In this episode, Greg fills us in on all the special concerns of being a parent in Bangkok. As if being a parent on its own didn't have enough surprises, it turns out there are several things to keep in mind if you are expecting or even just bringing a child to the Big Mango. Pre-eminent is of course the issue of proper schooling, be it Thai or international or some combination of both. Greg explains the 3 C's - cost, commute, and curriculum - that all new parents must build their life around.

As Ed sits by in ignorant awe, Greg runs through other parental revelations, such as malls (of all things) actually being good things that can function as safe, fun, air-conditioned havens for kids. While Ed preaches the value of NOT driving in Bangkok, Greg lists all the advantages of having a car when burdened - er, blessed - with a child. More cool insights follow (did you ever consider looking at the size of the wheels on your stroller?), including a few lessons in cultural sensitivity.

Bangkok may have the reputation of a hedonistic city of fun and frivolity, but when the stork comes calling, you probably want to listen to this episode.

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Greg interviews Kru Nan from the "You Too Can Learn Thai" podcast. Greg begins with the theory of the 'critical period,' that the human brain is primed to learn languages early in life but not later. Kru Nan notes that the research is not final and that adults might actually have some advantages over children. For example, adults may be able to absorb more information more quickly and also to contextualize it because of their pre-existing knowledge about the way the world works.

Next, Greg and Kru Nan discuss the difference between beginner, intermediate, and advanced learners, from the nature of the class preparation to the study materials themselves. This leads to a fascinating discussion about how culture affects the interpretation of anecdotes and dreams. Listen in for details, but suffice it to say 'snakes' don't always mean the same thing around the world. Kru Nan follows with several more fascinating examples of how culture - both pop and traditional - affect our use of language.

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Greg and Ed discuss some negative expat stereotypes - roughly the person you (probably) don't want to become while living in Thailand...at least forever. We all fall prey to stereotypes sometimes - they have to come from somewhere - but if you're not careful, you can become comfortable with some of these lifestyles and before you know it, they come to define your new identity in your new home, and suddenly you're known as The Whiner, or The Apologist.

And that's just the beginning! Heaven forbid that people start to know you as The Premature Pontificator, or The Creep, The Slob, The Bubble Boy or The Player. Like we said, it's hard to escape most of these all the time, but Bangkok's mai-pen-rai lifestyle is addictive, and trust us - before you know it, a decade has gone by and you're still wearing that old Chang singlet out to dinner that you bought when you first arrived on Khao San Road (that'd be The Slob). Have a listen and see how Greg and Ed define these common tropes.

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Greg interviews Khun Panarat Anamwathana about the bombing of Bangkok during World War II. Beginning with a discussion about how Thai people today perceive Thailand's involvement in the Second World War, K. Panarat notes that many Thais' attitudes are actually shaped by popular culture and specific romantic stories about that time period in Thai history. Most Thais today don't realize the tragic nature of the conflict and the truly precarious nature of Thailand's relationship with both Japan and the western powers.

Next, K. Panarat discusses the fascinating role of Seni Pramoj, the Thai Ambassador to the United States and his role in leading the Seri Thai, or 'Free Thai,' movement, the pro-Western faction of Thai society. Because of his role, Thailand largely escaped punishment after the West's victory. We also discuss which areas of the city were bombed, how the locals reacted and what role the government took vs grassroots groups in organizing evacuations.

Greg and K. Panarat also elaborate on the unique role of Prime Minister Phibunsongkhram, one of the more colorful characters in Thai history as mentioned previously on the podcast. In short, although the Prime Minister officially supported the Japanese, he also sought aid from both Britain and America in a complicated game of diplomatic brinkmanship, shades of which you can still see in Thai society, where playing both sides can sometimes be a bit of an artform.

Listen in for more details on what Greg and Ed think is the most fascinating period in Thai history.

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On a suggestion from listener Emily, Greg and Ed go back to basics with book and movie recommendations for people new to Thailand and Southeast Asia, or old-timers looking to refresh their knowledge after being disconnected during all this covid hullabaloo. Ed begins with three foundational books: the all-time classic 'Lonely Planet Thailand,' written by friend of the podcast Joe Cummings, the insightful (if a bit outdated) 'Culture Shock: Thailand,' and the super creative 'Very Thai,' by Phillip Cornwall-Smith (not to mention his followup 'Very Bangkok'). Greg follows with his own key recommendations, including 'The Thai Book' by Ron Morris and 'A History of Thailand' by Chris Baker and Pasuk Phongpaichit. Ed concurs and also puts a word in for 'Thailand: A Short History,' by David K. Wyatt.

Turning to movies, Ed notes that all foreigners interested in Thai culture should see the ghost film 'Nang Nak,' which relates possibly the most popular story in all of Thai pop culture. For some history perspective, Francis Ford Coppola's cut of 'Suriyothai' is a good place to start, but seeing some version of the famous (partly fictional) story 'The King and I' is probably a good idea. To appreciate the Thai fascination with animism and experience Thailand's most accredited filmmaker, check out 'Uncle Boonmee Who Can Recall HIs Past Lives', by the filmmaker whose name only Greg can pronounce (that'd be Apichatpong Weerasethakul).

In closing, the guys make a few final suggestions. To learn about the man who has shaped modern Thai politics (for better or worse), read 'Thaksin' by Chris Baker, or grab 'Anand Panyarachun and the Making of Modern Thailand' by Dominic Faulder for a look at another legendary figure. Greg concludes by suggesting the under-appreciated film 'City of Ghosts' with Matt Dillon, a crime thriller set in Cambodia and Thailand.

These recommendations likely won't shock anyone, but you gotta start somewhere, and this is it.

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Things are not so great right now, and they're even more desperate for people who live on the edge, which is why we're pleased to chat with Friso Poldervaart, Greg Lange, and Kerv Chittaropas about their organization Bangkok Community Help.

The three are instrumental in providing the community of over 100,000 with food, medical supplies, living essentials and care packages in Khlong Toey, Bangkok's biggest slum community.

The discussion gets into the history of Khlong Toey, how the English word 'slum' does the people who live there a disservice, and the intricacies, difficulties, and triumphs of giving people a helping hand amid Thailand's complicated lattice of permissions and regulations.

And of course all of this becomes exponentially more difficult - and necessary - in the midst of Covid-19.

From cooking food to buying ambulances to painting bare concrete, Bangkok Community Help is putting charity first to help the underprivileged in Bangkok, and our guests give listeners an up close view of what it's like.

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Ed relates his 4-day adventure in the much-reported-on Phuket Sandbox. But spoiler alert: It wasn't a great trip, mostly due to bad luck: it was gray and rainy almost the entire time, thus denying him quality beach time. Oh well.

But what was not bad luck was the way that the Thai government has marketed the Sandbox. The Tourism Authority of Thailand has repeatedly stated that Phuket is 'open' to tourism as of July 1st, and Ed took that to mean that the most popular area on the island, Patong, would actually be ready for tourists. Alas, this was not the case, with only a third of restaurants open and 95% of everything else closed.

With bad weather and not much to do, the trip was more or less doomed, but a glimmer of hope presented itself with a chance meetup with friend of the podcast Dan Fraser, travel expert extraordinaire, who coincidentally has been hired by the TAT to market Phuket to foreign tourists. Dan was able to explain that the TAT was focusing on 'non-beach activities' on the island of Phuket, such as environmental tours, museums, and local arts and culture events. Ed and Greg discuss this approach and largely agree with the TAT's strategy; Ed just wishes he knew about it before booking a hotel in Patong. :)

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Greg and Ed bare their souls and discuss how living in Thailand has changed them for the better - and for the worse. Greg begins by noting that since being in Thailand he has a much greater appreciation for the life struggles of the average person, in Thailand as well as the rest of the world. Raised middle class in the West, it is easy to see yourself as 'normal,' when in reality you are quite lucky compared to many people around the world.

Ed then observes that living overseas has helped him to realize what is universal in the human experience and what is more cultural or unique. The truth is that a lot of 'Thai' behavior is just human and not uniquely Thai, and the same goes for things that we think of as American.

Greg follows by pointing out all of his accomplishments of the last twenty years and how making his way in the world as an expat has given him a different angle on the world than his friends back home. Not necessarily a 'better' angle, but certainly a different one.

Not being able to escape all the classes he teaches, Ed notes that he has learned a much greater appreciation for the boring subject of the 'rule of law.' Simple things that you take for granted back home - such as everyone who breaks the law gets punished - are not always true in Thailand, and the consequences can be grave.

As for how Thailand has made Greg and Ed worse, you'll have to listen to the show to hear those confessions. :)

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It's a dream of many to move to Thailand and start their own business - be it a spiffy e-commerce site, a beer bar on a beach, or some type of consultancy. But navigating the tricky cultural and bureaucratic hurdles isn't something to be taken lightly.

We're joined by Derek van Pelt, a Thailand resident for 24 years and someone who has had a number of successes in a variety of different arenas. Currently a partner at Stonelotus Ventures and a long-time friend of Greg and Ed's, Derek talks about what brought his past businesses success and why he chose to shut some, his advice to people who want to start their own business here, his role as President of the Thai-Canadian Chamber of Commerce, and insights into Bangkok's business community. And of course, to discuss one of Greg's favorite restaurant chains, getfresh, which Derek helps manage.

It's not an easy road for anyone, but as Derek notes, if you have the three Ps - patience, perseverance, and presence - making it work in Thailand will be a lot easier.

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Diving into one of their more complex topics, Greg and Ed explore some of the questions that arise when raising a child with an appreciation for skepticism and science in the middle of a culture known for its superstitious beliefs. With Ed teaching a critical thinking class to Thai college students and Greg's son asking questions about ghosts and praying, the boys have some interesting insights.

Greg stresses the delicacy of parents in his situation: were he to directly state his opinion that ghosts are not real and praying for something has no effect on the outcome, it could create friction between his son and the Thai side of his family, who sit more on the 'probably/definitely' side of the scale. While trying to ensure his son grows up with an appreciation for evidence and science, this also provides a good lesson on respecting others' beliefs, despite having different ones yourself. Where exactly is the instruction manual for this situation?

The guys wrestle with the issue, doing their best to come up with some guidelines. Perhaps just appreciating the importance of threading the needle between the two cultures is the key to being a good parent. Greg's not gonna be able to get it perfect, but maybe just trying is the point.

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