In this episode, we explore the topic of expectations in relationships, referencing a study that examines how romantic expectations can predict satisfaction and commitment in young adult dating relationships. So turn up that volume and tune in!

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⁠Darien⁠

⁠Joab⁠ 

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DISCLAIMER: This content is not intended to diagnose or treat any individual. If you have concerns about your mental health, please consult your local mental health professional for a thorough evaluation and personalized guidance.

She's Back! In this episode we reflect on the ongoing challenges of self-doubt in creative and entrepreneurial spaces, emphasizing the importance of affirmations, purpose, and inner child work with *guest host* Valerie Anselme. 

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Darien

Joab

Valerie

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DISCLAIMER: This content is not intended to diagnose or treat any individual. If you have concerns about your mental health, please consult your local mental health professional for a thorough evaluation and personalized guidance.

In this episode, we discuss our reconnection after a month apart and our personal journey through stress, success, support…and grief. Life is full of ebbs and flows, which makes life all the more precious. So, turn up that volume and become in tuned with us.Like what you hear and want to tune in continually? Subscribe for more information.To hear more from the speakers of this episode, you can follow them at:Darien - https://www.instagram.com/be.imperfectlytuned/Joab - https://www.instagram.com/that_melanin_man/You can follow The Be In Tuned Podcast on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and Instagram. ➜ https://fanlink.tv/TBITP
DISCLAIMER: This content is not intended to diagnose or treat any individual. If you have concerns about your mental health, please consult your local mental health professional for a thorough evaluation and personalized guidance.

In this episode, we speak to the amazing Valerie Anselme! Owner and photographer of Anselme Studio. Val discusses with Darien and Joab about her love for photography and more importantly her love of capturing the essence of who people are. This conversation is a take on self-esteem and recognizing your worth. So, turn up that volume and be in tuned!

Check out Valerie's work

https://www.instagram.com/anselmestudios/

Takeaways

• The podcast aims to deepen connections with higher power and self.
• Returning to podcasting feels like riding a bike, with initial wobbling.
• Valerie Anselme is a photographer and creative genius behind Anselm Studios.
• Encouragement is vital for self-love and empowerment.
• Photography can help individuals see their true essence.
• Self-esteem issues often prevent people from being in front of the camera.
• Valerie's approach to photography is about capturing the client's essence.
• The planning process for a shoot involves understanding the client's vision.
• Photography can serve as a self-care act and boost self-esteem.
• Vulnerability is essential in both photography and personal growth. Imposter syndrome is a common struggle among creatives.
• Comparison can serve as both a motivator and a detractor.
• It's essential to recognize and celebrate your unique style in photography.
• Challenging negative thoughts requires a conscious effort to switch perspectives.
• Community support plays a crucial role in personal and professional growth.
• Sharing knowledge and experiences can help uplift others in the creative field.
• Mentorship can be a powerful way to give back and foster new talent.
• The journey of becoming a photographer often starts with a passion for art and fashion.
• It's important to acknowledge the messiness of the creative journey.
• Building a community of like-minded individuals can enhance growth and collaboration.

In this episode, Darien and Joab explore the importance of social connectedness through vulnerability, community support, and meaningful relationships.

Link to support Ukraine: https://hfu.org/

Takeaways

• Having vulnerable conversations can lead to personal growth.
• Community support is essential for enduring tough times.
• Intimate relationships require significant time investment.
• Surrounding yourself with inspiring people is crucial.
• The collective identity enhances our sense of belonging.
• Different perspectives contribute to personal development.
• It's important to audit your friendships regularly.
• Social connections can be categorized into different types.
• Nurturing relationships are reciprocal in nature.
• Listening to others can broaden our understanding of the world. The show 'The Chosen' offers a unique perspective on Jesus and his disciples.
• Diversity among Jesus' disciples highlights the importance of different perspectives.
• Community and connection are essential for personal growth and understanding.
• Relational connectedness involves friendships and family support.
• Family gatherings can strengthen bonds and provide comfort during grief.
• Vulnerability is key to forming deeper connections with others.
• Building connections takes time and patience.
• Community involvement is crucial for personal and collective well-being.
• Simple acts of connection, like coffee dates, can strengthen relationships.
• Being present in your community fosters a sense of belonging. Showing love through small gestures can strengthen community bonds.
• Expressing gratitude can significantly impact someone's day.
• Active listening involves understanding both verbal and nonverbal cues.
• Deepening relationships requires acknowledgment and appreciation.
• Practicing social skills can enhance personal connections.
• Community involvement can lead to unexpected friendships.
• Patience is essential when building connections over time.
• Shared interests can create opportunities for new relationships.
• Global awareness and empathy are crucial in today's world.
• Everyone deserves to feel seen and valued.

In this episode, Darien and Joab explore the themes of identity, connections, and vulnerability. Making connections can be tough and being vulnerable is never easy. Join us as we have one of our deepest conversations yet. So, get ready and tune in.

Takeaways

• The podcast aims to deepen connections with higher power and self.
• Cultural identity plays a significant role in how we connect with others.
• Valentine's Day is often overemphasized in terms of romantic relationships.
• Making friends as adults is increasingly challenging.
• Establishing a 'third place' is crucial for social connections.
• Different forms of connections include friendships, family, and spiritual ties.
• Expecting one person to fulfill all emotional needs can be problematic.
• Social connections are vital for mental health and well-being.
• Isolation has increased in society, making connections more important than ever.
• Community and connection are essential for a fulfilling life. Family connections play a crucial role in personal development.
• Community support can alleviate feelings of isolation.
• Vulnerability is essential for building deeper relationships.
• Shame often prevents individuals from seeking help.
• Understanding the difference between shame and guilt is important.
• Vulnerability can lead to healing and growth.
• Trust is necessary for sharing vulnerabilities with others.
• Isolation can lead to burnout and tunnel vision.
• Creating safe spaces is vital for open communication.
• The antidote to shame is vulnerability. Imposter syndrome can create fear and self-doubt.
• Vulnerability is crucial for personal growth and connection.
• Being vulnerable can encourage others to open up.
• Vulnerability is a two-way street; it benefits both parties.
• Cinematic examples can illustrate the importance of connection.
• Vulnerability is necessary for thriving relationships.
• Honesty with oneself is the first step to vulnerability.
• Community support is vital for overcoming challenges.
• Vulnerability requires courage and is a strength, not a weakness.
• Building connections starts with being vulnerable with oneself.

In this episode, we interview the amazing Sacha Lu! She is the passionate founder, organizer, and educator of the Women’s Wellness Collaborative. A women’s community group that cultivates a space of discovery, empowerment, and healing. You don’t want to miss this episode. So, turn up that volume and be in tuned!

Takeaways

• The Women's Wellness Collaborative creates a nurturing space for women.
• Vulnerability is essential for personal growth and connection.
• Listening without judgment fosters deeper relationships.
• Women often prioritize others' needs over their own.
• The group encourages sharing stories to empower one another.
• Creating an advisory board helps ensure the group's authenticity.
• Participants experience significant personal growth through sharing.
• The impact of community support is profound and transformative.
• Sacha's journey reflects the importance of following one's passion.
• The group aims to expand and inspire similar initiatives. You cannot do anything wrong in seeking support.
• Surround yourself with people who uplift you.
• Creating spaces for women to be vulnerable is essential.
• Show up for yourself when you can, even if it's sporadic.
• Resilience is about showing up for yourself and others.
• Vulnerability fosters deeper connections among individuals.
• Forgiveness is a journey, not a destination.
• It's important to allow yourself to feel and express emotions.
• Community support can significantly impact personal growth.
• Simple gatherings can lead to meaningful connections.

We continue the conversation with Beckey about faith, therapy, and cultural perspectives on mental health. You don’t want to miss out on part 2, so turn up that volume!

Takeaways

• Therapists should prioritize the client's needs over their beliefs.
• Creating a safe space for clients is essential in therapy.
• Hobbies like coloring can provide relaxation and healing.
• Cultural perceptions can stigmatize mental health practices.
• Generational trauma affects how communities approach mental health.
• Vulnerability is often seen as weakness, but it is a strength.
• Mindfulness practices can enhance mental well-being.
• It's important to recognize when a therapist is not the right fit.
• Change can be uncomfortable but necessary for growth.
• Acknowledging trauma is the first step towards healing. Vulnerability is a gradual process that requires patience.
• Utilizing support systems can help combat feelings of isolation.
• Starting small can lead to significant changes over time.
• Political and social stressors can deeply affect mental health.
• Acknowledging privilege is essential in understanding different perspectives.
• Grounding oneself in reality can help manage anxiety.
• Compassion is crucial in navigating political differences.
• It's important to recognize the humanity in others, regardless of beliefs.
• Self-care doesn't always have to be extravagant; it can be simple.
• We need to learn how to coexist despite differing opinions.

Welcome back Rebecca (Beckey) Rowe, therapist and the powerhouse behind Rowe in the Right Direction! Beckey offers her keen perspective on the current trends in mental health and provides actionable advice for accessing the support you need. So, get ready to tune in!

Takeaways

• The world is experiencing heightened anxiety and trauma.
• Trauma manifests differently for each individual.
• Transitions in life are a common struggle for many.
• Self-care is essential in times of crisis.
• Insurance can create significant barriers to mental health care.
• The mental health system is not perfect and needs improvement.
• Diagnosing clients can sometimes be harmful and stigmatizing.
• Accessibility to therapy has improved with telehealth options.
• Clients often do not recognize their own trauma.
• Balancing business and ethical responsibilities in therapy is challenging. Get on waitlists early to secure therapy access.
• Contact your insurance to understand mental health benefits.
• Utilize online directories to find therapists.
• Consider group therapy as a cost-effective option.
• Therapists also need to practice self-care.
• Vicarious trauma affects therapists deeply.
• It's important to set boundaries in therapy work.
• Faith can complement mental health practices.
• Religious trauma is a significant issue for many clients.
• Therapists should be open about their own struggles.

SEASON 2 IS HERE!!  In this episode, join Darien and Joab as they reintroduce The Be In Tuned Podcast: a podcast that features conversations centered on faith, mental health, and community. So get ready to tune in. Turn up the volume and welcome!

Takeaways

• The Be Intuned podcast focuses on faith, mental health, and community.
• Encouragement and perspective are vital in today's chaotic world.
• Faith can provide hope and direction in difficult times.
• Community plays a crucial role in mental health support.
• It's important to recognize toxic relationships in our communities.
• Loneliness can occur even in the presence of others.
• Striving for perfection is unrealistic; embracing imperfection is key.
• Healthy striving involves taking steps forward without self-judgment.
• Conversations about mental health and faith should be integrated.
• The podcast aims to encourage listeners to be their best selves. Encouragement plays a vital role in personal growth.
• Overcoming perfectionism is essential for healthy striving.
• Being tuned into our emotions enhances our interactions.
• The podcast aims to connect faith, mental health, and community.
• Everyone can benefit from mental health awareness.
• Growth can be exhausting but is ultimately rewarding.
• Change is a constant in life that we must embrace.
• Each podcast episode offers a unique perspective.
• Community support is crucial for mental health.
• Highlighting local talents fosters community connections.