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations," Chris and Lucie tackle a common challenge in both professional and personal settings: dealing with tangents during difficult conversations. They explore strategies for keeping conversations on track, maintaining focus, and setting boundaries without dismissing the other person's perspective.
Key Takeaways:
1. Preparation is Key: Start by understanding the goal of the conversation. Preparation helps in staying on track, especially when the other person goes off-topic.
2. Empathy with Boundaries: Acknowledge the other person's feelings and situation, but gently steer the conversation back to the main point. It's about balancing empathy with the need to stay focused.
3. Using Names for Focus: Addressing the person by name can be a powerful tool to regain their attention and refocus the conversation.
4. Setting Ground Rules: For recurring conversations, setting clear boundaries and expectations beforehand can help manage tangents effectively.
5. Handling Emotional Responses: If emotions run high, suggest taking a break to regroup and return to the conversation with a clearer mindset.
Roleplay Demonstrations: Chris and Lucie provide practical examples through roleplay, showing how to handle tangents in both professional and personal scenarios
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How do you manage these situations with colleagues, friends, or family? Leave us a comment, email, or message with your thoughts and questions!
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Title: Finding the courage to speak up in high stakes meetings
Summary:
Conflict in high stakes meetings is inevitable. Whether it's a board meeting, a roundtable discussion, or a workgroup tasked with solving complex issues, the mix of opinions will always lead to debate.
When done well, it can spark new ideas and create an inclusive process where people feel invested in the outcome. Done poorly, you risk alienating everyone in the meeting.
But how do you find the courage to speak up in these types of meetings? Especially if you're a newer person or maybe even underrepresented, so you're not feeling confident in voicing your opinion?
In our first interview of season 2, we interviewed Elise Woodworth, president of Woodworth Enterprises. She helps nonprofits, and specifically their boards, reach their full potential.
Elise talks about:
As a best-selling author Elise made a name for herself in the world of nonprofit management. With her book "Business Not Battle for Nonprofit Boards" as a guide, she has helped many organizations thrive. Elise's expertise in leadership, governance, and team building shines through in her frequent speaking engagements. Her role as a member of the Virginia Military Institute’s Foundation’s Board of Trustees and as a volunteer with other organizations further showcase her commitment to service and excellence, making her the perfect choice for your next event.
Elise is a former US Air Force Logistics Officer with an MBA from Capella University and a Bachelor of Science in Biology from VMI. With her unique blend of military experience and business acumen, Elise delivers powerful messages that are sure to leave a lasting impact on your audience.
Let us know what you think – What other strategies have you used to speak up in high stakes meetings?
Resources
Elise's website: www.elisewoodworth.com
Elise's Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elisewoodworth/
Get her book ["Business, not Battle"] here: https://a.co/d/7AbkEov
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Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova
The Do’s and Don’ts of negotiating a raise
Summary:
Being paid fairly for your work is always a hot topic issue. In fact, if you’ve been at your company for quite a while, you should consider asking for a raise.
And it’s not just an intellectual exercise.
Not getting a raise can cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars over the course of your career and you might be missing out on valuable buffers against inflation.
But it’s not about asking for a raise – it’s about learning how to negotiate that raise. It’s a difficult conversation especially if you are squeamish talking about money or touting your own accomplishments.
In today’s episode, Lucie and Chris walk through the Do’s and Don’ts of difficult conversations around negotiating a raise.
They cover:
And teach you how NOT to do it, including:
Then they demonstrate how to do the conversation in two different scenarios.
Let us know what you think – what could Chris have done differently to negotiate his raise?
Resources
Instagram account that Chris referenced around salary transparency – Salary Transparent Street
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Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova
The podcast currently has 45 episodes available.