In this episode, we discuss various aspects of dating and the nuances of approaching women, underlining the crucial role of maintaining mystery and self-validation to keep the attraction alive. We talk about overcoming approach anxiety by advocating for incremental steps towards building self-confidence and the profound importance of engaging with and understanding our emotions, particularly in social settings. Emphasizing the significant benefits of having female friends, we explore how their insights can refine our dating strategies and help us understand the dating scene from a different perspective.

Additionally, we touch upon the necessity of presenting ourselves authentically in dating profiles and seeking constructive feedback. The conversation also navigates the delicate balance between pursuing romantic interests and personal goals, underscoring the importance of self-awareness and owning one's journey through the complexities of relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Coach Corey Wayne04:01The Importance of Mystery

04:52 Understanding Mystery

06:48 Finding Certainty in Yourself07:01Recognizing Temporary Emotions

07:38 Overexplaining and Neediness08:38Creating Mystery in Dating

09:43 Certainty and Insecurity10:05Dealing with Rejection

11:23 Finding Certainty Elsewhere

12:36 Recognizing Temporary Emotions

13:05 Understanding Anger and Emotions

13:43 The Pitfalls of Overexplaining

14:48 The Dangers of Overexplaining

15:47 Keeping Some Mystery

16:37 The Thrill of Leading

17:57 Acceptable Places to Approach Women

18:58 Approaching in Grocery Stores

19:37 Approaching with Short-lived Conversations

23:03 Being Respectful and Not Creepy

24:46 Best Places to Meet Women

26:10 Approaching Women in Coffee Shops

27:34 Approaching Women in Parking Lots

28:37 Strategies to overcome approach anxiety

38:40 Will's new relationship

49:14 Importance of female friends

51:38 The Influence of Others on Dating Profiles

54:46 A Date with an Incredibly Beautiful Woman

56:28 Psychic Sexual Communication

57:43 Mixed Signals and Uncertainty

01:00:44 Struggling with Business and Dating

01:03:51 Balancing Business and Personal Life

01:08:47 Owning Your Circumstances

01:12:47 Dealing with Adversity and Maintaining Groundedness

In this episode, we discuss how qualities like emotional expression, authenticity, and leadership, often seen in musicians, can make one more attractive in dating. We emphasize the importance of connecting emotionally, being genuine, and showing vulnerability to forge authentic bonds. We highlight confidence, self-love, and the mindset of viewing dating as a path to personal growth and abundance. The conversation covers psychic sexual communication, the significance of body language, setting intentions, and the necessity of a supportive network. Ultimately, we conclude that embracing authenticity, pursuing self-improvement, and maintaining a positive mindset are key to building confidence and attracting meaningful relationships.

00:00 Introduction

01:19 Overview of the Podcast

04:07 Qualities of Musicians that Attract Women

06:52 Leadership and Confidence

09:06 Preselection and Being the Center of Attention

12:46 Bad Dating Advice: 'Be Yourself'

13:55 Expressing Flaws and Insecurities

15:55 Courage and Acting Despite Fear

24:51 Intensity in Dating

26:05 Creating a Cultivated Space

28:04 Taking Rejections as a Positive

30:01 Preparing for a Date

37:00 Advancements in Tim's Dating Life

39:31 Visualization and Psychic Sexual Communication

45:00 Believing in the Desired Outcome

48:10 Admiring Beauty and Gratitude

51:15 The Power of Silence

52:00 Eye Contact and Silence

53:23 Planning the First Date

54:59 Approaching Women

57:39 Challenges of Approaching Alone

59:09 Overcoming Resistance to Approach

01:03:13 Navigating Early Stages of Dating

01:07:07 Building a Strong Relationship

01:10:17 Defining the Ideal Relationship

01:11:12 Being Slow and Intentional

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In our conversation, we delved into diverse dating topics, from rejection to personal growth. Key themes emerged, highlighting the value of genuine intentions, vulnerability, and empathy. We explored psychic sexual communication and the significance of eye contact in forging connections. Tips were shared on coping with rejection, advocating self-love, recognizing misalignment, and shifting focus away from oneself. The discussion extended to how dating experiences influence other aspects of life, notably career paths. Will shared insights into how his interactions with women have shaped his professional journey, emphasizing self-confidence and awareness gained through rejection. He stressed the importance of cultivating friendships with women and embracing feminine energy. We concluded with reflections on taking initiative and fostering clear communication in relationships. Will shared his recent dating experiences, underscoring the challenges of interpreting text messages and maintaining a balanced mindset. Despite hurdles, he remains optimistic and open to new opportunities.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction of Bill Furlong

01:16 Bill's Natural Ease with Women

03:03 Psychic Sexual Communication

08:09 The Power of Eye Contact

17:32 Expressing Desire After a Relationship

19:00 Tips for Dealing with Rejection

25:03 Approaching Women and Its Impact on Life

31:29 Appreciating the Feminine Essence

37:21 Making Female Friends

45:34 Being Clear and Leading in Relationships

47:49 The Second Date

48:26 The Vagueness of Communication

49:57 Setting an Actual Date

50:50 The Importance of Clarity

51:19 Understanding Women's Behavior

52:40 The Challenges of Text Communication

52:49 The Age of the Woman

52:53 Mixed Signals

53:15 Choosing the Right Date Activity

54:00 The Danger of Fixating on One Woman

57:25 Approaching a Woman at a Show

01:02:24 The Importance of Being Willing to Walk Away

01:03:13 Confidence and Self-Belief

01:04:38 The Abundance Mindset

01:07:20 Final Thoughts

In this episode, we explore diverse approaches to dating, covering topics such as reviewing an Instagram reel, responding to a Reddit question, and providing insights on approaching a girl surrounded by friends. Emphasizing the crucial role of authenticity and confidence in social interactions, we share tips on navigating various situations. Our key message underscores the importance of having the courage to initiate connections and staying true to oneself when pursuing someone of interest. Discussing aspects like approaching with confidence, avoiding burnout, being selective, and the benefits of compliments, we also explore group approaches and stress the necessity of having a clear dating vision. Throughout, we highlight the theme of authenticity in different scenarios, addressing feelings of inauthenticity and emphasizing vulnerability in group conversations. We touch on the discomfort of disengaging from uninteresting interactions and stress the importance of sharing enjoyable activities with a partner. The conversation concludes with a reminder to stay true to oneself and seek date coaching if needed.

CHAPTERS

00:00

Introduction

00:24

Reviewing Instagram Reel

09:21

Approaching a Girl in a Group

14:41

Being Authentic About Inauthenticities

16:30

Approaching a Girl with Friends - Alternative Approaches

18:21

Approaching with Confidence

21:20

Avoiding Approach Burnout

22:06

Dealing with Picky Behavior

25:31

Approaching Less Attractive People

27:18

The Importance of Complimenting

29:23

The Benefits of Group Approaches

35:40

Having a Vision for Dating

41:09

Authenticity in Different Situations

42:06

Being Authentic in Approaches

43:37

Feeling Inauthentic in Group Settings

46:21

Vulnerability in Group Conversations

48:18

Disliking Surface-Level Group Conversations

51:45

Leaving Uninteresting Group Interactions

52:15

Leaving Social Gatherings

53:58

Feeling Awkward About Leaving

55:48

Planning Fun and Exciting Dates

59:35

Doing Activities You Enjoy with Your Partner

01:00:01

Doing Things for Yourself and Your Partner

01:01:23

Closing Remarks

In this episode, we explore various facets of dating and attraction, delving into the notion that attraction is not a choice and emphasizing the importance of authenticity. Our discussion covers topics such as dating multiple people, self-improvement in attracting a partner, and the significance of having a clear vision in dating. We navigate the challenges of workplace attraction, suggesting a cautious, slower approach outside of the workplace to mitigate potential complications. We encourage listeners to break away from conventional thinking and forge their unique paths, exploring different approaches to exchanging numbers. Throughout, we stress the vital role of authenticity, presence, and individuality in creating memorable dating experiences. The conversation also addresses ethical considerations in pursuing someone in a relationship, highlighting the importance of understanding women's fears and emphasizing ongoing consent and communication in the dating process.

CHAPTERS

00:00

Introduction and Overview

02:40

Attraction and Authenticity

05:42

The Myth of Universal Attraction

08:25

Self-Improvement and Authenticity

09:41

The Importance of Having a Vision

11:11

Dating Multiple People

12:36

Exploring and Getting to Know People

15:01

The Importance of Purpose

19:38

Approaching a Girl at Her Workplace

23:49

Revisiting the Debate: Giving Numbers vs Taking Numbers

25:41

Navigating Workplace Attraction

26:18

Taking a Slower Approach

27:39

The Inevitability of Attraction in the Workplace

28:05

Expressing Interest Outside of Work

29:05

Being Cautious and Respectful

30:10

Navigating the Friend Zone

32:24

Creating Memorable First Approaches and Dates

34:50

Being Authentic and Present

36:04

Listening and Getting to Know the Other Person

38:12

Being Extraordinary and Standing Out

39:08

Taking Risks and Going Where Others Won't

40:04

Choosing Your Own Path and Being Authentic

41:10

Overcoming Ordinary Thinking

44:42

Making Approaches and Dates Memorable

45:39

Receiving the Number Instead of Taking

47:12

Making a Statement Instead of Asking

48:51

Leaving the Number and Letting Them Text

50:35

The Difference Between Leaving the Number and Texting

50:46

Mistrust in Giving Out Numbers

51:46

The Power of Words and Actions

52:24

The Transition from Conversation to Texting

53:14

Agreeing to Disagree

53:44

Taking Initiative in the Dating Process

54:31

The Importance of the First Text

56:28

Group Approach Day

57:16

Approaching Conversations with Strangers

58:14

Dealing with Disappointments and Nasty Voices

59:14

Approaching a Waitress

01:00:53

Unexpected Encounters

01:03:12

Ethics of Pursuing Someone in a Relationship

01:04:19

The Unfairness of the Dating Process

01:06:06

Women's Receptiveness and Men's Approach

01:07:04

Approaching a Mother and Daughter

01:09:01

The Friendliness of Women

01:10:45

The Responsibility of Approaching Women

01:12:05

Understanding Women's Fear and Protection

01:13:56

The Importance of Consent and Ongoing Communication

01:15:28

Being Receptive to Women's Fear

01:16:50

Showing Friendliness and Reassurance

In this episode, we debunk the idea of a complex process for approaching women at the gym and emphasize the importance of authenticity and clarity in expressing desires. Our discussion delves into the difference between spraying and praying and the potential pitfalls of purely sex-driven motivations. We also provide insights on how to navigate various dating scenarios, such as ignored messages, flakes, and cancellations.

We explore the concept of emotional intelligence, highlighting the significance of understanding and working with emotions in dating and personal growth. Throughout the episode, we share our recent dating experiences and the challenges we face. We discuss new romantic interests, dealing with uncertainty, and reacting to being ignored. Additionally, we delve into the topic of alcohol and its impact on dating, sharing a cautionary tale about a drunk encounter.

Chapters:

00:00

Introduction and Overview

00:34

Critiquing Instagram Reels and Reddit Posts

02:00

Debunking the Gym Approach Process

03:15

The Importance of Authentic Connections

05:02

Understanding and Expressing Desires

06:17

The Difference Between Spraying and Praying

08:05

The Tragedy of Purely Motivated by Sex

09:12

Does Chasing Girls Work?

10:16

Interpreting Ignored Messages

13:35

Responding to Flakes and Cancellations

15:07

Navigating Physical Intimacy

16:49

Setting Up Second Dates

18:38

Accepting Friendship or Moving On

23:31

Understanding Emotional Intelligence

26:35

Recognizing and Working with Emotions

30:09

Developing Emotional Awareness

32:02

Overcoming Emotional Resistance

33:09

Personal Experiences and Growth

33:38

New Romantic Interest

38:16

Will's Dating Experience

43:33

Dealing with Uncertainty

48:51

Reacting to Being Ignored

51:25

Treating Women Equally

56:19

Alcohol and Dating

59:04

Horror Story: Drunk Encounter

01:00:01

Closing Remarks

In this episode, we shift our perspective to explore dating advice and optimal places to meet women, urging listeners to broaden interests and utilize platforms like Meetup.com. Advocating for authenticity, we debunk the myth of a perfect time for approaching women, sharing real-life examples and emphasizing empathy. Our experiences in approaching strangers in the park and group meetups are recounted, highlighting the importance of setting goals and staying focused. We delve into the dynamics of approaching women in various scenarios, caution against over-reliance on dating apps, and explore the intersection of art in society, addressing challenges faced by artists and contemplating the future of artistic expression and authenticity in shaping culture.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction

01:20

Reviewing Dating Advice

02:16

Best Places to Meet Women

03:43

Opening Your Mind to New Interests

04:41

Using Meetup.com to Meet Women

05:25

Finding Women in Specific Environments

06:04

Feminine Restaurants and Coffee Shops

07:07

Social Sporting Events

08:07

Using Dating Apps as a Supplement

09:21

The Illusion of a Perfect Time

10:36

The Rules of Approaching a Woman

11:20

The Importance of Taking Action

12:20

Creating the Perfect Time

13:23

The Myth of a Perfect Time

14:16

Handling Unexpected Situations

15:07

Authenticity in Interactions

18:48

The Role of Rules and Authenticity

20:09

Creating a Space for Authenticity

23:22

Real-Life Examples of Authentic Approaches

26:46

Empathy for Women in Approaches

28:24

The Importance of Familiar Energy

29:22

Showing Your Real Self

29:54

Recap of Meetup Group

30:03

Approaching Strangers in the Park

30:33

Sharing Stories and Goals

31:28

Overcoming Resistance and Making Approaches

32:23

Making Genuine Connections

33:18

Approaching Women with Boyfriends

34:04

Approaching with Different Intentions

35:13

Stepping Out of Comfort Zones

36:15

The Exhaustion of Approaching Strangers

37:21

Navigating Approaches and Personal Boundaries

38:09

The Excitement and Vulnerability of Approaching

39:25

The Thrill of the Unknown

40:36

The Comparison to Grand Theft Auto

41:13

The Rush of Approaching

43:25

Managing Highs and Lows

45:08

Riding the Highs of Approaches

46:16

Building Sandcastles and Expectations

48:15

Being Present and Avoiding Objectification

49:25

Approaching Women on the Phone

52:42

Approaching Women Who Are Walking

56:04

Approaching Women Who Are Running

58:39

Approaching Women on the Phone

59:22

Being Mindful of Facial Expressions

05:00

The Importance of Art in Society

15:00

The Role of Artists in Shaping Culture

25:00

Challenges Faced by Artists

35:00

The Business Side of Art

45:00

Artistic Expression and Authenticity

55:00

The Future of Art

01:00:00

Closing Remarks

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Chapters