The Choice, Change & Action Podcast

Have you done everything you are meant to do with your partner? If not, is there something that can change to keep the spark alive?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas answers more listener questions about relationships.

There is nothing right or wrong about being in a relationship or not; it's just a choice. Don't choose relationship because you think it's a necessity. Keep choosing every day!

Be different. Don't try to be like anyone else, keep choosing for you.

Be everything that you can be today!

Questions And Tools:

• If you keep choosing something, there's something you love about it.
• Are you choosing the same type of person because they have the same vibrations you have; so you can go, "See, my judgements are real and true."
• Are you willing to receive kindness or are you only willing to receive judgements?
• Are you choosing because it's familiar and you can maintain predictability and control it?
• What if nothing is broken? What if something has changed and something is now different?
• Is your partner capable of what you are asking for? Are you capable of it?
• Are you willing to choose to be out of control with relationship?
• What if relationship was an adventure?
• Don't be predictable; jump out of the routine.
• How can you turn your partner on by being you?
• Ask questions, don't have expectations and assumptions.
• Explore something different. Ask your partner: "What is it you would like to choose that we have not yet chosen?"
• What if you were totally comfortable with you?
• Where are you not being the energies of trust, allowance, vulnerability, gratitude, honour with yourself and in your relationship?
• The only thing that makes you insecure, intimidated, cranky, angry or frustrated is you choosing it. Likewise, the only thing that can make you happy is you choosing it. It's your choice. What are you choosing?

Questions to ask yourself:

• "What do I love about this?"
• "What am I creating this for?"
• "Have we done what we're meant to do together?"
• "What would need to change in order for this relationship to work?"
• "Dear universe, what else is possible?"

Questions you can ask your partner:

• "Where are we at?"
• "What would we like to create?"
• "What next?"
• "Are we happy with where we are heading?"
• "What are we not choosing that we could be choosing?"

How many of you are choosing the same type of person so you can control it? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Everywhere you are choosing the same type of person because it's familiar and you know it and you think it's predictable, will you destroy and uncreate it? What if you started choosing unpredictable? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

What are you choosing insecurity for? What do you gain? What do you lose? What are you proving with insecurity? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Where are you not trusting you? Where are you not being in allowance of you? Where are you not honouring you? Where are you not being grateful with you? Where are you not being vulnerable with you? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Intimate Play Cards For Lovers: https://intimateplaycards.com
• Relationships Done Different online with Simone Milasas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different_639064055088492044/details
• 5 Elements of Intimacy class recordings: https://www.simonemilasas.com/offers/JBjkXvx4

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
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Do you choose what works for others, or do you know you have the power to negotiate and choose what works for you?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Shon van Orden about the art of negotiation and some simple tools you can use.

Most people look at negotiating as trying to get a result. What if it was simply the willingness for people to perceive what people have made matter, including the time structures they function from, and using that as leverage to create a different possibility?

If you do your research and you know what matters, what else is possible?

Questions And Tools:

• Be clear on what you require and desire
• Do your research to get a sense of what could be on offer in the area you're negotiating
• Ask questions - what matters to them?Use the information you have as leverage e.g. what time of the year is best to negotiate, what can you offer them to get what you require, etc.
• Have more than one option so you can walk away from a deal that doesn't work for you

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• The Art of Negotiation class with Shon van Orden: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/advanced-facilitator/art-of-negotiation_639080702187979336/details

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Is what you are currently choosing in relationships working for you? If not, that's on you! You're the one who has to choose. What if your lover could be even greater? What if you asked for more? This is your life, what if you truly, truly lived?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks about ways to create relationships that work for you as she answers relationship questions from listeners. She asks, what if you have all of you, you choose everything that works for you, and you invite someone into our life to have something different, to be something greater? That's relationships done different, rather than as per this reality.

Enjoy every choice you make and enjoy the moments and the experiences that you have with you, your body, and with somebody else!

Questions And Tools:

• "What would it take to have creationships in my life?"
• "How did I create this?"
• "What am I arguing for?"
• "What's actually going to work?"
• "Would I prefer to be right or to be free?"
• "How can we do this different? Is there anything we can change here?"
• "Have we done what we were meant to do together?"

Tools:

• Ask for more ease: "All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory."
• Learn to choose different and learn to choose what works for you.
• Nothing you are choosing is wrong.
• Have total allowance of your partner and what they are choosing, and of you and what you are choosing.
• Look for somebody who would be a contribution to your life and living rather than 'the one'.
• Share different things with different people, e.g. friends, and not expect it all from your partner
• Use energy pulls and flows.
• instead of I'm right, you're wrong, "What's actually going to work?"
• if you can't find what will work between the two of you, ask a friend
• what are you making matter and so relevant that is keeping you from this amazing beautiful energy that you can be with someone and create a space that is filled with with possibilities and filled with contribution and filled with gratitude?
• If you can't change something, is it time to move on?

What does 'the one' mean to you? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

What if everything you've been told about finding 'the one' is a lie? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• The 5 Elements of Intimacy recorded class with Simone: https://www.simonemilasas.com/offers/JBjkXvx4/checkout
• Relationships Done Different online with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different_639064055088492044/details/

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
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Are you working against yourself in business?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Cassy Summers about business done different rather than business done as per this reality.

What capacities in business have you been disregarding and not acknowledging? Stop killing future possibilities by your judgments and conclusions about business and about you in business. What you know about business is what you know; you don't need a degree. Explore what else is possible!

Questions And Tools:

• "What energy is required today?"/"What energy does this project require?"
• "What can I be?"
• "I can create this. I can choose this. What do I require?"
• "What magic, miracles and chaos can this business be?"
• "Is it going to be fun?"

Tools:

• Listen for what your point of view is and POD and POC.
• Start being what you be and a different reality can show up.
• Come out of judgement and acknowledge your capacities. Ask to increase them, and choose more.
• It's not about avoiding anything, it's about embracing everything.
• Surround yourself with capable people and listen.
• How would you do business? What do you know about it?
• Invite the energy of chaos into your business.
• When hiring, ask for people who are better than you to show up.
• How many more revenue streams can you ask for?

How many of you are working against yourselves rather than with your capacities? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

How many things in business are you avoiding that if you didn't avoid them would expand your business? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Joy of Business book: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/joy-of-business
• The Business Class on Access.me: http://Access.me
• Business Done Different online class with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/business-done-different-with-an-advanced-facilitat_639037305772025589/details
• Business, Money & Profit Brazil & online class with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/the-business-money-and-profit-class_639026555125132189/details
• El Lugar: https://ellugar.com
• Joy of Business Facilitators: https://www.accessjoyofbusiness.com/facilitators

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
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Are you choosing enough? Are you choosing what you truly could be choosing?

This is your life. Go for it!

On this 300th episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas takes you through some of the tools of Access Consciousness to inspire you to have more and be more.

What would it take to truly live?

Questions And Tools:

• "Dear universe, what else is possible?"
• "How does it get any better than this?"
• "Everything is the opposite of what appears to be, nothing is the opposite of what appears to be"
• "How did I create this?"
• "If I was choosing my financial reality, what would I choose?"
• "What creationships can I invite into my life today?"
• "Earth, what do you require of me today?"
• "Body, what do you desire to change? What action can I take? What can I be with you?"
• "What would it take to truly live?"

Tools to change any area of our life:

• Use the mantra of Access Consciousness: "All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory."
• There is no right or wrong; it's about choosing what works for you. What would you like to create?
• If you don't choose your reality, this reality will start to dictate what you are choosing.
• What action can you take to change something?
• What can you hear?
• Relax.
• Use the crazy phrase: "Everything is the opposite of what appears to be, nothing is the opposite of what appears to be."
• There is nothing wrong with you, there is nothing to fix; but you can change.
• Stop looking outside of you for the source of creation for your life; you are the source of creation, you create your today and your future.
• There is no answer; it's about you choosing.
• Nothing happens to you; you create everything that shows up in your life.
• Use the clearing statement: Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.
• Destroy and uncreate all the points of views you think are yours, now what would you choose?
• It's all about energy.
• Surround yourself with people who are a contribution to you, and you are a contribution to them
• What if your life didn't have to be hard and you could just start choosing?
• What would it take to embrace everything you are today? Be you, change the world.
• Dedicate yourself to demanding that you stop judging; judging doesn't create anything greater.
• Know that you are a walking talking miracle.
• Invite more chaos into your life; chaos is creation.
• What is the Earth asking of you? What can you contribute? What can the Earth contribute to you?
• What can you receive today that you were not willing to receive yesterday?
• Allow more to show up rather try to control it.
• Get your bars run.
• For 1 hour a day and 1 day a week, choose something that's just for you.

Everything you're not willing to perceive, know, be and receive about how you created this, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Everywhere you've decided the points of views you have around money are yours, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

How many of you are trying to prove that you fit somewhere? What if you fit nowhere and fit everywhere? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

How many of you are trying to create relationships rather than creationships? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Destroy and uncreate everywhere you've been choosing based on this reality rather than choosing your reality. Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

What can you receive today that would create being totally out of control? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Simone's telegram: http://simonemilasas.com/telegram
• Whatever Makes U Happy website: http://whatevermakesuhappy.com
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully book: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/getting-out-of-debt-joyfully
• Money Done Different class: http://www.simonemilasas.com/mdd
• Being You, Changing the World book: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/being-you-changing-the-world
• The Profit Club: https://www.simonemilasas.com/profitclub
• Money Come free energy pull: https://youtu.be/BynOUxU-lK4?si=3eHovWSb_36Znlgn
• Business free energy pull: https://www.youtube.com/live/kZ7prkd9ol4?si=ldx3wKdJIF7BPxhn
• Access Bars: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/accessbars

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Play with Simone Milasas

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• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

What diverse financial realities are available to you that you have not yet chosen because you are trying to function from what you have been told you should do rather than function from your reality with money?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Sylvia Puentes interviews Simone Milasas about money; specifically, how to be different with money.

What if you could have an ease with your choices and not make it so determinant on the money that you don't have? When you make everything about money and make it so significant and meaningful, money controls you rather than you being the source of your life.

When you step outside of the points of views you use to justify a limited reality and start receiving from the entirety of the universe, what else can show up?

Questions And Tools:

• Use the Access Consciousness money tools.
• Don't duplicate other people's realities; choose yours!
• Rather than choose based on necessity, choose what is congruent with what you are asking for and trust that it is going to generate and contribute to something more, something bigger.
• Be vulnerable with what it is you would like. Ask, "If it wasn't about the money, what would you choose?" and write a list.
• Enjoy every choice.

Write down every problem you think you have with money and for each one ask, "If this wasn't a problem, what possibility is available?" Be with that energy - the energy of possibility - and engage with it.

Write down your answers to the following questions:

• What points of views do you use to justify a limited reality?
• What action can you take to create more ease with your financial reality?
• What if you became a steward of money? What would that be? What would you create?
• What if you chose relaxation with money?

Daily questions you can ask yourself:

• "Dear universe, show me what else is possible."
• "If money wasn't a problem, what would I choose different?"
• "What am I choosing and who am I choosing it for?"
• "If I choose this, what will my life be like in 5 years? 10 years?"

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully book: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/getting-out-of-debt-joyfully
• Money Done Different class: http://www.simonemilasas.com/mdd

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

Follow Simone Milasas

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Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

What reasons and justifications are you using to not move your body? Age, weight, money? It's not about judging what you haven't chosen; just choose something different and keep choosing!

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with crossfit champion, Adriana Olschewski, about her journey with her body.

It doesn't matter what you do, just move your body, enjoy your body and be grateful for your body every single day.

What can you do today to be more of you and have more of you?

Questions And Tools:

• "What can I do to improve?"
• "What can I do to recover faster?"
• "Who can help me to improve?"
• "What can I be with everything I am choosing?"
• "What can I be today to create a better world environment for those willing to have it?"

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Access Bars: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/accessbars
• Bars in Business: https://barsinbusiness.com
• Bars for Athletes: https://barsinbusiness.com/access-bars-for-athletes
• Body Processes: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/access-body

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• Adri's Facebook

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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Are you allowing yourself to dream bigger, or do you stop yourself with reasons and justifications as to why you cannot have or do something?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Dr. David Kubes about creating your life through dreaming without limitations and without going to the 'how to'.

You are the source of creation - it's your choices that create! What if everything is possible? Keep dreaming and go bigger and bigger.

Questions And Tools:

• Ask for people to show up that you can surround yourself with who are willing to contribute to what you are asking for and dreaming for, and not put you down.
• Rather than accepting a "No," demand for something more for you and your life.
• Write your dreams down in a notebook
• Write down 10 things you think are hurdles for your dreams. Go through each one and ask questions; "Is this actually true or is it somebody else's point of view? Is it a lie? Is it somebody else's lie? What would I need to change to have this not be a problem and turn into a possibility?"
• Check in with yourself every 6 months:

"What am I asking for?"

"What did I create/achieve?"

• Have gratitude for everything you have created and achieved.

Questions you can ask:

• Who have you been choosing limitation for?
• What seed can you plant today?
• "Dear universe, surprise me today. What else is possible?"

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• The Castle: https://castellodicasalborgone.com
• Steve & Chutisa Bowman: https://the2bowmans.com
• Bars in Business: http://barsinbusiness.com/
• Money Done Different class with Simone Milasas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/money-done-different_639037298433417414/details
• Money Done Different class with Dr. David Kubes: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/money-done-different_639049793747706448/details
• Right Riches for You: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/right-riches-for-you

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Your sexuality is your essence. One of the most valuable relationships we can cultivate is a relationship with essence, as your essence is attractive.

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper about sex, sexual organs, orgasms and more. It's about energy and choice.

The people who are having the best sex are the ones who are talking about it, so join Simone, Willow and Leah for a vulnerable conversation on this oftentimes taboo topic, with no shame, guilt or embarrassment.

Questions And Tools:

A great question you can ask your partner during sex:

• "What is it that you would like me to do that I have not yet done?"

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Free Summit: https://www.sexreimagined.com
• Relationships Done Different Intro: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different---the-beginning_639015047256645046/details
• Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One? book by Simone Milasas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/relationship-are-you-sure-you-want-one2
• Intimate Play Cards: https://intimateplaycards.com
• Free Tantric Kissing Training: https://www.sexreimagined.com//free-tantric-kissing-training

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• Willow & Leah's Instagram
• Willow & Leah's YouTube

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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
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• Past Class Recordings

When was the last time you had a real conversation with someone?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Donna Salemink, Julia Sotas-Mattis and Emily Lau about engaging with people where you actually interact with them, old school; not via social media.

Engagement is required to create futures. When you talk to someone, it changes energetics and different possibilities open.

What if you called someone today? A phone call is a gift. When you call someone, you are gifting them and you also receive from them.

Simone, Donna, Julia and Emily invite you to play with it.

Home Play:

• Call one person everyday
• Talk to a stranger

As Mentioned In This Episode:

• Gary Douglas: https://garymdouglas.com
• Relationships Done Different: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different_639039922970865049/details
• Relationships Done Different Facilitator Training: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/facilitator-training/relationships-done-different-facilitator-training_638983901895674259/details

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings