The Programming Podcast

The Art of the DM: Proven Networking Hacks That Actually Get Replies


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In this episode of The Programming Podcast, hosts Danny Thompson and Leon Noel dive deep into the art and science of professional networking. Whether you’re just building relationships or in “hit listing” mode to land your next job, learn why cold DMs rarely work—and what does. From warming up prospects with genuine engagement and “nerd bait” to volunteering and shared interests, Danny and Leon share real-world examples of outreach tactics that actually get responses. Plus, discover how to add value in every interaction, transition seamlessly from casual conversation to asking for a call, and keep your network “hot” even when you’re not job hunting. Stick around for our Ask Danny & Leon segment, where we tackle listener questions on maintaining strong connections during turbulent times.


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What you will learn in this episode:

- Networking Modes: Understand the two distinct phases—general networking for relationship-building vs. hit listing when you’re actively job hunting

- Cold DM Strategy: Learn why cold outreach often flops and how to avoid the “ask-first” pitfall

- Lead Warming: Master warming up leads via strategic content engagement (likes, comments) before sliding into DMs

- Value-Driven Outreach: Craft value-first messages that show clear benefits to your contact

- Visibility Amplification: Boost your presence and social proof through consistent public engagement

- Long-Term ROI: Discover why ongoing relationship building drives outsized returns over time


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Chapter

0:00 Intro & Networking Modes

1:31 Messaging Mistakes & Disconnects

5:04 Warming Up: The Art of the DM

12:17 Volunteering & Shared Interests

15:03 Nerd Bait: Sparking Conversations

20:52 Value-Driven Outreach

28:01 Hit Listing: Job-Seeker Phase

37:55 Ask Danny & Leon: Keeping Networks Warm

44:27 Outro & Key Takeaways

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