Let’s talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He’s an advice writer and the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.

1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame

3:00 having OCD as a child and now

6:00 mental health and spirituality

10:00 bisexuality and stigma

13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress

16:00 a darn good therapist session

20:00 how do you role model healthy male sexuality?

25:00 tips on coming out to family members 

28:00 more discussion on this ^

31:00 how to address my gf’s biphobia

34:00 Bi-Men, By Women book

38:00 if they aren’t 100% enthusiastic, maybe avoid them

42:00 real non-fiction erotica stories

46:00 theragun in the butt story

49:00 Boyslut things and projects

52:00  cancel culture vs call-ins 

55:00 any sex tips for our audience?

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