What makes a true leader? It's not your label, your position, your charisma, influence or significance - although these arguably do play a role in some contexts. But, strictly a definition as such has barely begin to touch the surface of what true essence of leadership really is.

There is a leader in you if you know how to demonstrate this one value beyond yourself.

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Whatever you think is true to you, you are right. So it is for other person. Things become complicated when you impose on others what you think is right and want them to adopt your point of views, for the sake of wanting to be understood.

You can but explaining and justifying what you believe is right and leave the outcome to the person you convey it to, without latching on to it. This is how you get frustrated and things may get out of hand depending on the context and how you handle it.

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What's really in the name of sacrificing for others? Even when you might think it's for others you serve, it might really just be something you find meaning in - for yourself.

Sacrifices are often glorified or made an honorary endeavor but there is another side to this that not many realize. Instead of serving others like you believe it to be, it might be a disservice.

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When you are confused, oftentimes it just means you can't find the exact pattern of information that speaks to you, yet.

If you are not careful, you might allow the confusion to evolve into overwhelm and self-doubts which further dampen your motivation to look for solution with patience.

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NO is simple and powerful word, but it could be one that is reluctantly used or feared by most, especially by people-pleasers due to the way they associate with it.

The word NO can enforce clarity in effective communication of anything that is not in your interest to partake.

Clearly, there is no one who enjoys being rejected. And it doesn't have to sound harsh and mean when you know the right way to deliver it respectfully.

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On this journey of self-discovery, there is no need to compete with anyone else but yourself.

Everyone's journey is unique yet our purpose is down to the same thing - to be able to live our life to its fullest potential.

Trust that you are always right where you need to be. Similarly, accept the same for others and allow one another to figure out our own life.

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So they say, if you want better answers, ask better questions.

Instead of getting all swamped by mere theoretical understanding about being authentic, a practically simple way to get started is to ask questions which allows you to discover deeper who you are as a person.

There is no right or wrong in a general sense, but it needs to speak the truth about you and how you show up in life.

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Bringing your true self into your relationships can sound risky and scary at times especially when you value and treasure the relationships so much that you'd rather not stir the waters.

Yet, it can help you unmask the relationships for what they truly are and decide if it is one to keep or release. What destabilizes initially always returns to stability.

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While the importance of authenticity is often discussed relative to others, at the core of it, it is first about connecting and having a joyous relationship with yourself.

When you are in touch with who you are, you show up differently and in ways that will enable better connection and relationships with others in life.

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'Be yourself' is one of the most common ways to explain what authenticity is about.

But, this 'being yourself' may easily be interpreted as choosing what you're already familiar or comfortable with to which you might reply, 'That's me, being authentic to who I am".

Yet, this could be far from truth since it might also entail that, that's you being authentic to who you think you are, rather.

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