The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

Brad Hill, Chief Solutions Officer at Gloo and former President of Ministry Brands, discusses how to double your church outreach and reach more people, the NIHITO principle, and the early adopter advantage in the future of tech and AI.

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COMPASSION

As a pastor, I knew child sponsorship was an opportunity for my church to make an impact worldwide and I trusted Compassion International to make that happen. Learn more about hosting your own Compassion Sunday at https://compassion.com/carey

GENERIS

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TIMESTAMPS:

Changes in church approach to ministry (00:06:45)

Early adopters in tech (00:07:22)

Early Adopters and Innovation (00:15:41)

Laggards and Risk Tolerance (00:18:26)

Tech Resources and Ministry (00:23:26)

Rapid Scale and Acquisitions (00:27:31)

Challenges in Christian Giving (00:34:35)

The Evolution of the Church (00:36:44)

The Role of Technology in the Church (00:41:23)

Future Possibilities with AI (00:46:45)

The potential of AI in ministry (00:49:14)

Challenges and opportunities in embracing AI (00:51:34)

Effectiveness of church outreach (00:55:30)

Challenges in following up on outreach leads (00:59:25)

Improving conversion rate in outreach (01:03:59)

Engaging Volunteers in Digital First Response (01:07:01)

Timeliness in Responding (01:09:23)

Importance of Customer Retention (01:11:32)

Cultivating Curiosity and Creativity (01:14:21)

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Priscilla Shirer, author, evangelist, actress, and speaker, discusses how to improve your communication skills, how she learned acting skills, and how actors learn to cry on demand.

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OVERFLOW

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SUBSPLASH

Out of the 168 hours in a week, how many hours does your church actually have the full attention of your people? That's where Subsplash comes in. Today you can join 17,000 other churches who partner with Subsplash to go beyond Sunday and make disciples. Go to subsplash.com/carey to get $500 off when you sign up.

TIMESTAMPS:

The early signs of leadership (00:16:02)

Unexpected paths and opportunities (00:18:19)

Pursuing excellence and learning from experts (00:23:11)

Developing acting skills (00:26:16)

Discussing the upcoming movie "The Forge" (00:33:55)

The evolution of Christian entertainment (00:36:19)

Simplicity as success (00:50:00)

Fear of not delivering enough value (00:51:26)

Supporting female leaders (00:55:27)

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Steve Cuss talks about how to recognize if you have chronic anxiety (or anxieties). Steve and Carey discuss how to handle people who get their kicks out of kicking the leader and the problem with the complex job descriptions of Lead Pastors.

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THE PREACHING CHEAT SHEET

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BELAY

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TIMESTAMPS:

Wearing multiple hats as a pastor (00:06:41)

Dealing with criticism and anxiety (00:13:10)

The complicated job description (00:16:14)

Compassion fatigue and news exposure (00:19:36)

Unique challenges of pastors (00:21:33)

Lead pastor mistakes and learning (00:30:20)

Health assessment of younger leaders (00:35:59)

Generational differences in anxiety (00:36:55)

Understanding anxiety types (00:42:04)

Managing chronic anxiety (00:45:59)

Trauma and the body (01:00:39)

The importance of self-care (01:04:09)

Synchronizing emotions with the gospel (01:07:05)

Challenges of leadership and unrealistic expectations (01:08:30)

Perpetuating well-meaning legalism in the church (01:09:47)

Focus on self-improvement and well-being (01:13:26)

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Dr. Alison Cook discusses how therapy has become the new church. She and Carey also discuss the dangers of spiritual bypassing, what to do when you want to escape your life, and how much cognitive dissonance is normal for leaders.

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1:1 Meeting Guide

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This episode is sponsored by:

GLOO

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COMPASSION

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TIMESTAMPS:

The rise of therapy in the culture (00:00:01)

Therapy as the new church (00:00:20)

The intersection of faith and psychology (00:02:04)

Challenges in the church regarding mental health (00:04:38)

The dangers of spiritual bypassing (00:19:02)

The need for deep transformational work (00:28:34)

The impact of compulsive availability (00:31:15)

The normality of escape fantasies and cognitive dissonance (00:39:01)

Dealing with shame in a religious context (00:46:13)

Shame and its neurobiology (00:46:15)

Understanding shame and guilt (00:47:15)

The practice of Naming, Framing, and Braving (00:50:51)

The challenge of numbness in leadership (00:53:51)

Addressing toxic leadership situations (01:01:59)

Options for dealing with toxic environments (01:06:46)

The importance of healthy communities (01:08:59)

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Every organization and every church has them: toxic people. But how do you spot them? In this teaching, Carey Nieuwhof covers six subtle signs leaders miss. Carey outlines exactly what you need to do to make sure you limit the impact of toxic people in your church and shows you what you need to do to stack your team with healthy leaders.

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1:1 Meeting Guide

The Art of Leadership Live

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THE ART OF TEAM LEADERSHIP

Thousands of leaders have used the material in The Art of Team Leadership to grow their leadership and learn how to better lead, manage, and motivate a team. You can learn more by visiting theartofteamleadershipcourse.com.

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TIMESTAMPS:

Toxicity and its Impact (00:00:04)

Introduction to Toxic People (00:01:02)

Recognizing Toxic Behavior (00:02:51)

Metaphor of Toxicity (00:04:53)

The Leader's Role in Addressing Toxicity (00:06:49)

Obvious Signs of Toxic Behavior (00:07:50)

Subtle Signs of Toxic Behavior (00:08:55)

Reciprocity and Dominance in Relationships (00:11:05)

Seeking Attention and Hijacking Conversations (00:13:27)

Early Engagement and Frequent Communication (00:14:30)

The signs of toxic behavior (00:16:20)

Types of people: Wise, foolish, and evil (00:19:12)

Dealing with foolish behavior (00:23:19)

Handling evil people (00:25:33)

Stacking the organization with wise people (00:27:36)

Creating a healthy culture (00:28:47)

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Legendary leadership expert Ken Blanchard and Randy Conley talk about the backstory of the One Minute Manager. They also discuss seagull management, the power of simplicity and brevity, and how to stay fit, engaged, and contributing at age 85.

Show Notes

The Art of Leadership Live

On The Rise Newsletter

Preaching Cheat Sheet

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Follow @careynieuwhof

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This episode is sponsored by:

COMPASSION

As a pastor, I knew child sponsorship was an opportunity for my church to make an impact worldwide and I trusted Compassion International to make that happen. Learn more about hosting your own Compassion Sunday at http://compassion.com/carey

GLOO

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TIMESTAMPS:

Co-authorship and Writing Process (00:07:40)

The One Minute Manager (00:18:28)

Spiritual Foundation of Leadership (00:24:23)

Simplicity in Leadership (00:26:30)

Development of Situational Leadership (00:29:10)

Focus on Middle Management (00:35:32)

Influencing Top Managers (00:37:19)

Seagull Management (00:37:54)

Creating Memorable Metaphors (00:39:21)

Ego's Anonymous (00:41:27)

Servant Leadership (00:48:44)

Refiring at 85 (00:50:52)

Longevity in an Organization (00:55:07)

The One Minute Reprimand to Redirect (00:59:45)

Fear and Trust (01:00:55)

Unequal Treatment and Fairness (01:03:38)

Leadership in Absence (01:05:53)

Collaboration and Leadership (01:10:01)

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James (JP) Poulter talks about the best and worst-case scenarios for AI in the next decade, practical AI tools you should start using now, and the pastoral implications for AI for every church leader.

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This episode is sponsored by:

THE ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

If you're looking to level up your leadership and level up your church, I'm hosting my very first conference — the Art of Leadership LIVE — in Dallas, Texas, from September 16th-18th.

It's time to break free from what's been holding you back. You can secure your spot by visiting theartofleadershiplive.com

TENX10

Our friends at TENx10 are committed to making faith matter more to the next generation, and right now, they're offering you a free five-minute assessment called the Relational Discipleship Inventory that measures your youth ministry's efforts.

Visit TENx10.org/RDI today to complete your free assessment!

TIMESTAMPS:

Discussion on the threats of AI (00:05:53)

Ethical considerations in technology development (00:13:21)

Worst Case Scenarios for AI (00:21:57)

Best Case Scenarios for AI (00:25:49)

Perplexity and Beautiful AI (00:29:40)

Comparison of Cloud and ChatGPT (00:32:09)

Training Data and Applications of Language Models (00:35:11)

Conversational AI and its Importance (00:38:50)

Ecclesia's Agenda (00:42:34)

Church's response to AI (00:46:56)

Integration of AI in ministry (00:48:27)

Understanding and using AI responsibly (00:50:07)

Transparency and disclosure with AI usage (00:54:49)

Ethical Use of AI (01:02:01)

Humanizing Tasks with AI (01:03:46)

AI in Church Ministry (01:07:43)

Empowering with AI (01:09:12)

Responsibility and regulation (01:12:47)

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William Ury, co-founder of the Harvard Program on Negotiation and one of the world's leading experts on negotiation, coaches leaders on how to fire underperforming staff and handle angry church members. Plus, he shares strategies and tactics he's used negotiating with Donald Trump, Kim Jong Un (and Dennis Rodman), de-escalating nuclear conflict and negotiating peace in the Middle East.

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This episode is sponsored by:

GLOO

Our friends at Gloo are offering your church free, unlimited texting for up to three groups. This is a wonderful opportunity to enhance your church's communication strategy efficiently. Don't let this opportunity pass by.

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SUBSPLASH

Out of the 168 hours in a week, how many hours does your church actually have the full attention of your people? That's where Subsplash comes in. Today you can join 17,000 other churches who partner with Subsplash to go beyond Sunday and make disciples.

Go to subsplash.com/carey to get $500 off when you sign up.

TIMESTAMPS:

William Ury's background and expertise (00:03:07)

The impact of Ury's paper on Middle East peace negotiations (00:07:48)

The role of anthropology in negotiation (00:15:53)

Case study: Camp David negotiations (00:19:06)

Reframing positions into Interests (00:33:41)

Averting Nuclear War (00:36:33)

Trump's Victory Speech (00:38:35)

Meeting Dennis Rodman (00:39:32)

Negotiating with Kim Jong Un (00:41:14)

The Framework (00:45:53)

Negotiating with yourself (00:47:02)

Negotiation strategies (00:57:16)

The Third Side (00:57:46)

Leadership and conflict resolution (01:00:30)

Congregational conflict (01:01:54)

Negotiation and compromise (01:03:48)

Conflict in staff management (01:11:26)

Dealing with employee layoffs (01:15:20)

Handling emotionally charged situations (01:16:26)

Negotiating with a president (01:20:03)

Managing conflict in a congregational setting (01:24:40)

Navigating turbulent times in the church (01:32:04)

Negotiation insights (01:34:43)

The role of the church in conflict resolution (01:55:56)

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Matt Chandler joins the conversation today and opens up about hitting the wall in his late thirties. He discusses recovering from a dead heart and from brain cancer, lessons he learned from his leave of absence after an Instagram exchange, and gives some incredibly insightful lessons on how to revitalize a dying church.

Show Notes

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This episode is sponsored by:

THE ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

I recently took a look at the list of leaders who are registered for my first ever conference this September in Dallas, Texas - The Art of Leadership Live and let me tell you, it's shaping up to be quite a stellar group of people.

I'm already excited to connect with a number of people I've met before — some of whom have even been guests on this podcast

You can learn more by visiting theartofleadershiplive.com

BELAY

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TIMESTAMPS:

Impact of childhood experiences on extroversion (00:07:05)

Realization of calling to ministry (00:09:01)

Struggles and self-awareness in late 30s (00:15:36)

The impact of childhood on identity (00:19:26)

Communication style and personal experiences (00:22:50)

Revitalization of Village Church (00:29:01)

Challenges and changes in leadership (00:31:06)

Challenges of church growth (00:36:26)

Lessons from mistakes (00:43:08)

Facing personal crisis (00:47:18)

Empathy for those in distress (00:56:57)

Lessons from a ministry interruption (00:59:30)

Power imbalance and influence (01:08:37)

Enduring marriage and leadership (01:11:42)

Living out the Gospel in daily life (01:17:43)

The Overcomers Podcast and Book (01:20:52)

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Global investment banker, financier, and philanthropist Ken Costa talks about the 100 trillion dollar wealth transfer that's happening over the next decade as Boomers pass on their wealth to their Millennial and Gen Z children. He discusses what happens when the next generation inherits that much money and the key to wealth for beginning investors.

Show Notes

The Art of Leadership Live

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Preaching Cheat Sheet

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This episode is sponsored by:

GLOO

Forward-thinking pastors are turning to texting—a direct and effective way to reach your congregation. Our partners at Gloo are offering free, unlimited texting to up to three groups in your system.

Visit gloo.us/freetexting

TENX10

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TIMESTAMPS:

Misconceptions about money and faith (00:10:45)

Compound interest and investment (00:22:16)

The $100 trillion wealth transfer (00:25:40)

Influence of wealth transfer on the housing market (00:28:44)

Impact of technology and inheritance (00:32:06)

Generational divide and church's role (00:35:16)

Technology's empowering role (00:38:49)

Preparing for the wealth transfer (00:43:09)

Churches and estate planning (00:46:05)

The vision for generational unity (00:50:29)

Financial advice for younger generations (00:52:31)

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