The Confidence Project

In this very personal episode I am sharing some thoughts and reflections I had in 2025 and moving into 2026. I am also sharing some of the changes that are coming in the podcast and in my business. 

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The Podcast is going to take a short break and come back later in a new format and with new, exciting content. In this episode I share a few personal updates with you and leave you with a heartwarming story that shows that there is hope for all of us, and you are never too old to find love! 

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Feeling safe is the number one feeling most women want with a man. Not the only one of course, but it's the feeling they focus on, when I ask them what they imagine feeling once they have met their future partner. In this episode I share some reflections on why safety is important - and why it's so much more important for women than it is for men.   

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More and more women are tempted to just quit dating and give up on the idea of ever finding a man who can commit to a stable relationship. They prefer the peace of single life over an emotional roller coaster with a man who isn't capable of or interested in a serious commitment. If this is you, listen to the episode. I want you to remember why you wanted the relationship to begin with - and if you still long for that, then take your desire seriously, and don't let the guys from your past prevent you from finding love.    

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There are some very basic traits and qualities that caracterise someone who is securely attached in a relationship. These qualities are worth looking for and also worth cultivating in yourself. In this episode I share what they are and also the opposite - how the typical insecure (anxious) mindset can look like.   

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In this episode I share some reasons why anxiously attached people often struggle with clear and honest communication. I give examples on what that could look like so you can see if this is you. And then I guide you to become better at speaking up and share how this can actually strengthen a relationship and make you feel more secure.  

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What does it mean to love yourself? And how does it show up in your choices and behavours? In this episode I share 7 ways you can choose to show up from self-love in dating. 

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If you want to simplify your dating life, here is just ONE simple tool that you can use to assess whether a man could be a good choice for you, and you can use this tool from the very first date. This will help you to not miss out on the good guys and let go of the ones who might have it all on paper, but with who you will never be happy. 

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This is about how you can flip everything around and step out of your conditioning and into being in power of your life and how you see your self. It's about intentionality. How to shift from feeling out of control and in a repetitive cycle of negative self-talk, to being in charge of your life's direction and choosing empowering thoughts about yourself. Because nobody can tell you to not do that, so why not draw a line in the sand today and be the driver instead of the passenger in your own life?     

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Having that thing that you feel passionate about and that gives your life meaning and purpose is crucial for your own well being, resilience and self confidence. But it's also something that makes you more attractive in dating, turns you into a better and more balanced partner and helps you feel valuable and connected to yourself after a breakup. In this episode I give you some inspiration on how to find your life purpose.    

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