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  • PMN S1:E23 From Addiction to Redemption: Duncan Bhaskaran Brown’s Journey to Sobriety | Real Men Quit

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    Description:

    Join us for an inspiring conversation with Duncan Bhaskaran Brown, who shares his compelling journey from alcoholism to sobriety. After drinking for 20 years, Duncan's life changed dramatically following a friend's death due to alcohol-related complications. This pivotal moment led him to choose sobriety and welcome a new chapter in his life as a father. Discover Duncan's story of overcoming addiction, the methods he used to quit alcohol, and the broader impact of alcoholism on individuals and society. Explore societal pressures on men and the importance of addressing men's mental health. Learn about Duncan's book 'Real Men Quit,' a valuable resource for men seeking support on their journey to sobriety.

    Timestamp Highlights:

    • 00:00 - Introduction and Name Origins
    • 03:18 - The Hidden Struggle: Life as a High-Functioning Alcoholic
    • 11:09 - Pivotal Moments: Challenging Preconceptions of Alcoholism
    • 22:11 - Family Dynamics: The Ripple Effect of Alcoholism
    • 31:57 - Recovery and Redemption: Finding Purpose Beyond Addiction
    • 33:52 - The Process of Quitting Alcohol and Finding Purpose
    • 40:21 - Challenging Societal Perceptions of Alcohol and Masculinity
    • 51:43 - Addressing Men's Mental Health and Gender Roles
    • 01:05:28 - New Outro
    • Key Takeaways:

      • Impact on Anyone: Alcoholism can affect high-functioning individuals with successful careers.
      • Health Reversal: Quitting alcohol can reverse many physical and mental health issues caused by drinking.
      • Coping Mechanism: Alcoholism often starts as a way to cope with stress but ultimately numbs life's experiences.
      • Pivotal Realization: The decision to quit often follows a significant, eye-opening moment.
      • Fulfilling Life: Choosing sobriety can lead to a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
      • Process Over Sudden Decision: Quitting alcohol involves self-reflection, managing triggers, and addressing underlying issues.
      • Societal Harm: Alcoholism is a widespread problem causing significant harm to individuals and society.
      • Men's Mental Health: Societal expectations on men impact their relationship with alcohol; men need a voice in the conversation.
      • Support Resource: 'Real Men Quit' offers support and challenges societal stereotypes about masculinity.
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        • Tags:

          Alcoholism, Sobriety, Addiction, High-Functioning Alcoholic, Consequences, Mental Health, Quitting Alcohol, Process, Societal Expectations, Men's Mental Health, Recovery, Redemption, Real Men Quit, Duncan Bhaskaran Brown

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          1 hr 6 min
        • PMN S1:E22 From Hollywood to Bestseller: Kay A. Oliver's Inspiring Journey | Disturbed Tombs & Writing Tips

          Description:

          Dive into the fascinating world of Kay A. Oliver, a renowned multi-book author who transitioned from Hollywood to writing historical and contemporary fiction. In this exclusive interview, Kay shares her unique journey, the challenges faced by women in the industry, and her triumphant battle as a breast cancer survivor. Discover the intriguing concepts behind her thought-provoking book Disturbed Tombs, which explores the ethics of disturbing mummies and sacred graves. Learn about her writing process, the importance of self-belief, and the significance of dialogue in storytelling.

           

          Timestamp Highlights:

          - 00:00 - The Journey from Hollywood to Writing: Challenges

          and Triumphs

          - 20:36 - Disturbed Tombs: Unveiling Thought-Provoking

          Concepts

          - 26:37 - The Writing Process: Exploring Ideas and

          Creativity

          - 31:12 - Crafting Stories: The Role of Dialogue and Bigger

          Messages

          - 39:14 - Writing Tips and Novella Practice

          - 51:24 - Exploring New Experiences and Hobbies for

          Inspiration

           

          Key Takeaways:

          - Empowerment in Industry: Kay A. Oliver's transition from

          Hollywood to writing reflects the challenges women face and the importance of self-belief.

          - Provocative Storytelling: 'Disturbed Tombs' raises

          critical questions about the sanctity of graves and the ethics of archaeological excavations.

          - Inspiration through Adversity: Personal experiences,

          including surviving breast cancer, fueled Kay's passion for creating impactful stories.

          - Writing Process Insights: Emphasizing continuous

          creativity, Kay shares her approach to exploring ideas, refining through editing, and the crucial role of dialogue.

          - Practical Writing Tips: From starting with novellas to

          consistent daily writing, Kay offers invaluable advice for aspiring writers.

          - Creative Inspiration: Exploring new hobbies and real-life

          events can ignite fresh ideas for your next writing project.

           

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          - Visit Kay A. Oliver's Website:

          [www.kayaoliver.com](http://www.kayaoliver.com)

           

          Tags:

          Kay A. Oliver, Multi-Book Author, Historical Fiction,

          Contemporary Fiction, Hollywood, Women in the Industry, Breast Cancer Survivor,
          Disturbed Tombs, Writing Process, Dialogue in Storytelling, Tips for Writers,
          Publishing, Creative Journey, Inspiration, Self-Belief, Sacred Graves, Novella
          Practice, Continuous Writing, New Hobbies.

           

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          55 min
        • PMN S1:E21 Healing Through Writing: Karen Anne Coccioli's Journey of Overcoming Trauma

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          Karen

          Anne Coccioli


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          Episode Summary

           

          In this powerful episode of "Poddin' My Noggin," Karen

          Anne Coccioli shares her inspiring life journey. From growing up with a severe stutter to enduring abuse and trauma, Karen's story is one of resilience and triumph. Writing became her outlet, allowing her to express her emotions and explore the nuances of language. Karen's experiences with an abusive father and two tumultuous marriages led to severe depression and an eating disorder, culminating in a challenging stay at a mental health clinic. Despite these hardships, Karen is determined to share her story to help others and break the stigma surrounding trauma and mental health.

          Karen also discusses her journey of self-discovery and

          living authentically as a gay woman. She talks about overcoming societal expectations, internalized homophobia, and the importance of staying true to oneself. Her writing career, highlighted by her memoir "Paradise," has empowered her to use her voice and experiences to inspire others.

           

           Key Takeaways

           - Writing as a Healing Tool: Discover how writing can serve as a powerful outlet for emotions and self-expression.

          - Impact of Trauma: Learn about the long-lasting effects of abuse and trauma on mental health and relationships.

          - Challenges in Mental Health Care: Understand the flaws and stigmatization within the mental health system.

          - Breaking Stigmas: See the importance of sharing personal stories to dismantle the stigma around trauma and mental health.

          - Authentic Living: Embrace the journey of living

          authentically and finding one's true self.

          - Overcoming Societal Pressures: Navigate the challenges

          posed by societal expectations and internalized homophobia.

          - Purpose Through Adversity: Find fulfillment and healing by using personal experiences to help others.

          - Ageless Pursuits: Recognize that age should not limit

          one's ability to live authentically and pursue passions.

          - Empowerment Through Storytelling: Leverage the power of writing and storytelling for self-expression and empowerment.

           

           Memorable Quotes

          - "I came into life stuttering. And the last line is,

          I'd never be silenced again."

          - "I had to learn how to explore words... I had to get

          the right word that was going to be able to say what I wanted to say."

          - "My father was very abusive... He started molesting

          me at five years old."

          - "You're going to get the person who's just going to

          keep on going and going and going and writing."

          - "If I could help people, if I could do something with

          what happened to me and help people, then it was worth it. It was it was it was
          all worth it."

          - "Until I don't have breath in me, it's going to be,

          this is what you're going to get."

           

           Chapters

          00:00 - Introduction and Karen's Background 

          04:51 - The Impact of Stuttering on Karen's Life 

          08:26 - The Influence of Italian Culture and Family

          Dynamics 

          10:19 - Karen's Traumatic Childhood and Abusive Father 

          12:56 - Karen's Marriages and Abusive Relationships 

          23:59 - The Importance of Sharing Personal Stories 

          32:16 - The Impact of Societal and Religious Beliefs 

          36:01 - Finding Purpose and Self-Discovery 

          43:24 - Living Authentically and Pursuing Dreams 

          48:22 - The Power of Sharing Personal Experiences 

          57:15 - New Outro.mp4

           

          In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of

          writing, the challenges of overcoming trauma, and the journey toward authentic
          living. Join us as Karen Anne Coccioli opens up about her life, offering
          insights and inspiration for anyone facing similar struggles.

          58 min
        • PMN S1:E20 | Healing Trauma and Transforming Lives: Ann Hince on EFT, Self-Awareness, and Emotional Freedom

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          Ann Hince

           

          https://annhince.com/

          https://www.facebook.com/AnnHinceWisdom

          https://www.youtube.com/@annhince

          Book: A Pathway to Insight

          https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08N9P9LP6/

          Book: A Pathway to Insight

          Workbook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6W5LZKX/

          Video Series, articles:

          https://www.buymeacoffee.com/annhince

          YouTube EFT Demo video:

          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LR73ely3K7o&t=58s

           

           

          Summary

           

          In this conversation, C.K. Simms interviews Ann Hince, a

          published author, about her book 'A Pathway to Insight' and her journey of
          healing from trauma. Ann shares her personal story, starting from her birth
          with a physical deformity and being put up for adoption, to experiencing
          various traumas throughout her life. She discusses how she discovered the
          Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), also known as tapping, and how it helped her
          release emotions and find peace. Ann emphasizes the importance of
          self-awareness and taking responsibility for our own healing. In this
          conversation, C.K. Simms and Ann Hince discuss the power of cognitive
          restructuring and radical acceptance in healing trauma. They explore the
          concept of tapping and how it can help release tension and emotions stored in
          the body. They also touch on the importance of self-awareness and the physical
          manifestations of trauma. The conversation highlights the need for consistent
          and kind self-care in the healing journey. Ann shares her insights on
          manifestation and the role of resistance in attracting what we desire. They
          plan to continue the conversation in the future to delve deeper into Ann's
          story and the physical manifestations of her healing work.

           

          Takeaways

           

          Ann Hince shares her personal story of healing from trauma

          and how she discovered the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) or tapping.

          EFT involves tapping on specific acupressure points while

          focusing on negative emotions or traumatic experiences to release tension and
          promote healing.

          Self-awareness is key in the healing process, as it allows

          individuals to recognize the impact of past traumas on their present lives.

          Taking responsibility for one's own healing and actively

          working through emotions and past experiences can lead to profound
          transformation and inner peace. Cognitive restructuring and radical acceptance
          can be powerful tools in healing trauma.

          Tapping, or emotional freedom technique (EFT), can help

          release tension and emotions stored in the body.

          Self-awareness is key in recognizing and addressing the

          physical manifestations of trauma.

          Resistance can hinder manifestation, and it is important to

          identify and release negative beliefs and emotions.

          Consistent and kind self-care is essential in the healing

          journey.

           

          Chapters

           

          00:00 Introduction and Background

          06:40 Moving to California and Starting a Family

          08:51 Discovering EFT and Tapping

          13:15 The Science Behind Tapping

          26:52 Changing Yourself to Change Your Environment

          31:05 Tapping: A Path to Internal Calmness and External Life

          Changes

          32:58 The Connection Between Physical Sensations and

          Emotional Healing

          34:51 Overcoming Resistance and Releasing Limiting Beliefs

          38:55 The Role of Self-Awareness in the Healing Process

           

          1 hr 3 min
        • PMN S1:19 - Israel | Palestine | Genocide | Christianity | Politics | Abortion | Mental Health | Who I AM

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          Summary


          In this episode of Poddin' My Noggin, host C.K. Simms shares her personal values and beliefs on various topics, including the Israel-Hamas conflict, North American Christianity, abortion, feminism, politics, trans rights, and pronouns. He emphasizes the importance of integrity and being true to oneself, and encourages listeners to support causes aligned with their values. C.K. Simms advocates for kindness, compassion, and understanding, and urges individuals to educate themselves and take action to create positive change in the world.


          Takeaways


          Integrity is not for sale; it is important to stay true to one's values and beliefs.

          Support causes and individuals that align with your values and beliefs.

          Kindness and compassion are essential in all interactions, even when disagreeing with someone.

          Complex emotions should be processed in a healthy manner; seeking therapy and support is important.

          Respect and use individuals' preferred pronouns as an act of kindness and acceptance.

          Educate yourself on various topics and take action to create positive change in the world.


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Integrity

          02:09 Using Voices and Taking Action for Change

          08:23 Staying True to Values and Integrity

          13:41 Addressing the Israel-Hamas Conflict

          22:21 Pro-Choice Stance on Abortion

          26:16 Feminism and Supporting Women

          31:46 Processing Complex Emotions in Men

          43:47 Supporting Trans Rights and Using Preferred Pronouns

          48:06 Kindness and Compassion in Using Pronouns

          51:31 Taking Action for Positive Change



          53 min
        • PMN S1:E18 Immigration, Entrepreneurship, and Naval Service. RG Enzon's Journey

          www.enzonmedia.com


          Summary


          RG Mzon shares her experience of immigrating to the U.S. from the Philippines at the age of 17. She discusses the challenges of living in a third-world country and the motivation behind his family's decision to seek a better future in the U.S. RG highlights the difficulties she faced in navigating the U.S. education system and the frustration of being asked to repeat years of college. She shares her strategy of returning to the Philippines to complete her degree and the benefits of having their education evaluated to match the U.S. curriculum. RG also discusses the challenges of building credit and finding direction in her new life. In this conversation, Rg Enzon shares her journey of transitioning to adulthood, joining the Navy, and building a successful business. She discusses how joining the military expedited her citizenship process and allowed her to pursue her passion for computer technology. Rg also talks about her career in the Navy and how she used her skills to start a dog boarding business and buy a home. She emphasizes the importance of taking action and overcoming analysis paralysis to achieve one's dreams.


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and Background

          00:54 Immigrating to the U.S.

          06:14 Navigating the U.S. Education System

          09:00 Emotional Challenges of Immigration

          10:07 Returning to the Philippines for College

          23:10 Building Credit and Finding Direction

          24:40 Transitioning to Adulthood and Joining the Navy

          28:46 Career in the Navy and Building a Business

          32:39 Starting a Dog Boarding Business and Buying a Home

          40:32 Enzon Media and the Power of SEO

          44:31 Taking Action and Overcoming Analysis Paralysis




          50 min
        • PMN S1:E17 A Father's Loss | Jason Tuttle on Teaching Men to be Vulnerable

          Summary


          In this conversation, C.K. Simms interviews Jason Tuttle, who shares his experience as a father of two children with multiple mental and physical disabilities. Jason discusses the challenges of raising children with special needs and the importance of teaching men how to be vulnerable and talk about mental health. He also shares the heartbreaking story of his son's passing and the medical issues his children faced. Despite the difficulties, Jason remains dedicated to advocating for men's mental health and raising awareness about the experiences of families with special needs children. Jason Tuttle shares his experience of grief and loss after the death of his son. He discusses the challenges of navigating grief as a man and the societal expectations that hinder men from expressing their emotions. Jason emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for men to open up and encourages men to embrace vulnerability. He also talks about his journey of journaling and how it led to the creation of his Facebook page, Letters to Zachary, where he shares his thoughts and experiences with grief. Jason aims to provide support and understanding to others who are grieving and to challenge the stigma surrounding men and emotions.


          Takeaways


          Men often face challenges in processing emotions and talking about mental health, and it is important to provide support and resources for them.

          Raising children with special needs requires learning to communicate and understand nonverbal cues.

          The experience of losing a child is devastating, and it is important to allow oneself to grieve and seek support.

          Advocating for men's mental health and raising awareness about the experiences of families with special needs children is crucial. Men are often taught to suppress their emotions and view vulnerability as a sign of weakness. Creating a safe space and being receptive can encourage men to open up and express their feelings.

          Journaling can be a helpful tool for processing grief and emotions. It allows for the release of thoughts and feelings and can provide a sense of healing and understanding.

          It is important to challenge societal expectations and stereotypes surrounding men and emotions. Men should be encouraged to embrace vulnerability and seek support when needed.

          Creating online communities and platforms that provide support and understanding can be beneficial for individuals who are grieving. These spaces allow for open and honest conversations about grief and can help combat feelings of isolation.

          Supporting and listening to men who are grieving is crucial. It is important to validate their experiences and provide a non-judgmental space for them to share their thoughts and emotions.


          Sound Bites


          "You are really focused on trying to teach men how to be vulnerable, to process emotions, and to talk about mental health."

          "I'm on a mission as a part of many things that I wanna do in life is to bring those stories to the forefront."

          "We've faced a lot of adversity. We faced a lot of ups, a lot of downs, a lot of wins and losses just throughout life."

          "Time does not heal all wounds. What time does is it gets you, you get used to it."

          "I believe people need to see the good, the bad, and the ugly of grief."

          "Maybe I have something here that resonates with people."


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and Focus on Men's Mental Health

          02:36 Jason's Background and Experience as a Father

          29:38 The Tragic Loss of Jason's Son

          36:01 Genetic Testing and Advocacy

          39:02 Grief and Loss: Navigating the Journey

          49:00 Journaling as a Tool for Healing

          57:56 Creating Safe Spaces for Men to Open Up

          01:00:15 Challenging Societal Expectations: Men and Emotions

          01:09:36 Letters to Zachary: A Platform for Grief Support

          01:11:53 Supporting Men in Their Grief Journey


          1 hr 11 min
        • PMN S1:E16 Silent No More: Marie McKenzie's Crusade Against Sexual Assault & Journey to Healing

          Marie McKenzie Links:

          https://www.facebook.com/marie.mckenzie

          https://www.linkedin.com/in/sexualassaultcoach

          www.marielmckenzie.com

          https://twitter.com/McKenzieLMarie

          https://www.youtube.com/@sexualassaultcoach

          www.tiktok.com/@sexualassaultcoach

          https://www.youtube.com/@sexualassaultcoach

          Summary


          Marie McKenzie, a sexual assault recovery coach and author, shares her journey from childhood sexual abuse to becoming a successful registered nurse. She wrote a memoir titled 'Things That Keep Me Up At Night' to raise awareness about sexual assault and inspire others to speak up. Marie discloses her own experience of sexual assault during a podcast interview, which leads to other family members and friends sharing their stories. She emphasizes the importance of breaking the silence and supporting survivors. Marie also discusses her work as a sexual assault nurse examiner and the challenges faced by survivors in seeking justice. Marie McKenzie, a sexual assault recovery coach, discusses the progress made in addressing sexual assault cases, such as the implementation of systems to track rape kits and clear backlogs. She emphasizes the importance of continuing the conversation about sexual assault and creating a safe space for survivors to share their stories. Marie shares her own journey of healing and how she uses her nursing knowledge and training to help women overcome their triggers and find intimacy in their relationships. She encourages survivors to seek support and emphasizes the need for bystanders to speak up and protect victims. Marie also highlights the importance of addressing diverse traumas and collaborating with organizations dedicated to supporting survivors.


          Takeaways


          Marie McKenzie shares her journey from childhood sexual abuse to becoming a successful registered nurse.

          She wrote a memoir titled 'Things That Keep Me Up At Night' to raise awareness about sexual assault and inspire others to speak up.

          Marie emphasizes the importance of breaking the silence and supporting survivors of sexual assault.

          She works as a sexual assault nurse examiner, providing care and support to survivors and testifying in court cases. There has been progress in addressing sexual assault cases, such as the implementation of systems to track rape kits and clear backlogs.

          Continuing the conversation about sexual assault is crucial in creating awareness and support for survivors.

          Survivors of sexual assault can find healing and overcome triggers with the help of support systems and professional guidance.

          Bystanders have a responsibility to speak up and protect victims of sexual assault.

          It is important to address diverse traumas and collaborate with organizations dedicated to supporting survivors.


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and Book Discussion

          06:08 Childhood Sexual Abuse and Disclosure

          12:51 The Role of a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner

          25:50 Seeking Justice for Survivors

          30:14 Progress in Addressing Sexual Assault Cases

          36:53 Overcoming Triggers and Rekindling Intimacy

          53:46 Continuing the Conversation about Sexual Assault



          56 min
        • Poddin' My Noggin S1:E15 - Faith & Healing: Carolyn Murphy on Conquering Trauma and Fostering Mental Wellness in Black Communities

          www.firmfoundationco.com


          Summary


          Carolyn Murphy shares her story of resilience, transformation, and purpose in the face of childhood trauma. She discusses the impact of trauma on mental health and the role of faith in her healing journey. Carolyn emphasizes the importance of breaking free from fear and the prison of comfort zones. She also highlights the need for therapy and healthy coping strategies to address unresolved trauma. Carolyn's story serves as an inspiration for others to seek healing and support. Carolyn J Murphy discusses the importance of seeking mental health support within religious communities and breaking generational curses. She emphasizes the need to combine faith and action in healing from trauma. Highlighting the importance of finding one's own truth in God. Carolyn shares her work in bridging the gap between people of color and mental health professionals through her business, Firm Foundations Co. She aims to connect Black pastors and ministerial staff with mental health professionals to address mental health issues within religious communities.


          Keywords


          resilience, transformation, purpose, childhood trauma, mental health, faith, fear, comfort zone, therapy, coping strategies, healing, mental health, religion, trauma, generational curses, faith, action, LGBTQ+, healing, black community, bridging the gap, mental health professionals, religious communities


          Takeaways


          Childhood trauma can manifest in various ways, such as depression, anxiety, and fear.

          Faith and learning about mental health can help in overcoming trauma and fear.

          Unresolved trauma can affect not only the individual but also those around them.

          Breaking free from fear and comfort zones is essential for personal growth and healing.

          Therapy and healthy coping strategies are crucial in addressing and healing from trauma. There is a stigma against seeking mental health support within religious communities, but it is important to combine faith and action in healing from trauma.

          Trauma is not your fault, but your recovery is your responsibility.

          It is possible to be both LGBTQ+ and a Christian, and finding one's own truth in God is essential.

          There is a need to bridge the gap between people of color and mental health professionals, particularly within the Black community.

          Connecting Black pastors and ministerial staff with mental health professionals can address mental health issues within religious communities.

          Sound Bites


          "My God-given phrase this year, this time last year, is I broke up with fear."

          "Fear is a shackle."

          "Your purpose is greater than your pain."

          "If you had cancer, you would go to the doctor to get chemo, but you'd also pray about it."

          "Your trauma is not your fault, but your recovery is your responsibility."

          "You're out here essentially breaking generational curses."


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

          01:38 Resilience, Transformation, and Purpose

          09:19 Blaming Herself for Sibling's Passing

          11:58 Channeling Pain into Overachievement

          19:18 Ministering Without Ministering

          22:39 Putting Herself First and Doing the Work

          25:13 Recognizing Trauma in Her Mother

          27:30 The Importance of Seeking Therapy

          28:30 Misdirected Faith and Taking Action

          28:56 The Stigma of Mental Health in Religion

          30:46 Combining Faith and Mental Health

          31:37 Choosing Recovery and Identity

          35:29 Breaking Generational Curses

          36:52 The Weaponization of Religion

          40:44 Creating Bridges in Mental Health

          44:42 Understanding Cultural Implications in Therapy

          47:08 Connecting with Black Pastors

          50:37 Taking Control of Mental Health

          51:30 Healing and Finding Purpose

          53:00 PMN-Intro-YT.mp4




          54 min
        • Poddin' My Noggin S1:E14 - Beyond Silence: Alyssa Decker's Journey from Faith to Freedom & Life After Abuse

          https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithalyssa614

          Summary


          In this episode, Alyssa Decker shares her story of growing up in a conservative evangelical home and the influence of her Pentecostal faith. She discusses the pressure to choose a spouse based on a checklist and the belief that divorce is never an option. Alyssa reflects on ignoring red flags and overriding her intuition, leading to an emotionally abusive marriage. She shares the impact of deception and gaslighting, as well as the challenges of navigating societal expectations and the fear of inconveniencing others. Alyssa's story highlights the importance of listening to intuition and the consequences of ignoring warning signs. In this conversation, Alyssa Decker shares her experience of being in an abusive relationship and eventually finding the strength to leave. She discusses the cycles of trying to make the relationship work, the challenges of moving overseas, and the escalating abuse she faced. Alyssa also highlights the importance of recognizing abuse and seeking help, both for those in abusive relationships and for friends and family who may be concerned. She emphasizes the need for safety planning and finding support from therapists, coaches, or trusted confidants. Alyssa's story serves as a reminder that healing and thriving are possible after leaving an abusive relationship.


          Chapters


          00:00 Introduction and Background

          02:28 Growing Up in a Conservative Evangelical Home

          03:26 The Influence of Pentecostal Faith

          04:45 The Role of Faith in Choosing a Spouse

          07:16 Ignoring Red Flags and Overriding Intuition

          08:15 The Pressure to Get Married and Avoid Divorce

          11:40 Listening to Intuition and Gut Feelings

          22:24 The Pressure of Wedding Expectations

          23:13 Unveiling Deception on the Honeymoon

          26:27 The Impact of Lies and Betrayal

          28:46 Cycles of Forgiveness and Muting Intuition

          31:14 Moving Overseas

          34:40 Returning Home

          37:26 Struggles in Texas

          42:14 Recognizing Abuse

          46:59 Beginning the Exit

          51:29 Escalation of Violence

          52:29 Ensuring Safety

          57:37 Healing and Thriving

          01:00:36 Advice for Those in Abusive Relationships







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        About The C.K. Simms Show

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        In Loving Memory Of C.K. Simms (July 2, 1981 - April 29, 2026) 💙