Episode #15: Communication vs. Expectation

• We live by and it can be applied to EVERYTHING in your relationship… from taking out the garbage to sex.

• By the way… MEN are not MIND READERS.   If you need help, you need to ask for it..  

Action Strategies:

1. Because none of us are mind readers… if you need help, ask for it.

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Episode #14: How to Repair an upset and get back to Love

• Every relationship has upsets… it’s part of the game

Our Story….  saying something inappropriate and hurtful…

Action Strategies:

1. Realize that no matter how in love you are…. there WILL ALWAYS be misunderstanding, miscommunication and issues.

1. 1. There is no way to have challenge free unless you are dominating someone… psychology

1. Commit to communicating and repair immediately after the incident if possible…

1. Language from the victim

1. Language from …. Dan

1. What to do when it gets heated.

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #13: Money, Motives & Marriage

• Must talk about Money

Action Strategies

• Men - Get Over it. Don’t know how to say it to a woman? Here you go …   “I’m so excited to partner with you/build my life with you … AND, I want to make sure we have a life we desire for the rest of our lives, not just next week. 

• Because frame….

• Make an agreed upon plan and stick to it.  Just like a budget for biz… 

• Hotel Del…  half the $$... rich experience

• If he or her REFUSES to align… must make a decision.

• We will have an entire episode on HOW to give “feedback” in a manner that makes them feel good rather than feel like a failure.  I mean who wants to feel like a failure.

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #12: “The Fight Game”

• Relationships are about 2 ppl living a life together - different backgrounds & beliefs

Action Strategies

• Don’t sweat the small stuff… Impact

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #11: Setting the Bar, and Keeping the Relationship Fresh

• How do you want to be treated?

• Treating your partner like they are important.

• For me (Dan)... I wanted my woman/my wife to feel cherished, to feel safe and to know, I’m consistent.

• Opening Door in car

Action Strategies:

1. Psychology: You don’t have to wait for a new relationship to start to change your behavior.  Do it NOW

    2. If you were dating him or her, what’s ONE thing you would be doing, that you are not right now.                  (Opening door, planning a dinner, weekend plans, couple getaway)  JUST ONE PLEASE

    3. Share with your partner.  And here’s how: Hey Jennifer, I was doing some self-reflection and looking at  our relationship… and there’s some things that I want to do or changes I'd like to make… yet I just slipped.  So, I can just keep slipping, or work on making improvements… so I want to make improvements because I love you and I feel it will improve our relationship.  

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #10: Understanding Your Partner's Personality Style

Companies utilize assessments and reports to identify personality styles for leaders best communicate with their people. As a leader, your job to to get the MOST from your business partner or your employees.  The DISC is a report we've had Dr. Tony Alessandra redesign for relationships.  

This podcast outlines the four personality styles and provides tools to improve communication and influence.

Personality Style #1: Race Car Driver 

• Competitive

Personality Style #2: Entertainer

• Outgoing

Personality Style #3: School Teacher

• Steady

Personality Style #4: The Professor

• Reserved

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #9 - The Small Stuff Doesn't Matter

If we were running a business and Looking at the Long Term Strategy with a business partner, we would overlook simple things as long as they're doing a great job and your business is growing.  Yet often times in relationships, we get stuck on little things that we wouldn't matter if it were a business partner.

Strategies for Happiness:

• Being Ok with others idiosyncrasies  

• If already married… how did that turn out? Must be open to making changes to improve, just like you would in business.

• Just because it’s the way you do it, doesn’t make it right.   

Action Items:

How to not let it bother you…

• Must think like a business partner.  If you know they are talented and you want to keep them as a partner, focus on why you “brought them on” or “fell in love” rather than focusing on what they should be better at… because that’s not why you hired them (married them) - 

• Image of life without them… really though.

• Questions - the power of questions.

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #8: Successfully Negotiating the “in-Law” and “In-Family” Relationship(s)

When couples get together... also comes the "in-laws" or "In Family" Relationships. For instance, Jennifer's family Lebanese and they get together "every week" (exaggeration)... and my family sees each other once per year.  How do we negotiate this landscape respectfully?

Potential Challenges:  

• Expectations on visiting (local vs out of town),

New Marriage or Relationship - In Laws…   Certain Expectations (Potential)

Action Steps

1. As we discussed with kids, your partner MUST come first.

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies.

Episode #7: Game Changing Strategies for Step Parenting

Step parenting is a SKILL on it's own. The challenge is, creating a successful situation for the step parent will depend on the spouse who is the biological parent and their willingness to play the long game.

Potential Challenges:  

• Guilt from divorce

Take Aways:   

1. Partner comes first – Must feel #1

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The Business of Love

It's a fact that business professionals and entrepreneurs realize they must improve in areas where they lack skill or proficiency. It's not even a question... if you want to succeed in business, you must be open to learning, growing and communicating.  

As entrepreneurs, it's our belief that if WE would put the same effort into a relationship, the relationship would grow as well. In this podcast, we parallel the similarities between what it takes to create a passionate and successful relationships based on our business strategies. 

Episode #6: The X’s and O’s of Marrying Partner with an X or connection:

When Jennifer and I started seeing each other, she was in the midst of unwinding a serious relationship with financial involvement and many other challenges. I was previously married with two children and that was just the tip of the iceberg. 

We had a Strategy:

• The "Coming Out"

Action Strategies:

1. Create Strategy much like a business

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