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What does modern etiquette really mean in today’s high-pressure professional world? In this conversation, Alison shares how etiquette goes far beyond table manners and becomes a powerful tool for leadership, executive presence, networking, communication, and self-respect.
We explore how to stay composed under pressure, recover after losing your temper, navigate swearing in professional settings, and exit conversations gracefully at networking events. Alison also shares thoughtful advice on appearance, grooming, makeup, professionalism, and how to show up as your most polished and authentic self.
From big law to the White House, this episode is full of practical insights for ambitious professionals who want to lead with confidence, kindness, and composure.
00:00 Why etiquette matters for leadership
Alison’s Book about Career: https://elevateetiquette.com/book
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To mark World Sleep Day, we’re diving into one of the most important, and misunderstood, pillars of wellbeing: sleep.
Sleep is something we all need, yet for many high-performing professionals it becomes one of the hardest things to achieve.
In this episode, I’m joined by sleep physician Dr. Joshua Kovoor to explore the science of insomnia, why high achievers often struggle with sleep, and what actually helps restore a healthy relationship with rest.
Drawing from both clinical experience and personal stories of burnout and chronic insomnia, we unpack the hidden mechanisms behind sleepless nights, including sleep anxiety, cortisol dysregulation, sleep erosion, and the pressure to “try harder” to fall asleep.
Dr. Kovoor explains why sleep doesn’t respond to effort the way productivity does, and how the very traits that make someone successful can sometimes make sleep harder to access.
We also dive into the biology of sleep, including circadian rhythm, sleep pressure, cortisol patterns, REM sleep, and the common habits that quietly sabotage recovery, such as alcohol, late-night work, binge-watching, and digital overstimulation.
Most importantly, we explore practical ways to rebuild a healthier relationship with sleep, from wind-down routines and behavioral changes to relaxation techniques and lifestyle adjustments that support the body’s natural sleep systems.
If you’ve ever struggled with insomnia, burnout, or racing thoughts at night, this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening in your body, and how to start repairing your sleep in a sustainable way.
⚠️ Disclaimer:
The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Please consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized medical guidance.
0:00 – Introduction
3:15 – Charlene’s personal journey with chronic insomnia and burnout
7:40 – What clinically defines insomnia vs temporary sleep issues
12:20 – Why high performers and lawyers often struggle with sleep
18:30 – The concept of “sleep erosion” and modern productivity culture
26:10 – Circadian rhythm explained: light, cortisol, and biological clocks
36:45 – The “sleep pressure balloon”: how the body builds sleep drive
46:20 – Evening habits that sabotage sleep (alcohol, screens, work stress)
57:50 – Wind-down routines, relaxation techniques, and better sleep habits
1:10:30 – Final insights and how to work with Dr. Joshua Kovoor
Dr. Joshua Kovoor
Website: joshuakovoor.com
LinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/joshua-kovoor-166942225
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Struggling to fall asleep? 🌙
Listen to this episode — “Guided Sleep Meditation: A Relaxing Walk Through Meadows and Moonlight” — and let your mind gently unwind, release the day, and drift into deep, peaceful sleep.
https://charlenegisele.com/podcast/guided-sleep-meditation-a-relaxing-walk-through-meadows-and-moonlight/
If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone navigating burnout, insomnia, or high-pressure careers.
In this International Women’s Day special, we’re celebrating leadership, resilience, and the realities of building a high-performing career while raising a family.
In this episode, I’m joined by Olivia Ngan, partner at Sidley Austin in Hong Kong, to talk about navigating motherhood, ambition, and leadership in one of the world’s most demanding professions.
Olivia’s story is remarkable. She had three pregnancies and three promotions, including a promotion to counsel after returning from maternity leave with four children under five. Throughout our conversation, she shares how resilience, strong support networks, and a positive mindset helped her navigate high-stakes deals, family responsibilities, and leadership at a global law firm.
We talk about why work-life balance is often unrealistic, and why work-life integration or “fusion” is a more accurate way to think about modern leadership and family life. Olivia also shares her non-negotiables for wellbeing, how she maintains high performance under pressure, and the mindset shifts that help her reframe challenges rather than being overwhelmed by them.
This conversation is a powerful reminder, especially on International Women’s Day, that leadership doesn’t have one path, and that ambition, family, and resilience can coexist.
If you’re a lawyer, executive, founder, or working parent navigating career growth and family life, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on priorities, resilience, and redefining success on your own terms.
0:00 – Introduction
Olivia Ngan – Sidley Austin Profile
Olivia Ngan on LinkedIn
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
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If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone navigating leadership, parenthood, and ambition at the same time.
What really sets humans apart in the age of AI? Presence.
In this episode, I’m joined by Martine Croxall (BBC presenter) and Neil Midgley (former lawyer-turned-journalist & media trainer) to unpack why communication isn’t a “soft skill” at all, it’s an essential skill for leaders who want to influence, persuade, and build a personal brand that actually feels real.
We talk about media training vs presentation skills, the biggest communication faux pas (hello jargon + “delighted to announce…”), and why every interview or public appearance is an exchange of commercial value. You’ll also hear how to stay truthful without oversharing, how to avoid sounding scripted in the social media era, and how to show up as an amplified version of your “resting state self”, confident, warm, and credible.
If you’re a lawyer, exec, founder, or leader who’s ever thought “I’m not a natural speaker” or “I just want to be authentic,” this episode will give you a practical framework (and a few laughs) to show up better, on stage, on podcasts, on panels, and in the room.
0:00 – Introduction
2:27 – The AI era: why “presence” is the real differentiator
9:20 – Traits Martin sees in female leaders + transferable confidence
13:45 – Personal brand today: authenticity that isn’t performative
16:19 – “Amplify your resting state self” (authentic vs “media-trained”)
21:46 – Media training vs presentation skills: what each actually covers
28:05 – Biggest communication faux pas: jargon, no purpose, no stories
31:12 – Every interview is an exchange of commercial value
57:11 – Death by PowerPoint: why dense slides dilute your impact
1:16:02 – How to measure if your speaking is “working” + getting real feedback
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/charlenegisele
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlène-gisèle-bourliout/
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If this episode resonated with you, share it with a high-performing leader who’s brilliant at what they do — but knows their message deserves to land more powerfully.
What makes someone musical, talent, training, or timing?
We talk about the nature vs nurture debate (especially through the lens of childhood and parenting), why the “right teacher at the right time” can change a life, and why Raffaello believes music isn’t about perfection, it’s about connection.
Finally, we explore how Raffaello brought music into food through Fidelio, creating a space where music belongs back in everyday life, not locked behind elitism, silence, and strict rules.
0:00 – Intro: nature vs nurture + what musicality really is
Fidelio Café (London): https://fidelio.cafe/
Raffaello’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raffomorales/?hl=en
Fidelio Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefidelio/
Raffaello’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raffaello-morales-85b455213/
Order Raffaello’s Book: The Earth of the Skies
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
If this episode resonated, share it with someone who loves music, but has forgotten it’s meant to feel human.
What happens when a high-achieving woman hits her mid-to-late 30s, wants a baby more than anything… and realizes nobody ever taught her how fertility actually works?
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Natalie Crawford, board-certified in OBGYN and Reproductive Endocrinology & Infertility, and co-founder of Fora Fertility in Austin, Texas. We talk directly to the “Stephanie” archetype: the brilliant, driven, time-poor, high-performing woman who’s crushing her career… and now feels like fertility is the one thing she can’t outwork.
We cover what to do before jumping into IVF, how to think about genetic testing, how many IVF rounds are “safe,” and the emotional reality of the two-week wait (and why you shouldn’t go through it alone). Dr. Crawford also breaks down the science of stress, inflammation, and insulin resistance, without the dismissive “just relax” narrative.
If you’re trying to conceive, considering IVF, navigating pregnancy loss, or planning baby #2 in your 40s, this conversation will give you data, clarity, and a calmer way to make decisions.
0:00 – Why fertility planning matters for high-achieving women
Website: https://www.nataliecrawfordmd.com/about
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalie-crawford-md
Pre-order Natalie’s “The Fertility Formula Book”: https://www.nataliecrawfordmd.com/book
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
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What happens when a high-achieving lawyer walks away from billable hours… and into a painting studio?
In this episode, James Nepaulsingh shares his journey from working in high-pressure law to studying an MA in Painting at the Royal College of Art, and what it really feels like to rebuild your identity when your entire sense of worth has been tied to productivity, achievement, and external validation.
We talk about success addiction, workaholism, the brutal vulnerability of making art, and why painting isn’t always “healing”, sometimes it’s straight-up torturous. James opens up about perfectionism, criticism, flow state, synesthesia, and the surprising emotional cost of becoming an artist after building a career in one of the most demanding industries in the world.
0:00 – Intro
2:12 – Productivity identity + billable-hour PTSD
6:12 – Stigma in the art world: “lawyer with a hobby”
11:33 – RCA critiques, unlearning, and why painting feels torturous
14:33 – Family reactions + redefining identity
20:20 – Art as self-reflection (and what law suppresses)
23:34 – Burnout culture, overwork, and death in law
38:44 – Synesthesia, music, and how James experiences art
46:10 – Imperfection as rebellion against perfectionism
54:28 – Flow state, time distortion, and reduced anxiety
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nepopublic/
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
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💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlène-gisèle-bourliout/
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If this episode resonated, share it with someone who’s quietly burning out behind a “successful” career.
If you’ve ever had one week where you’re unstoppable… and another where everything feels heavier, this conversation will change how you see your calendar. In this episode, Renae Fieck breaks down cycle syncing (and cyclical living), why ovulation is the “queen” of the cycle, and how to align your work, workouts, food, and sleep with your natural rhythms, without letting your cycle limit your ambitions.
0:00 – Introduction
Website: https://cyclesyncyourbusiness.com/
Free Audiobook (Cycle Sync Your Business): https://renae-fieck.mykajabi.com/offers/BFXdXMLG/checkout?preview=true
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/renaefieck/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/risingmoms
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaeFieck
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renaefieck
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renaefieck/
🌍 Website: https://charlenegisele.com
If this episode resonated, share it with a high-achieving woman who’s doing “everything right” but still feels like her energy is unpredictable.
What happens when a traditional profession meets generative AI, and now agentic AI? In this episode, I’m joined by Sam Dixon (Chief Innovation Officer) to unpack how law firms can adopt GenAI responsibly, train teams to critically evaluate outputs, and use AI to deliver more value, without burning out in the process.
We cover what GenAI is (and isn’t), why humans must stay in the loop, how to overcome resistance to change, the reality of “hallucinations,” and what the next phase, agentic AI, could mean for legal research, negotiation simulation, and early-talent development.
0:00 – Intro
Sam Dixon’s Legal Firm: https://www.womblebonddickinson.com/uk/people/sam-dixon
Sam Dixon’s LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/innovationinlaw
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In this eye-opening clean health episode, I sit down with Ashley Deeley, clean beauty expert and wellness educator, to uncover the hidden toxins quietly impacting our skin, hormones, thyroid, and overall wellbeing, often without us realizing it.
From exposing where heavy metals, forever chemicals, and endocrine disruptors hide in everyday products to explaining how “natural,” “fragrance,” and “long-lasting” labels can be misleading, Ashley breaks down how modern living is contributing to inflammation, fatigue, skin issues, and hormonal imbalance.
Whether you’re a high-performing professional dealing with unexplained exhaustion, someone struggling with thyroid or skin concerns, or simply trying to make healthier choices without extremes, this conversation will completely change how you think about your bathroom, bedroom, and kitchen.
Ashley doesn’t promote perfection, she teaches practical, realistic upgrades that protect your health without adding stress.
00:00 - Introduction
06:00 - Forever chemicals explained: where they hide in beauty & daily products
14:00 - Bedding, mattresses & fire retardants: what you’re breathing at night
22:00 - Cookware, slow cookers & air fryers: hidden lead and heavy metals
31:00 - Daily exposure overload: detergents, fragrance & “natural” marketing traps
40:00 - Skincare myths: retinol, vitamin C, collagen & what actually works
50:00 - Botox, anti-aging & safer alternatives for skin health
57:00 - Thyroid health, blue light & hormone disruption
1:03:00 - Travel hacks: reducing toxin exposure on the road
1:07:30 - Final takeaways: small upgrades that make a big difference
For High-Performers: You can’t outwork environmental stress. Hidden toxins quietly drain energy, disrupt hormones, and slow recovery, even when your habits look “healthy.”
For Thyroid & Hormone Health: Everyday products can interfere with endocrine function. Reducing exposure often matters more than what you add.
For Skin & Aging: What you put on your skin matters just as much as what you eat. Clean ingredients support regeneration; synthetic ones can accelerate inflammation and aging.
For Sustainable Wellness: Health isn’t about doing everything, it’s about removing what doesn’t belong and upgrading gradually.
Ashley doesn’t just talk about clean beauty, she provides a grounded framework for creating a healthier environment that supports long-term energy, sleep, and resilience.
🌿 Ashley Deeley’s Website: https://www.ashleydeeley.com/
📱My Home Ready Fertility E-Book: https://charlenegisele.com/your-fertility-ready-home/
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