Episode #027:
What if the key to a happier, healthier life was hidden in the way we connect with others?
Join us as Dr. Todd Bernston walks us through the secrets of building deeper, more meaningful connections. A Clinical psychologist and relationship expert himself, who just celebrated his 34th wedding anniversary, Dr Todd has transformed his own life through the power of healthy relationships.
Learn how we are evolutionarily designed to crave close connections for our survival and emotional well-being, and discover how these bonds can dramatically reduce anxiety, depression, and stress. Dr. Todd shares his personal journey of overcoming a troubled family history to find the profound benefits of secure relationships on overall happiness and life satisfaction.
Explore the crucial role emotionally invested caregivers play in shaping a child's future emotional landscape. We delve into how parents' responses to their children's distress teach them to regulate their emotions and form attachment styles that carry into adulthood. From secure to disorganised attachment, we break down what these styles mean and how recognizing and healing from childhood wounds can pave the way for healthier relationships.
Dr. Todd's insights illuminate the long-lasting impact of our early interactions and the importance of emotional regulation in managing life’s challenges. We also tackle the complexities of emotional baggage in relationships, offering actionable strategies for managing distress and fostering connection. Navigate tricky attachment styles and learn how to recognize emotional triggers that can escalate conflicts. Through the lens of personal experiences and expert advice, we emphasize the power of authentic communication and emotional support.
Discover guiding truths about love, healing from past traumas, and how feeling loved transforms our lives. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that promises to enrich your understanding of relationships and provide practical tools for nurturing more fulfilling connections.
Chapter timestamps
(00:00) - The Importance of Connection in Relationships
(08:15) - Understanding Emotional Regulation and Attachment Styles
(18:28) - Navigating Attachment Styles and Healing
(26:08) - Healing From Childhood Trauma
(32:48) - Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships
(37:51) - Navigating Emotional Baggage in Relationships
(43:20) - Navigating Emotional Conflict Through Awareness
(58:20) - Nurturing Emotional Connection in Relationships
(01:09:04) - Guiding Truths for Life's Journey
Let's connect:
Dr. Todd
• Website: https://drtodd.com/
• Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-dr-todd-podcast/id1751119465
• Blog Post: https://drtodd.com/emotional-hygiene-in-communication/
Dannie Reeve
👉Website: www.danniereeve.com
👉Instagram: https://instagram.com/theartoflivingconsciously?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
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With all my love 💚.
Dannie