The Brittany Wheeler Show

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As a young teenager Chandra Bailey thought that her parents’ divorce was her fault. Slowly she found herself feeling alone and searching for love from others. Instead of facing the pain and seeing the love being provided by her friends and family. Chandra began coping with drugs. What started as an innocent “tool” as she thought, became the chains that held her down. The deeper she fell into addiction the more isolated she became. Losing custody of her daughter, being evicted and legally a felon Chandra hit rock bottom. At her rock bottom an angel was sent disguised as her probation officer who helped her to see she was worth saving. Now three years sober she is on a journey to heal and help heal those who suffer from addiction. Join us for a beautiful conversation and learn that there is hope if you are lost in addiction.

• Addiction can stem from a combination of factors, including divorce, isolation, and exposure to unhealthy relationships.
• Relapses are common in the recovery process, but it's important to learn from them and continue moving forward.
• It is not about your set backs but your come backs
• Accountability and support systems, such as drug court, can play a crucial role in recovery.
• Choosing the hard path of sobriety requires self-reflection, perseverance, and a willingness to seek help.
• Recovery is a journey of self-discovery and healing, allowing individuals to rebuild their lives and find hope. Addiction is a complex issue that requires understanding and support from loved ones.
• Connection and showing up for someone struggling with addiction can make a significant impact.
• Changing one's environment and surrounding oneself with positive influences is crucial for recovery.
• Resilience, self-discovery, and finding purpose are key elements in overcoming addiction.
• Supporting loved ones in their journey of recovery requires setting boundaries and offering assistance when they are ready to seek help.
• Take the time to empathize and find compassion to those you know fighting addiction. Its your understanding that can save their life

Check out Chandra on IG and DM if you have questions or could use some help navigating overcoming addiction, supporting a loved one or life after addiction!

Chandra's favorite drink is a SUPER caramel drink from @starbucks

Chandra's favorite restaurant @puritanbackroom check them out!

New Hampshire Resources for substance abuse help and recovery! You can find state specific services through your states health and human services.

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Cassidy Baker was serving hot dogs from her family's food stand in her hometown in rural North Carolina. Unsure of what was next with her life. Cassidy’s angel would come in the form of a stranger who visited her family's business and saw past the “rock bottom” she found herself in. After consistent pestering from him she took a step and left the stand behind. Now a real estate agent and business owner she has become a community pillar. Cassidy is living on purpose for her family and the community. As a Wilmington area based instagram influencer she is stewarding the platform for good. Join Cassidy and I as we talk about her decision to leave her small town and lifes obstacles that she has overcome in pursuit of her dreams.

• Stepping outside of your comfort zone and exploring new experiences can lead to personal growth and a broader perspective.
• Try new foods, travel to new places and step out beyond where you grew up- it will help create a well roundedness
• The influence of parents and role models can shape our values and outlook on life.
• Choosing to react with kindness and positivity in challenging situations can lead to better outcomes and personal growth.
• Practicing gratitude and focusing on the positive aspects of life can lead to a more fulfilling and joyful existence.
• When you are faced in a low season be open to those around you willing to help and lead you towards to your next opportunity
• Family can be a powerful motivator and the driving force behind one's desire for a better life.
• Determine who is your “why” and what motivates you to work hard and strive for your dreams
• Choose to walk through hard things and believe you can do it

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Check out Cassidy on IG and follow along on their journey!

Check out Kereda Group for Cassidy's relator expertise.

Divers favorite coffee shop @diversurfcity-check them out! 

Shaka Taco favorite restaurant @shaka_taco- check them out!

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It is with compassion that love can grow. Our incredible guest is one of the most compassionate women we know. Caitlin Belcher’s life has been filled with beautiful family and friends who have shown her how to be kind. Modeling for her the importance of loving others in simple ways. Her perspective on empathy and kindness should remind you that everyone deserves to be loved. It is her humility that sees past a person's pain and projection seeking the light within them. She pushes past the voices that tell her she is alone, creating community for others to feel loved and seen. Join us for a heartwarming conversation of love and kindness.

• Kindness is contagious and can have a positive impact on others.
• Being intentional about kindness requires effort and a willingness to see beyond oneself.
• Asking someone if they are okay can diffuse tense situations and lead to better understanding- you still may not agree but you can find compassion
• Kindness can help navigate tough seasons in relationships and bring about positive change. Community and kindness are essential for navigating relationships and finding support.
• Caitlin found therapy and the power of communication playing a crucial role in understanding and expressing emotions. Helping her marriage and friendships.
• Acts of service and thoughtful gestures can strengthen relationships- understand your own love language so you can receive and give love well
• Finding communities that align with our interests and values provides a sense of belonging and support, don’t stay isolated push forward to seek these communities
• If you can't find a community, you can create one through various outlets like social media, online platforms, and in-person gatherings.
• Different seasons of life require different types of friendships and support.
• Setting realistic expectations in friendships is crucial to avoid disappointment.

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Casa Blanca favorite coffee shop @casablancacoffeeroasters -check them out! 

8207 Noma favorite restaurant @8207noma- check them out!

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Artist and entrepreneur Jenn Maksymiak would never color in the lines. As a young girl she felt the pressure to fit in while the entirety of her childhood she stood out. Pushing past the limiting beliefs of her parents and creating her own path quickly became her mission. While she continues to break through the frameworks that she was born into. During our conversation Jenn shares how art and special individuals would help light her path forward. She now has become a pillar in her community helping young children and old color outside the lines to discover their creative spirit within. Don’t miss this opportunity to hear how your childhood can define your future for the good and betterment of others.

• Networking events can be uncomfortable, but they are essential for building relationships and growing your business.
• Push past the fluff and pleasantries and get to know people in networking situations
• Finding supportive adults in your life can make a significant impact on your life and they may not be your parents
• Being true to yourself and embracing your uniqueness is more important than conforming to societal expectations.
• Artistic expression can be a powerful outlet for creativity and self-expression. Childhood experiences can shape our determination and drive to prove ourselves.
• Finding joy in art is key when the conviction to prove others wrong runs out
• Surrounding ourselves with a chosen family of supportive individuals is a beautiful gift that can help to heal the fractures made by blood family
• Forgiving your parents and those who placed limited beliefs on you can set you free and help you to grow stronger in your purpose
• Believing that things will get better and taking one day at a time can provide hope and strength.

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Check out Jenn on IG and follow along on their journey!
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Port City Java favorite coffee shop @portcityjava -check them out! 

Rebellion favorite restaurant @rebellionnc- check them out!

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It is more often than not God will use what you deem as a burden to bring freedom to others. Alyssa Sobecki suffered as a child from illnesses and allergies. After discovering that food which chained her would actually create her freedom, her life changed. The need for allergen removed foods for her and her family was a high priority but the access was limited. Being presented with this huge problem Alyssa created a solution. Founding The Difference Baker a 7 allergy removed bakery creating freedom and choices for those who need it. In our conversation Alyssa shares her vision, her faith and how they are intertwined. This story or resilience and faith will inspire you to know that what holds you back or has brought pain can also bring great joy.

• Choosing positivity and faith can lead to personal growth and a positive impact on others
• God used Alyssa’s Dads death to help heal her and prepare her for the future
• She found that COVID was a challenging time for her business but brought opportunity for healing and peace with her father- difficult circumstances can lead to good
• The Difference Baker is a bakery that specializes in 7 top allergen-friendly food options
• The bakery aims to provide choices and freedom for individuals with allergies without compromising taste or quality. 
• Food allergies can be seen as an opportunity for better health and well-being
• Your body will tell you what it needs and Alyssa believes that an allergy can be a lifeline for your body letting you know it is not needed
• Growing a business requires an insane amount of faith- it has challenged Alyssa and her husband in ways they couldn't imagine
• In the case of TBD this business has been fueled by faith and will continue to be as God brings the future into the present
• The Difference Baker's future plans include creating manufacturing facilities across the US and opening an allergen-friendly fast food restaurant.

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Check out Alyssa on IG and follow along on their journey! Check out The Difference Baker and grab your

Favorite coffee shops: Simply B @simplyb_coffee-check them out! Weird Bros. Coffee @weirdbroscoffee Brew Birds Coffee @brewbirdscafe Ridgetop Coffee @ridgetopcoffee 

Burtons Grill & Travinia's Italian favorite restaurant @burtonsgrill- check them out! Travinia's @travinialeesburgva
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In this episode, we delve into the heart of what it means to pursue a dream—or, in some cases, to discover that you never had one at all. Join me as I sit down with Kim Graham, a beacon of kindness and grit. While many chase after long-held aspirations, Kim’s story unfolds differently. Her journey teaches us that dreams can take many forms and that the relationships we cultivate along the way can be just as impactful. Whether you’re a dreamer, a doer, or someone still searching for your passion, this conversation will inspire you to reflect on the connections that matter most and the person you’re becoming. Join us for an inspiring discussion that just might encourage you to reach out to the "Kims" in your life. 

• Maintaining connections and fostering friendships can lead to unexpected opportunities and support even 10 years later
• Treating people with kindness and respect is important in all aspects of life- it can lead you to opportunities and friendships
• Being open to new experiences and meeting new people can have a significant impact on one's life. 
• Navigating through difficult seasons in life can be challenging, but finding gems in your life, such as supportive friends, can make a significant impact.
• When you prime your “grit” muscle or “no matter what” attitude then doing hard things or getting uncomfortable will get easier in time
• Who you surround yourself with will pay dividends in your future. I someone isn’t serving you in a season it is ok to shift your priorities in friendship
• Practicing gratitude and finding moments of positivity, even in difficult times, can help in the healing process.
• Choosing your own path and be open to opportunities that might not look like something you would do or have done. It is those business endeavors or friendships that have the greatest impact on your life
• Finding contentment and being grateful for what you have can bring a sense of peace and joy.

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Western Village Steakhouse favorite restaurant- check them out!
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In the silence when all that can be heard is the beeping of breathing machines and medical equipment came the silent whispers of God. Annette Audrey dreamed of a life rich in memories with healthy children and a motherhood that was the exact opposite of what God gave her. The life she was blessed with would begin to have more meaning than any of her dreams. After that quiet time with God her decision to fight for her life and ultimately the best life for her boys began. As an intuitive health and life coach she uses her incredible gifts to help others free their pain from within. Our conversation will inspire you and hopefully shed light on the steps you need to take to free yourself from the chains that hold you down. Join us as two friends and business colleagues talk about what is ahead for Annette and how the journey to healing is still in progress. 

• Sharing stories can have a profound impact on others and can lead to positive change.
• We met in a way you can only credit God- are you paying attention to the men and women coming into your life?
• Dreams and visions of the future may not always turn out as expected, but finding peace and acceptance can lead to healing.
• Once you realize you have control over your future you can begin to change the narrative from within
• It is easy and understandable to allow life the reigns and the “day to day” to win out, but we can choose a path that doesn’t compromise our mental and spiritual health
• Crossroad moments can be opportunities for growth and transformation. Pause and consider the consequences of your choices
• Are you honoring your most inner self? The one that is crying to be set free?
• Faith and spirituality can bring healing and redemption
• Transformation and reinvention require stripping away old patterns and beliefs
• Seek support and guidance on your journey of growth and self-discovery

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Check out Annette on IG and follow along on her journey!
Jump onto her website and find out about her work and how she could help you!

Luna Caffe favorite coffee shop @lunacaffeilm -check them out! 

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Ceviches @wbceviches - Check them out!

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The childhood Anthony had would forever frame his future. As the youngest child raised in a blue collar family in Worcester Massachusetts Anthony was not shy of hard work. He wouldn’t know it then but his favorite pastime of watching sitcoms was one of the reasons laughter came so easy to him. At a crossroad moment he found himself far from where he thought he’d be and made the decision to pursue comedy. The challenges did not stop and when the pandemic hit he had a choice to walk away, or pursue the one thing that has given him the greatest fulfillment. Anthony shares how he continues to make these hard decisions and gives advice to any of you navigating these challenges yourself. His God given talent matched with his work ethic have led him to the success he is walking into. You won’t be disappointed as you learn what it takes to fight for your dreams from a Massachusetts boy.

• Laughter and humor have the power to bring people together.
• Ant’s childhood framed how he used his time. Tuning into sitcoms and gaining the framework that everything ends happily.
• Your comedic talent is partially God given and partially practiced and refined
• Finding humor in everyday life can bring joy and fulfillment and everyone is funny- Everyone has the capacity to be funny in their own way; finding your audience is key.
• Maintaining friendships and connections is important for personal growth and happiness
• Anthony’s Dad has been such a role model for him. He pursued a degree in comedy and in many ways paved the way for his son to pursue the dream
• Your family may take time to support you and potentially even understand why you are pursuing your dream. Anthony’s family has all come together due to his commitment and passion for comedy
• Believing in yourself and pushing through challenges is essential for success.
• Pursuing your calling and making a positive impact on others brings fulfillment and joy.
• Being others-focused and using your talents to leave a legacy is important. Be honest with yourself and make choices based on what truly matters to you.
• Overcoming challenges and obstacles can lead to personal growth and success.
• Consistency and showing up are key to achieving your goals.
• Put in the work and be willing to overcome setbacks and failures.

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Check out Anthony on IG and DM if you have questions about pursuing comedy or want to know where he is performing next!

Good People Coffee Co. favorite coffee shop @goodpeoplecoffeeco-check them out! 

Boulevard Diner favorite restaurant - check them out!
Swingers Diner favorite restaurant- @swingersdiner
Carney's Restaurant favorite restaurant- @carneystrain

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Despite fighting against it and even pursuing another career path Mike Ashcraft found himself stepping into pastoral leadership in his 20’s. While his dreams were to build and create as it related to architecture. God would show him that building a church and creating a framework for God to work, was the greatest architectural work he could do. It has been Mike’s years as a dreamer and a follower of Christ that have shaped him into the leader and spiritual mentor he is today. His title is Senior Pastor at Port City Community Church in Wilmington, NC but he prefers the title of husband, father, grandfather, son and friend. This conversation will remind you that not all sacred work is in the church and pastors are human too.

• Being faithful in the small things is walking out in faith.
• Finding joy and contentment in every season of life is essential.
• Bargaining with God is a common experience, but it's important to trust His plan.
• When we bargain with God it is because we cannot trust that he has what is best for us
• We are all human including those with church titles such as pastors, priests, deacons etc.
• Insecurities and fear are normal, but they shouldn't hold us back from following our calling. Recognize the voice of the enemy and choose to trust in God's provision.
• The church has a role in economic development and should value every individual's vocation. 
• Not every job should be within the church, but all work can be sacred
• Kindness and compassion are powerful tools in creating a strong and welcoming community.

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Mikes Favorite Restaurants in Wilmington, NC
Cava - check them out!
Island's Fresh Mex Grill -Check them out
Pipeline Poke- Check them out!

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An upcoming wedding amidst a global pandemic gave Mary Haight the perfect opportunity to slow down and evaluate the life she was about to enter into.  Saying no to others and saying yes to herself has catapulted her into a season of ultimate discovery. Learning how to love yourself is harder than you think. In today’s episode my dear friend Mary Haight and I talk about how years of trying to be somebody she wasn’t led her into relationships she couldn’t recognize. She shares how she has turned her focus inward and as a work in progress is feeling hope for who she is becoming. If you have found yourself at a crossroad uncertain of who you have become, this episode is for you! 

• It's important to surround yourself with people who support your growth and overcome adversity
• Do those around you see who you can be? Who do you deserve to be?
• Kindness is a powerful tool that can have a positive impact on others and yourself
• Being kind is a muscle and one we should be modeling and sharing with the next generation
• Loving yourself means choosing you and standing up for yourself
• Choosing yourself and saying no to situations that don't feel right is a courageous act of self-care. 
• Stand up for what you want because life is too short to live for someone else’s happiness
• Surround yourself with supportive and loving people who add value to your life.
• Be honest with yourself and others, and don't conform to fit in.
• Life events can be opportunities for personal growth and self-discovery.
• Life is a rollercoaster so hold on because it's a bumpy ride

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Check out Mary on IG or her website!

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Krony's Pizza favorite restaurant - check them out!

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