Welcome to the sixth episode of The Art of Approach podcast, where I, Timothy Bray, alongside my co-host Will Mulvaney, dive into the intricate world of approaching and dating. Today, we're thrilled to have Nicole Karmine, an esteemed intrapersonal intelligence coach, joining us to shed light on the nuances of meeting new people and building genuine connections. Nicole brings her unique perspective to the table, discussing everything from the fear of rejection to the vitality of authenticity in relationships. She also shares her inspiring journey with The Chemistry Connection, her venture focusing on intentional intimacy. Together we explore the significance of self-love, the art of being your own coach, and the undeniable power of eye contact and a simple smile in forging connections. Nicole recounts a pivotal moment on the beach that transformed her view on self-expression, leading us to discuss the role of personal style in communicating intention and attracting others. To wrap up, we delve into the art of approaching someone of interest and the impact of genuine compliments. Join us as we emphasize the importance of staying true to oneself and embracing authenticity in all aspects of life.

About Nicole Karmine

Nicole is a creative and mutiventurer, working and traveling around the world with her soul-dog Gracie. As a Mindset Coach, Nicole works with executives and entrepreneurs to build successful businesses through practices of meditation and manifestation.And Nicole is in the process of launching her new initiative - The Chemistry Connection - through which she is working with individuals looking to build intentional intimacy with themselves, enhancing their intrapersonal intelligence and attracting the life and love they want. 

You can book a coaching session with her here (promo code for The Art of Approach community: INTENTIONALINTIMACY)

www.nicolekarmine.com/bookyoursession

She is also always available directly via email to chat/ connect at [email protected].

And you see more of what she is up to here: www.nicolekarmine.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction03:01Reviewing Instagram Reels and Questions

05:16 Discussion on Approaching Women

14:41 Reviewing a Reddit Question

26:05 Why People Don't Meet in Real Life

32:22 The Fear of Approaching and the Importance of Authenticity

36:43 The Value of Real-Life Connections

38:07 Dating Apps and the Fun of Dating

38:53 Manifesting vs Expecting

42:07 Nicole's Journey and The Chemistry Connection

46:50 Creating Intentional Intimacy

49:21 Showing Self-Love

53:33 Being Your Own Coach

57:58 The Importance of Eye Contact

01:01:16 The Power of Smiling

01:09:35 Creating Respectful Spaces

01:14:35 The Impact of Eye Contact

01:19:33 Breaking Down Stereotypes

01:20:01 Finding Yourself and Embracing Authenticity

01:21:07 The Power of Personal Moments

01:22:37 The Importance of Personal Style

01:25:19 Expressing Individuality through Clothing

01:28:42 The Impact of Dressing Authentically

01:31:54 Approaching Someone of Interest

01:34:20 The Power of Genuine Compliments01:37:12The Importance of Authenticity

01:40:10 Closing Remarks

Welcome to episode 5 of The Art of Approach Podcast! Today, we are tackling some common dating advice from social media and answering your questions. We're talking about how to give compliments that really mean something and discussing the tricky business of making an impression. We also dive into why some people hesitate to approach women and share tips on getting past that. Plus, we're exploring the idea of dating with freedom and intention, without rushing into serious relationships. I'll share my thoughts on what makes dating work, like taking time to understand your emotions and the value of a relationship beyond just physical attraction. We'll also chat about why being devoted yet not overly committed can be a good balance in dating. And finally, we'll touch on the importance of being real and vulnerable in your relationships, without just looking for validation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Art of Approach Podcast

01:15 Reviewing an Instagram Reel

08:45 Reviewing a Reddit Post

26:21 Avoiding Hesitation in Approaching Women

49:09 Dating Freely and Navigating Relationships

54:58 The Importance of Time and Devotion in Dating

59:05 The Challenges of Commitment

01:00:28 Bringing Vulnerability into Dating

In our fourth episode of "The Art of Approach," we dive into the complex world of dating. We talk about embracing our anxiety and nervousness, understanding that these feelings are a natural part of the journey and can be tackled with confidence. We discuss the importance of accepting uncertainty in dating, the courage to face rejection, and the significance of starting at any age focused on personal growth. Highlighting the value of high standards, we explore how they lead us to partners who inspire and challenge us. We also touch upon the empowering aspect of expressing our desires and how approaching women, despite the fear of rejection, contributes to our confidence and leads to genuine, meaningful connections. Join us as we navigate these intricate dynamics of dating with a fresh perspective and open heart. Can't wait to hear your thoughts, and until next time, keep embracing life with curiosity and bravery! 🌟

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Structure

01:06 Reviewing Dating Advice from Instagram Reel

03:17 Addressing Anxiety and Energy in Dating

07:03 Building Confidence and Dealing with Nervousness

10:25 Overcoming Zero Confidence in Dating

13:11 Navigating Online Dating and Group Activities

19:00 Embracing Uncertainty in Dating

32:58 Managing High Expectations in Dating

39:20 Student Story: Approaching Someone at the Airport

48:34 Approaching Women in Public Places

55:21 Overcoming Awkwardness and Fear of Rejection

57:16 Challenging Stereotypes and Misconceptions

58:39 Understanding the Perspective of Women and Boyfriends

59:47 Conclusion and Next Steps

Welcome to the third episode of The Art of Approach podcast, where today, Tim and William unravel the intricacies of dating and relationships. We'll delve into effective strategies for engaging with someone who's shown disinterest, share tips on finding the right partner, and explore how beauty influences dating. Tackling common challenges, we discuss overcoming rejection fears, clarifying intentions, the art of the first kiss, and the importance of authenticity and consent. This episode is packed with insights and practical advice to refine your approach to dating, ending with a reminder to stay true to the core principles of building meaningful connections. Join us for a transformative journey into the world of dating!

In this episode, we delve into the world of authentic approach, dating, and relationships. We emphasize the importance of authenticity and integrity in attracting others and often critique modern dating advice to address the root issues behind dating problems. We also explore the concept of the friend zone and stress the need for men to express their desires from the outset. We talk about the patience required to see results from approaching women and the crucial role of consistency. Sharing our personal stories, we highlight the importance of authentic listening and addressing the foundational issues in relationships. Our conversations navigate the uncertainties and challenges in the dating and approach space, focusing on understanding the root causes of these challenges and addressing core human issues like authenticity and integrity. We delve into the concept of the greatest love of all, underscoring the importance of self-love and changing one's narrative. We encourage our listeners to focus on personal growth instead of seeking quick fixes. We also discuss the complexities that emerge after approaching someone and the necessity of breaking negative mindsets. We conclude our episodes by emphasizing the transformative power of changing the conversation, offering insights on coaching, and providing information about meetup opportunities.

Takeaways

01:18 Critiquing a Reel: Approaching a Woman in Public

06:14 Reddit Question: Approaching Women for Beginners

13:37 Community Question: How Long to See Results from Approaching Women

23:47 Personal Story: Being Stood Up on a Date

32:40 Personal Story: Pursuing a Woman in the Park

44:47 Discussion: Authentic Listening and Treating the Root

55:48 Understanding the Root Cause

56:43 Core Issues of Being Human

57:43 Authenticity and Integrity

58:13 The Greatest Love of All

59:10 Focusing on Personal Growth

59:55 Challenges After Approaching

01:00:55 Breaking Negative Mindsets

01:02:15 Changing the Conversation

01:02:59 Immediate Change in Perspective

01:03:25 Coaching and Meetup Opportunities

In this episode, we explore the delicate balance of cherishing each moment and avoiding overpowering behavior in dating. Instead of manipulative tactics, we champion the virtues of being genuine and straightforward. We discuss the nuances of approaching women, with an awareness of societal expectations and the concern of coming across as intrusive. We also offer insights on organically creating opportunities to meet women in daily life, emphasizing the significance of not fixating on results and concentrating on honing our approach.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Format

01:00 Discussion of Instagram Reel

03:13 Takeaways from Instagram Reel

05:22 Discussion of Reddit Question

11:17 Dealing with the Expectation to Approach Women

13:40 Being Authentic with Desires

18:05 Increasing Opportunities to Approach Women

24:14 Finding Opportunities in Day-to-Day Life

35:01 Detaching from Outcome and Focusing on Practice

42:24 Final Thoughts and Complimenting Others

48:08 Introduction and Podcast Goals

49:07 Exploring Standard Dating Advice

50:14 Closing Remarks and Call for Questions