The Brainy Fox - Sexy Swinger Nerd

It's Valentine's month! That's right, the WHOLE month is sexy Valentine's month! I like to celebrate starting on the 1st. Mr. Saturday and I were invited to co-host an Angel Entertainment Valentine's hotel takeover party on Feb. 1st 2020 and we had a blast! We had SO much fun that our episode was too long for a single podcast. You will find it here in two parts.

In party 1 we talk on our way to the event. We begin by talking about what we plan to wear for the party and that leads us to discuss grooming and presentation and how everyone can be sexy. We take this a bit farther and discuss our own grooming habits. We're both pretty fastidious about grooming our sexy bits but we don't really expect everyone to wax and laser and religiously as we do. That took us into a discussion about grooming and anal sex which got interesting. During all of this we call on personal examples. It was a lively discussion.

We arrived at the hotel and sign off to get ready for the party. We pick up after the party in part 2 of this episode - which will be posted at the same time so you don't have to wait.

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Happy Swinging!

Polyamory - what does it mean to me....this week? Polyamory leads me to continue to reconsider things and to think deeply about my feelings and how I relate to people. I had some time to think so I recorded a reaction to some things that have come up recently. Mr. Saturday and I have an open relationship and we both are free to see other people. We are both absolutely comfortable with sex with other partners, but we are both less experienced with the emotional attachments that come with other relationships.

I feel pretty confident that I would love to see Saturday happily connecting with someone else, but I haven't really put that to the test yet. He hasn't met anyone that he's become that attached to in that way. He also wonders how he will react to my becoming very attached to another partner. Our communication is terrific and consistent so I think we are in a good position to deal with anything that come up, but we still have yet to really test that.

Comment or message if you have thoughts about polyamory.

In this episode Mr. Saturday and I spend time in bed where we answer some listener questions. We have gotten emails from people and we have gotten questions in person.

The discussion includes an explanation of what a shadow box is. We talk about polyamory and how we make it work. We discuss how we deal with jealousy.

We talk about how we communicate with each other during play and how that might differ from other people's strategies. This part gets really juicy and we recap our orgy from the last podcast a little bit. We talk about how to handle people who try to invite themselves into an active play scene. It gets interesting when we hit on some possible scenarios that we hadn't yet considered ourselves.

Our suite party at the Angel Entertainment hotel takeover was a huge success! We had so many people come by and we passed out bunched of Lifestyle Colors wrist bands! We drank and mingled....and we podcasted! I took some time to chat with a few friends that I have mentioned in earlier podcasts as well as a couple of new friends.

First, Mr. Saturday and I chat with Snarky and the Captain. They host swinger house parties during the warmer months. I had quite a solo adventure at a party they threw last June! Thanks guys! They tell us all about how they met each other and got into the lifestyle. As it turns out, Snarky was a UNICORN before she met the Captain. She had some interesting strategies for dealing with single men. The Captain was also a single in the lifestyle for a bit.

Later I sneak away with Bubble and Wolfie and Mr. and Mrs. New York. You may remember Bubbles and Wolfie from a previous house party episode, and our New Years Eve episode. Mr. and Mrs. New York are new to the area and recently had their first experience with Bubble and Wolfie. The four have since become friends and spend a lot of time together. yay!

I also get to spend some one on one time with Minka! We met at a party and she is smart and very sexy. She took the time to reach out to me to weigh in with her thoughts about single men in the lifestyle and we have a very interesting conversation about it.

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What a crazy experience (in the BEST way)! Mr. Saturday and I were invited to host a pre-party hospitality suite at the Furry/Pajama theme Angel Entertainment hotel takeover. Everyone had SO much fun. We set up our room to have snacks and special gummy bear shots with places for people hang out and mingle. We passed out wrist bands from our Lifestyle Colors project so that people could show their sharing and seeking colors with other party-goers. People loved the idea and it was a marvelous ice breaker.

At the end of an amazing evening (that involved quite a bit of drinking), Saturday and I got in the jacuzzi tub in our room and recorded our thoughts! We are clearly very tipsy and I initially thought about just discarding it, but it's funny and we like to be authentic. We talk about the party in the room, the massive orgy in the playroom and all the dancing and debauchery that went down at the party.

I recap the party again after the drunk tub segment so you can get a clearer picture of things. It was an awesome night and I'm looking forward to hosting again!

Check back tomorrow for PART 2 of this episode where I interview some of our awesome SWINGER FRIENDS! You'll hear from The Captain and Snarky, Bubbles and Wolfie, Mr. and Mrs. New York and Minka!

Happy Swinging!

I have more fun parties coming up! I have been invited to co-host at another Angel Entertainment hotel takeover on February 1st, 2020. This is an amazing way to kick of Valentine's Month!

If you're interested in coming out, you can sign up from the link here. I had SO much fun at the last event that I can't wait to do this next one. Seriously, last weekend's party involved old friends, new friends, dancing, sex and even an orgy!

Hope to see you there, and if you can't make it, stay tuned for all the details in a future podcast.

Happy Swinging!

This year has been amazing and we decided to end it in ultimate swinger fashion! We attended a huge Angel Entertainment hotel takeover with over 600 swingers in attendance! It was crazy and we had SO much fun. You can hear all the juicy details in this episode.

We are so ready to start 2020 right so we agreed to host an event for Angel Entertainment and we plan how to make our best first impression as swing party officials.

We also talk about some other silliness including the cold we both recently had. The cold that went around the swing community was dubbed "Swinger Crud" by Ray and De from our Club Euphoria adventures and the Euphoria Chronicles. Mr Saturday and I have used the term a LOT!

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It's been a crazy few weeks and I have been sick. This isn't a full episode but I wanted to say hello.

I have big plans for the weekend and you will hear all about soon. We are hosting a hospitality suite at the Angel Entertainment hotel takeover this weekend. We're introducing my new lifestyle project Lifestyle Colors too! It's going to be fun and I can't wait!

Mr. Saturday and I will finish our NYE recap this weekend for next Wednesday's update. There are so many juicy details!

2019 was a wild and crazy year for me and I'm looking forward to even more swinger adventures in 2020.

This episode begins with Mr Saturday and me recounting our New Year's Eve party adventures as an awesome house party. We saw friends and chatted and ran into old friends. We also had an amazing five person orgy!

Later after dancing and fun, Mr Saturday and I celebrated the new year with a midnight facial!

We also talk about our plans to re-celebrate new years the next weekend at a massive hotel takeover.

Later Mr. Saturday does a solo recording and recounts an awkward lifestyle experience that he had (and that we didn't get to on that episode).

Catch up with us next week when we give you all the details from the takeover that include another....you guessed it!...orgy!

Happy New Year!

The swinger lifestyle can be very exciting. It offers so many opportunities to meet and interact with fun and sexy people. However, as is true with other social interactions, sometimes things can get awkward or uncomfortable.

This episode is personal and intense for us. Mr. Saturday and Brainy get REALLY honest and personal. In previous episodes we have shared many (mostly) positive experiences that we have been fortunate enough to experience together. This episode focuses on experiences that were less positive. Some were a bit clumsy and a few were downright awful. We discuss these and explore how they might have been handled better. Honest and open communication seems to be the key, and we discuss that here.

Brainy recounts a few experiences in the lifestyle where things got awkward. Some ended really badly, but some turned out OK because they were handled well. Later, Mr. Saturday shares some of his experiences. He talks about having an intense group sex experience that was later made awkward when one of the of the participants divulged that he was cheating on his wife.

Awkward moments often involve male performance issues, and Mr. Saturday offers his advice for handling these situations. Performance issues can be caused by a myriad of factors, but the way in which they are handled makes a big difference in the way everyone ends up feeling. It's interesting to consider why very similar events can have such different outcomes when things are handled better and communication is improved.

Establishing a plan to deal with potentially awkward situations can make swinging adventures much more fun. We offer some suggestions about how to do that here.

Please let us know if you have anything to add to our discussion by leaving a comment or a voice message.

Happy Swinging!