So after I posted Pamela's rad words on the IG grid this week (a la for Monday Motivation) and verbally added my two cents to today's episode, I took a deep dive and FOUND OUT THAT PAMELA IS THE AUTHOR OF ONE OF MY FAV SHOWS 'YOUNGER' with Woman to Watch Hilary Duff from episode 109! I knew I liked what she had to say!
Here is the breakdown of the know how and should have's every woman should say outloud, move to change, pivot and oftentimes remind herself.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
Enough money within her control to move out...
And rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to
or needs to...
Something perfect to wear if the employer
or date of her dreams wants to See Her in an hour...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
A youth she's content to leave behind....
A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her Old Age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
One friend who always makes her laugh...
And one Who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her Family...
Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
And a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel Honored...
A feeling of control over her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love without losing herself..
HOW TO QUIT A JOB,
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER,
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT
RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...
When to try harder...
And WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change the length of her calves,
The width of her hips,
or the nature of her parents..
That her childhood may not have been perfect...
But it's over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
How to live alone...
Even if she doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't,
And why she shouldn't take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go...
Be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
Or a charming inn in the woods...
When her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
A month...
And a year...
Written by Pamela Redmond Satran @thepamelaredmond
AHHHHH I have no idea where to go from here except spending the rest of the night with my face in a bowl full of noodles to see where I can get copies of 'younger' and 'older' from Pamela STAT and continually to spiral down a rabbit hole to find out more about her awesomeness :)! Cheers babes, I love you and don't forget to #alwaysbebabeaf, no matter what.