Ejaculation issues, stamina, performance anxiety, aggression and shame, learn from Australia’s leading male sexologist Cam Fraser on how to have a better and more ethical sex life.

3:00 - why do this episode?

7:30 “every hole is a goal” - mentality 

8:00 pilates and yoga fixed his spine and mind

13:00 challenging narratives about masculinity

15:00 common erectile issues

18:00 elle teaches sex to partners

20:00 communication has to come from both sides

25:00 examples of men’s issues

30:00 vulnerability is hot and powerful

35:00 why prostate orgasms feel different 

40:00 SSRI advice and resources

45:00 lube advice

50:00 asexuality in one partner

54:00 pausing or stopping during sex is a human right 

1:00:00 stop putting it in my butt without asking!

1:04:00 faster vs harder

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