Episode #25  How to get the PASSION back into the Relationship

First of all… we are all human and we have challenges, issues, and everyday circumstances that lead us to shift our focus to what’s most important NOW.

The most common things that “move” us apart:

Both parties can feel it. The key is to ACT NOW rather than later.  

Action Steps

    3. Schedule something special

    4. Get back to your charming self.

    5.Make him/her a priority   - They used to be a priority

           a. Treat him/her with love

           b. Your partner deserves better than others.

    6. Implement ONE Simple Action Step (turning off TV when you get home)

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Episode #23: How to Tame Your Man 

• Changing Behavior - Adjusting Behavior
  • Two ppl from two different worlds

• Never come at or attack your man for something he’s done. (Push - Push back)

• Frame question in a curiosity frame vs accusatory tone - 
  • Come from a place of love

Action Steps

1. Never attack your partner for something they've done.

2. Realize there will be challenges along the way

3. Changing behavior is a process. 

4. Acknowledge "Winning" Behavior

5. Approach with Love

6. Use Curiosity Frames 

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Episode #24: Through Sickness & Health

In business… things go bad as well… a recession, a set back, a recall, a lawsuit.

• • Magical words from a traditional marriage vow.

• 2.5 years of chemo, doc visits, and issues.

How to get through it - ACTION STEPS

• Accepting the situation as REAL right now.

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Episode 21:  Kids and Divorce #2 - My Daughter Zoë

My wife and I were divorced when my daughter Zoë was nine years old. She was our youngest. Zoë had some challenges along the way... and now she's 21 years old, and we are going to talk about her journey.

Zoë - 9 yrs old

• Did you know we were having problems… 

So I told you….   

• How did you feel…

It happened?

• emotionally?

Challenges in High School: Gorman, Coronado, Beacon academy 

Relationship with me?

Relationship with mom?

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Episode #22: Your Happiness is YOUR Responsibility

• Two broken people don’t make a whole. Self-development and personal growth is imperative for relationship success.

Action Steps:

• Asking yourself the right questions - what would increase my happiness / what makes me happy that I’m not doing right now

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Episode #17: When you’re feeling NEEDY in the Relationship?

Typically one of two reasons:

1. not getting attention from spouse you are wanting

Action Steps

1. Have Open communication with your spouse… share your feelings, don’t keep them in.

1. Do a check within…  are you taking care of own needs?

1. 1. self-care

How: Rate yourself on 0-10 scale on the areas of your potential needs.

Next: put action plan together to make strides in the areas of focus.  

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Episode #28: Managing the Football Season

It’s that time of the year… it’s football season. A joy for some... a curse of others.

Thursday night FB, a few college games on Friday, Saturday - college all day, Sunday - NFL and then Monday night Football.

Message:  There has to be some balance… some give and take.

Business example: 

Client or Prospect:  If you are spending all of your time somewhere else, you’re not going to get the business.

• What you focus on Grows

As a Leader:

• Jennifer example: Previous business partnership: Partner was focused on other things…

Steven Covey… 7 habits of highly effective people… he talks about making emotion deposits into your partners account.  If you don’t put in deposits, you’re gonna run out of currency.

Action Steps:

• Be Proactive:  Invest in him/her prior to withdrawing from the “account”.  Put in some energy, love, some time - prior to day.

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Episode #15: The 3 Musts for a Successful Relationship

1. Positivity

Positivity:  Nothing grows with negativity. Nothing positive happens with negativity. The skill of being positive or living in positivity is paramount to Relationship success.

Vulnerability: How vulnerable are you? Do you protect or insulate yourself from judgement with your partner?  Being balanced enough, being confident enough and being trusting enough to be vulnerable will change your life. 

Consistency: Anyone can be great for an hour or a day. Can you do it consistently? Consistency is a key to any Relationship - Personal or Business. If you're behavior is inconsistent, how can you build a foundation?

Action Steps:

1. Rate yourself with your partner on a 0-10 scale. 

2. You rate your partner and they rate you.

3. Reverse Engineer Success:  If you rate a "6" in the consistency department, what do you need to do, or what changes are you willing to make to get to a 7 or an 8?

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Episode #17  Divorce Through my Son's Eyes.

My ex-wife and I were divorced when my son Daniel was 11 and my daughter Zoë was 9.  Divorce is a very challenging situation involving children, their psychology and how they view the world.

After 11 years, Daniel is now 22 yrs old, and I'm so excited to have him in the studio today to talk about how the divorce looked through a 11 year-old boy's eyes. 

I had some questions:

• Did he know we were having issues?

I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

Dan

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Episode #16: Can Your Relationship Recover from Cheating

Cheating can be Devastating  

1. Frame of Reference in the world is shattered.

1. What does this all mean?

1. What Role did each of us play in this situation

1. Is he/she an unfaithful person?

Action Steps

1. What’s the Next Step?

1. Real Conversation

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