In this video, I explore the shadow — the hidden parts of ourselves we often try to deny — and why owning it is the key to a man’s real power. Drawing from Carl Jung, Robert Bly, and my work as a therapist for men, I’ll break down what the shadow is, why men struggle with it, and how confronting it can transform your life.

We’ll talk about how unacknowledged anger, shame, and fear can sabotage relationships and purpose, and how the shadow also carries hidden gifts like creativity, vitality, and authenticity. If you’ve ever felt like part of you is missing or hidden away, this conversation is for you.

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Timestamps:

00:00 Understanding the Shadow

02:30 Why Men Struggle with the Shadow

05:40 The Cost of Ignoring the Shadow

08:55 The Hidden Key to a Man’s Power

12:20 How to Begin Owning Your Shadow

⚠️ Disclaimer:

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client relationship. If you are, or someone you know is, in immediate danger, please call local emergency services or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

I explore why so many men lose themselves in love and how this connects to the father wound. Drawing from depth psychology and my work as a therapist for men, I’ll explain the difference between physical and emotional abandonment, how these wounds show up in adult relationships, and why men often sacrifice their identity for approval.

We’ll talk about shadow work, the role of the father in a boy’s development, and how to begin reclaiming your sense of self in relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you disappear in love, this conversation is for you.

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Timestamps:

00:00 Why Men Lose Themselves in Love

02:10 The Father Wound Explained

04:45 Physical vs Emotional Abandonment

07:32 How the Father Wound Impacts Relationships

10:20 Steps Toward Healing

⚠️ Disclaimer:

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client relationship. If you are, or someone you know is, in immediate danger, please call local emergency services or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

5 powerful statistics that reveal the shadow many modern men are living with — hidden struggles like loneliness, shame, and emotional numbness. As a therapist working with men, I’ll explore what the “wounded masculine” looks like today and why learning to feel, connect, and heal is so important.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here:https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call?utm_source=podcast⚠️ Disclaimer:My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call local emergency services. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

We explore the concept of vulnerability in men. Here, we will discuss why it actually takes more strength to feel emotions than it does to hide them from others.Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here:https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call?utm_source=podcast⚠️ Disclaimer:My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call local emergency services. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

We explore the concept of the shadow — the hidden parts of ourselves we’ve learned to push away. As a therapist who works specifically with men, I share how shame, emotional numbing, and the loss of connection to other men can create an unseen crisis.

We will unpack what the shadow is, how it develops, and how it shows up in men’s lives today. We will also talk about emotional intelligence, the importance of grief, and how healing begins when we connect — to ourselves, to each other, and to community. If you have ever felt stuck, numb, angry, or disconnected, this conversation is for you.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here:

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Timestamps:

00:00 What is the Shadow

02:15 How the Shadow Develops in Men

05:01 5 Stats That Reveal the Modern Man’s Shadow

09:18 Healing Through Connection and Vulnerability

⚠️ Disclaimer:

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call local emergency services. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

In this video, we explore the wounded masculine — what it is, where it comes from, and how we begin to heal it. As a therapist who works specifically with men, I’ve seen firsthand how shame, emotional numbing, father wounds, and societal pressure to perform can disconnect us from who we are.

We’ll talk about emotional intelligence, the importance of grief, and how healing begins with connection — to ourselves, to each other, and to community. If you’ve struggled with shame, anger, fear, or the sense that something’s missing, this conversation is for you.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here:

https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call?utm_source=podcast

⚠️ Disclaimer:

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

Why do so many men suffer in silence?

In this video, I explore the deeper reasons why men often don’t ask for helpm from father wounds and emotional conditioning to cultural shame and performance-based self-worth. I also share my personal story, clinical insights, and what men can begin doing to reconnect with their emotions and find real support.

If you're a man feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed, you're not alone. Healing begins when we stop pretending we’re fine and start getting honest.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here: https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call?utm_source=podcast

⚠️ Disclaimer:

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship.

If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

Why are so many men struggling today?

In this video, I explore the hidden reasons behind why men often feel lost, numb, or disconnected — and why asking for help feels so hard. We’ll talk about father wounds, cultural conditioning, the lack of initiation, and what happens when men are taught to suppress their emotions.

I also share my personal story and offer a few simple practices to help men reconnect with their emotions, their purpose, and themselves.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here: https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call?utm_source=podcast

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⚠️ Disclaimer

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship.

If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

In this conversation, Christopher explores the pervasive feeling of inadequacy that many men experience, linking it to shame and childhood trauma. He discusses how these feelings are often rooted in early experiences and societal expectations, and emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and emotional expression. Practical steps such as journaling, community support, and therapy are suggested as means to address and heal from shame, ultimately leading to a greater sense of self-worth and authenticity.Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here: https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call⚠️ DisclaimerMy videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255

In this conversation, Christopher Linkenbach explores the evolving definitions of masculinity in today's world. He discusses the importance of integrity, compassion, purpose, and authenticity as core qualities of healthy masculinity. Linkenbach also connects these qualities to archetypal themes, emphasizing the significance of understanding one's identity and role in society.

Schedule a free 1-on-1 Call with Christopher here: https://calendly.com/christopherlinkenbach_1/introductory-call

⚠️ Disclaimer

My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in-person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship.

If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.

If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline

1-800-273-8255