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Many thanks to retired neonatologist Susan Landers, MD, for joining me on Episode #173 of “The Art of Medicine with Dr. Andrew Wilner.” I first spoke to Susan on July 9, 2023, on Episode #89 about her book “So Many Babies.” In her first book she reflected on her career, particularly the daily challenge of work/life balance.
Today, we discussed her new book, “Good Enough is Your Superpower: Overcoming Perfectionism for Women by Silencing Your Inner Critic and Setting Boundaries.”
Dr. Landers confessed that for the first 15 years of her career, she suffered as a perfectionist. She was unable to silence her “inner critic” that insisted she was not “good enough.” Rather than take pride in a long and productive day at work, she felt she was shortchanging her children or husband. If she spent more time with her family, she felt dissatisfied with herself at work.
For a perfectionist, a seemingly simple task such as arranging a child’s birthday party required addressing so many details that it devolved into an exhausting chore. Dr. Landers concluded that the price of perfectionism is loss of rest and recovery.
Dr. Landers eventually discovered effective strategies to silence her inner critic and take pleasure in being “good enough” as a wife, mother, and full-time physician. She provides sage advice to young women to combat perfectionism when facing the dual challenges of a career and family.
We also discussed the concepts of “invisible labor” and “emotional load.” According to Dr. Landers, women tend to do more invisible labor and emotional load than men, which increases their overall workload and stress.
Dr. Landers is planning a book on preventing osteoporosis. Inspired by her mother’s diagnosis and her own, she has thoroughly researched the topic and wants to share her findings with other women.
You can find “Good Enough is Your Superpower” on Amazon here: https://amzn.to/45GTmWy
You can also read Dr. Landers weekly newsletter “MomsMatter” on Substack:
https://substack.com/@landersmomsmatter?utm_source=global-search
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