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  • Smart Eating Tips For Overwhelmed Parents

    Today, I have the pleasure of having a conversation with Randy Rolfe, who shares her vast knowledge about nutrition and family wellness. Randy shares how stress often pushes us to ignore healthy eating, leading us to choose fast foods and snacks instead. She emphasizes that while it might seem easier in stressful times, opting for nutritious meals is key to managing stress and keeping our minds and bodies feeling their best.

    Randy's background is as interesting as it is diverse, starting as a lawyer before turning her skills to nutrition and family counseling. Her journey began in law school when she became curious about what we eat and its effects on our health. Eventually, she transitioned from law to focusing on education, helping others understand the impact of nutrition on their lives. In the podcast, Randy debunks a few common food myths, like the idea that exercising more than focusing on diet will tackle obesity or that fats are the main culprits for weight gain.

    A focal point of the discussion is Randy's latest book, which champions the idea of sticking to single-ingredient foods. This approach is all about cutting out processed foods and embracing whole foods that don’t need a lengthy ingredient list. Not only can this shift help break the cycle of cravings for processed snacks, but it also fosters a healthier lifestyle. Randy’s insights are particularly valuable for parents, including those navigating the challenges of divorce, as teaching kids about healthy eating habits is crucial.

    For those who want more information, Randy offers great resources on her website, including a chance for a free coaching session, helping listeners to take practical steps toward better nutrition. We wrap up the episode by encouraging everyone to reflect on their food choices and how those decisions can significantly impact overall health and well-being. This episode is packed with actionable advice and is a great listen for anyone looking to improve their eating habits and nurture a healthier lifestyle.

    About the Guest:

    Randy Rolfe is a veteran speaker on nutrition, parenting, and life skills. Also a lawyer and family counselor, she is author of nine acclaimed books, most recently The Single Ingredient Diet: Transform Your Relationship to Food in Just 21 Days.

    She has appeared on over 50 TV network talk shows, and 100s of radio shows and podcasts. A natural health advocate and family counselor for five decades, Randy brings her message to the next generation so that they can take control of their health and lead vibrant lives.

    For Randy’s gifts: https://singleingredientdiet.com

     Free Zoom session: How to uplevel your diet on a budget: https://singleingredientdiet.com/session

    To connect with Randy:

    Websites: https://randyrolfe.com; https://randyrolfespeaker.com

    Bestselling Book on Diet, The Single Ingredient Diet Bestselling Book on Parenting, You Can Postpone Anything But Love

    Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/randyrolfe/

    Facebook group: Single Ingredient Diet: https://www.facebook.com/groups/singleingredientdiet

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@videorable

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®), and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneurial, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    35 min
  • Effective Divorce Decisions Using Neuroscience

    In this episode, I chat with Mike Fink, a decision-making expert who's made it his mission to help women figure out their next steps when considering divorce. With an impressive background, including a master's in psychology from Yale, Mike dives into the backstory that led him to focus on this field, including a rocky business partnership that taught him the ins and outs of indecision.

    Mike breaks down the brain science behind decision-making, explaining how our survival instincts can keep us stuck on tough choices. He introduces us to the concept of the three brains: our primal brain for survival, our emotional brain, and our logical brain. It's the primal brain that often stalls us, fending off change in the name of safety.

    He gets into the nuts and bolts of his process, which includes "value mapping," where you pinpoint what really matters in your relationship. It’s all about giving the primal brain a visual nudge with colorful cues so it can "see" the logic it's missing. Mike shares how this approach leads to clarity and a sense of peace, helping people decide their path without lingering doubts.

    For anyone caught in the emotional whirlwind of divorce decisions, Mike's approach offers straightforward tools to make choices that align with what you truly want. It's about getting clear, confident, and comfortable with whatever step you choose to take next.

    About the Guest:

    Mike Fink is a clarity and decision-making expert, coach, and innovator. With a Master of Science in Psychology from Yale, he helps women considering divorce who are stuck in indecision, fearing they’ll make a mistake they’ll regret. During the first part of his career in personal development, spanning more than two decades, Mike’s programs helped more than 110,000 people across 157 countries achieve life-changing goals.

    Following a painful turning point, he created The Decoding Grid™, a revolutionary process for high-stakes decision-making. Since 2021, he has dedicated himself to helping women get absolute Clarity & Certainty about their marriage in 30 days or less. Mike is the author of Divorce Decision Decoded: The Revolutionary Guide for Women to Get Clarity & Certainty in 30 Days.

    For Mike’s gift: https://www.getabsoluteclarity.com

    To connect with Mike:

    Website: https://www.getabsoluteclarity.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MikeFinkGetAbsoluteClarity

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    28 min
  • Parenting Through Divorce With Professional Nanny Support

    Welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! In today's episode, I have a great conversation with Brynn Ungerleider, a seasoned professional in the nannying and household management field with over twenty years of experience. Brynn has created a phenomenal resource through her national agency, Premier Nanny Network, which provides invaluable support to those navigating the complexities of divorce.

    Join us as Brynn shares her journey from a young babysitter to the founder of a nationwide network that offers nanny services, elder care, and household management. She talks about the many ways nannies can alleviate stress for single parents, providing consistent care and aiding in smoother transitions for children between households. Brynn offers insights into how reliable, professional help can transform a household, offering parents the freedom to spend quality time with their children while ensuring that all the mundane tasks are handled seamlessly.

    Whether you’re a single parent or guiding someone through a divorce, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Don't miss out on learning how asking for help isn't just okay, but can significantly enhance your and your children's lives. Tune in and explore how Premier Nanny Network can be a vital support system during these challenging transitions.

    About the Guest:

    Hi, I'm Brynn Ungerleider. I started babysitting so I could afford to buy CDs at the mall—talk about aging myself! What began as a fun way to earn cash soon turned into a 20+ year career in nannying and household management. I realized nannying is about providing enrichment, coaching children, and supporting families through life’s ups and downs. I help kids recognize their potential, often reminding them, ‘Where there’s a will, there’s a way,’ while also guiding parents to stay grounded when challenges arise. Helping others has always been my purpose. From my first babysitting gig to working with families across the country, I’ve supported parents through both the joys and the chaos of home life. With over two decades of experience, I created this agency with career-driven mothers, divorced families, and everyone in-between in mind. Someday, I too hope the love and support I’ve given will come full circle when I juggle motherhood and my career.

    To connect with Brynn:

    Website: www.premiernannynetwork.com

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558084171799

    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/brynn-ungerleider-a123ba30a/@premiernannynetwork

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    28 min
  • Building Financial Confidence After Major Life Changes

    In this episode I sit down with Susan Butler to chat about something that comes up a lot in divorce, and that is money. Susan offers a range of experience and expertise, with over thirty years as a financial adviser and now helping women master their finances. She's all about empowering women, especially those going through divorce or big life changes, to take control of their financial futures.

    Susan opens up about her experiences, like seeing women surprised by how little they knew about their family finances when divorce hits. She talks about how crucial it is for women to ask questions and get the right advice during such a chaotic time. We both agree: don't be afraid to pause and dig deeper into your finances to make sure you come out stronger on the other side.

    But it’s not just about getting through a divorce. Susan really focuses on helping women reinvent themselves once the dust settles. Whether it’s going back to school or starting something new, she’s all about helping women dream big and make it happen. Susan reminds everyone that managing your money is a big part of shaping the life you love.

    About the Guest:

    As a former Certified Financial Planner™ and Financial Advisor with over 30 years of experience in various aspects of the financial industry, and as a Certified Life Mastery Consultant, Susan Butler helps women entrepreneurs develop an empowering relationship with money and finance so they can realize more prosperity, clarity, confidence, possibility, success and financial freedom. Some of the keys include mindset, paradigms, vision, perspective and practical knowledge.

    To connect with Susan:

    Website: myfinancialharmony.com

    Email: [email protected]

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

    Thanks for Listening!

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    25 min
  • Tips For Communicating With Your Teen

    This is an essential episode for parents of teens, particularly teen daughters. I have the privilege of talking with Nellie Harden, who brings a fresh perspective on building strong family connections, especially with teens during tough times like divorce. Nellie, a mom to four daughters and a trauma survivor, discusses how important it is to boost self-worth and confidence in young women. She shares her story of moving from chasing worth to becoming a coach, using these experiences to help families communicate better and lead with heart.

    Nellie talks about the big shift in parenting as kids grow, from needing to guide every step to building life together. She’s big on making sure teens feel seen, heard, loved, and know they matter. Offering practical tips, she encourages parents to avoid power struggles and work together as a team, treating the family as a whole unit working towards a bright future. She emphasizes the magic of one-on-one time to build trust and keep communication open and honest.

    For parents going through divorce, Nellie has some great advice on how to keep personal struggles separate from what you share with your kids. It’s about being real without getting into the nitty-gritty, ensuring the focus stays on constructive and positive interactions.

    Tune in to hear how fostering vulnerability, curiosity, and genuine connection in conversations can bolster a teenager’s self-worth and strengthen family ties, giving everyone a better shot at navigating life’s ups and downs.

    About the Guest:

    Nellie Harden is a mother of 4 daughters, former worth chaser, trauma survivor, and an author and speaker in the space of Family Life & Leadership. She focuses on helping women build a foundation of worth, esteem and confidence to live the life they were created for.

    Her career has spanned from humpbacks to humans and includes decades studying personal, family, faith, and leadership development. When Nellie is not writing and speaking, she loves being outside with her crazy #happyharden crew and adventuring through all life has to offer.

    For Nellie’s gift: https://www.nellieharden.com/resources

    To connect with Nellie:

    Website- https://www.nellieharden.com

    Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/nellie.a.harden/

    Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/nelliehardenwriter

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/nellieharden/

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

    Thanks for Listening!

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    26 min
  • Before Divorce Consider Marriage Crisis Management

    In this episode of The D Shift, I have the privilege to welcome Dr. Becky Whetstone, a marriage and family therapist who brings a wealth of personal and professional insights into managing marital crises. Known for her candid approach, Becky’s unique perspective is shaped by her own experiences, having been married four times, and her dedicated research to understanding what makes or breaks a marriage.

    Dr. Becky talks about her new book, "I Think I Want Out – What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage," which is aimed at helping individuals navigate the rocky path from doubt to decision with clarity and confidence. She shares insights into how crucial the initial response is when one partner expresses doubt about the marriage. This response can set the tone for how amicably— or not— things might proceed.

    In our discussion, we explore fundamental questions that troubled couples should consider along with the typical stages a deteriorating marriage might go through. Becky's approach is about slowing down, considering all options, and sometimes exploring trial separations to test the waters before making any permanent decisions.

    We talk about how vital it is to have a managed process during these times, emphasizing the value of therapy in maintaining civility and focusing on mental wellness for the entire family. Becky's goal is to guide couples through this transformation with the least possible emotional damage, whether they choose to work on their marriage or part ways.

    For anyone standing at the crossroads of potentially ending a marriage, this episode is full of, relatable advice and insightful strategies to thoughtfully tackle one of life’s more challenging transitions.

    About the Guest:

    Becky Whetstone, PhD, is a Marriage and Family Therapist and Life Coach specializing in marriage crisis counseling. Based in Arkansas, she developed Managed Separation (MS), an intervention guiding separated couples with purpose and timelines.

    Inspired by her own marriage crisis, Dr. Whetstone created tools to help couples navigate turmoil. A former journalist, she has authored the book, “I (Think) I Want Out”, aiming to reduce marital chaos and foster healthy relationships.

    To connect with Dr. Becky:

    Website: https://marriagecrisismanager.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipcrisismanager/

    X: https://x.com/DoctorBecky

    IG: https://www.instagram.com/doctorbecky/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/becky-whetstone-ph-d-33866211/

    Medium: https://medium.com/@doctorbecky

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

    Thanks for Listening!

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    31 min
  • Expanding Comfort Zones for Personal Growth

    Today I welcome back Lori Danecke, a dynamic coach skilled in NLP, quantum release process, hypnotherapy, and Reiki. Lori's got an inspiring story about how her life did a 180 when she realized she wasn't living the way she wanted to. Even though on the surface she had the perfect setup—a marriage, kids, and grandkids—something was missing. Three years ago, she dove into personal development, getting herself a coach, setting goals, and ultimately finding the courage to walk away from a life that wasn't making her happy.

    Lori talks about how this journey started rather unexpectedly with her wanting to improve her golf game. That drive opened up a whole new realization about how she was relying too much on external achievements for happiness. Once she started focusing on her mindset, things turned around. Now, she helps other women who feel stuck or unheard to recognize their worth and step up their game in life.

    We chat about the fear of change—how people often worry about losing friends if they grow and change. But Lori highlights that real friends will back you up no matter what. She’s all about expanding comfort zones gradually, so it feels natural rather than terrifying. This episode is a reassuring reminder that it’s okay to want more from life and to take the steps toward living authentically and happily.

    About the Guest:

    Lori Danecke is a dynamic force in the world of personal transformation and empowerment. As the Creator and CEO of Impact Your Life Coaching, Lori specializes in guiding individuals to break free from limiting beliefs and unlock their full potential. With certifications as a Master Certified Coach and Practitioner in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), Quantum Release Process, Hypnotherapy, and Reiki, Lori integrates powerful modalities to create lasting change. She also practices Huna Energy Releases, an ancient Hawaiian healing tradition, and holds certifications in Trauma and PTSD recovery, making her uniquely equipped to support clients through life’s toughest challenges.

    Beyond her professional accolades, Lori is a proud mother of two sons, two daughters-in-law, and a loving grandmother to four grandchildren. She is also a 2-time Canadian and World Long Drive Champion in the 60+ Women’s division, embodying the resilience and determination she inspires in her clients. Lori’s mission is clear: to help others heal, thrive, and create meaningful impact in their lives.

    To connect with Lori:

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: Impact Your Life Coaching

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094884488530

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    24 min
  • Understanding Attachment Styles In Relationships

    In this episode, I chat with Mara Palermo, a relationship coach who’s all about helping people understand attachment styles and how they affect our relationships. Mara shares how we connected with our caregivers when we were little shapes how we act in adult relationships. She shares her own story, from working as a stylist and listening to clients’ relationship woes to becoming a relationship coach after realizing that the relationship patterns she and others experienced weren’t all that different.

    Mara breaks down the four main attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, fearful, and secure. She explains how people with an anxious attachment style might constantly seek reassurance in relationships, while those with an avoidant attachment value their independence above all. The fearful type combines both, pushing and pulling in relationships, which can make trusting others tricky. On the other hand, a secure attachment means being more balanced and open in relationships.

    What’s important about her story is that Mara has lived through these patterns herself, and now she helps others move towards healthier and more secure attachments. She talks about how important it is to build a solid relationship with yourself first and offers some tips on self-soothing and understanding the stories we tell ourselves in relationships.

    Mara offers a fun quiz to help you learn your attachment style if you're curious about where you stand. Her approachable and insightful advice is a reminder that everyone can work towards better relationships and personal growth at any point in life.

    About the Guest:

    Mara Palermo is a relationship coach specializing in helping high-achievers break free from anxious and avoidant attachment patterns to create secure, healthy, and fulfilling relationships. With a signature framework focused on identity, balance, communication, boundaries, and intimacy, Mara guides clients toward deep self-awareness and emotional freedom. Known for her down-to-earth approach, she empowers individuals to stop chasing love and start letting it in. Her transformative coaching helps clients cultivate self-worth and build authentic connections. For a free attachment style quiz and more insights, you can connect with Mara on social media or her website.

    To take Mara’s attachment style quiz: HTTPS://WWW.MARAPALERMO.COM/ATTACHMENT-STYLE-QUIZ-SIGN-UP

    To connect Mara:

    Website: www.marapalermo.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachmarapalermo

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marapalermo

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    27 min
  • Expert Tips For Managing Matrimonial Property Sales

    In this episode, I have the opportunity to welcome real estate experts Robyn Yack and Cheryl Koffman from Ontario, Canada. Together, they share their specialized experiences assisting clients in navigating the complexities of selling matrimonial property during divorce or separation. Robyn discusses her journey through separation and the pivotal moment she decided to support others experiencing similar life changes. Cheryl offers her perspective from years of working with families affected by divorce to help focus on the child's point of view through this part of the divorce process.

    Throughout the discussion, Robyn and Cheryl emphasize the importance of dealing with various challenges in the selling process, such as agreeing on the listing price, understanding legal stipulations in your area, and collaborating with legal and financial professionals. Their dual expertise is highlighted as they explain how they act not only as realtors but as guides through this emotional and logistical labyrinth.

    Listeners are reminded of the various issues to consider when navigating a property sale during a divorce, including the necessity of a separation agreement and the implications of common law vs. marriage in real estate transactions. Cheryl and Robyn underline the value of engaging professionals who specialize in divorce-related issues to ensure the best outcomes.

    The conversation wraps up with a mention of their collaborative book, "The Ultimate Divorce Game Plan," designed to provide holistic guidance through the divorce process. This episode is an invaluable resource for those seeking insight and support in managing what may be the most significant asset amidst the life-altering journey of divorce.

    About the Guests:

    Cheryl Koffman and Robyn Yack are Real Estate Agents with a twist! Besides doing their regular residential and commercial transactions, they also uniquely specialize in helping clients, who are going through a divorce or separation, sell their matrimonial home. Robyn's own difficult divorce situation and Cheryl’s time spent as a teacher/co-owner of private schools, where she encountered many families navigating through divorce, propelled us to want to help others going through this emotional, turbulent and life changing event. Our personal and professional experiences are what have made us able to provide the extra understanding and guidance that people need through their own divorce and separation.

    To connect with Robyn and Cheryl:

    Website: www.RobynandCheryl.com

    FB: https://www.facebook.com/robynandcherylrealestate

    IG: https://instagram.com/robynandcherylrealestate

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynyack/

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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  • The Other Side of Divorce Author Interviews Part 3

    This is the third and final podcast in the series of interviews with authors of “The Other Side of Divorce: Breakups That Lead to Breakthroughs”. Today, I speak with Dinalynn Rosenbush, Jasmina Egelnor, Alana Sharps, Christine Synnott, and Lesley Evans. We explore why they contributed to the book, the lessons they learned through their divorce, and the words of wisdom they would like to share with other women at any stage of the divorce process.

    Tune in to hear from the authors, consider a different way to experience divorce, and why sharing how divorce can positively impact your life is so important.

    About the Guests:

    Dinalynn Rosenbush

    Dinalynn Rosenbush is a Consultant and Parenting Coach, Speaker, 30-year public school Speech Language Pathologist, international best-selling Author, and Creator/Host of the Top 2% podcast: The Language of Play. Dinalynn helps parents understand how children communicate so they can connect more deeply with their children. She gives practical, daily strategies for building speech and language skills during normal daily activities. Dinalynn loves to empower parents through education and guidance. She resides in Minnesota where she is near her children and grandchildren.

    To connect with Dinalynn across all platforms:

    https://linktr.ee/thelanguageofplay

    Jasmina Egelnor

    Jasmina Egelnor is a quantum coach, author, and an entrepreneur. Jasmina is dedicated to contributing to raising universal awareness and making a positive impact in the world. Jasmina loves inspiring and coaching people from around the world to overcome their fears, find their purpose and step into a higher version of themselves to create and live the life they truly desire. Jasmina had a long career as a corporate leader, before she became an entrepreneur. Despite an amazing career, Jasmina was never passionate about her previous work, except for one area, leadership, and coaching.

    Jasmina coaches people to create their own version of external freedom in terms of place, time, and finances. Jasmina has two teenage sons and lives in Sweden. Besides personal growth and coaching, she is passionate about health and energy work. She loves being in nature and experiencing new places and people. She also enjoys the simple moments in everyday life, like cooking and eating beautiful food, mindfulness, and reading. Jasmina’s guiding light is love and growth, and she is forwarding that through her energy and service to others.

    To connect with Jasmina https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasmina-egelnor/

    Alana Sharps

    Alana Sharps, founder of SurThrive Tribe, carries a wealth of experience as both a High Conflict Divorce and Child Custody Consultant and a Best Selling Author. Her expertise extends beyond her professional achievements; it's rooted in her personal triumphs.

    Having navigated through the complexities of a toxic marriage entwined with narcissistic abuse, Alana emerged as a committed advocate for those facing similar trials. Her story is one of transformation—from a victim to an empowered survivor—and it fuels her dedication to guiding others through the challenging landscapes of domestic strife.

    To connect with Alana:

    Instagram: @alanasharps

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alanasharpsauthor

    Tik Tok: @alanasharps

    Website: https://www.surthrivetribe.com

    Christina Sabine Synnott

    Christina Sabine Synnott, a proud Canadian, is a dedicated mother whose love for her son shaped her life's journey. Facing a turning point, Christina found herself on the brink of divorce with barely any self-esteem remaining. Committed to protecting her son and ensuring his well-being, she made the courageous decision to leave her marriage. Christina's experience taught her that while divorce is challenging, it's essential to prioritize the emotional health of children.

    She firmly believes that children who feel loved by both parents grow into healthier adults with strong self-esteem. Her story underscores the importance of resilience and the enduring power of parental love. Christina is a Professional Hotelier with a demonstrated history of 30-years in the hospitality industry; having managed 5 international hotels. Skilled in Customer Service, Hotel Management, Customer Satisfaction, Conflict Resolution, & having earned Hospitality Teaching diplomas. She is a strong professional with a BA degree in Hotel & Tourism Management from Schloss Klessheim, affiliated with the University of Salzburg, Austria; Certificate from Cornell University, NY, USA; and a Certificate in Advertising/Marketing from Ryerson University, Toronto.

    To connect with Christina: www.gypsyphotelier.com

    Lesley Evans

    Lesley Evans is an International Best-Selling Author of DeFUNK YourSELF. She has developed a perfect blend of modern and magical therapies to empower the overwhelmed by teaching how to shed the guilt, find your passion and live an inspired life. Lesley has thirty years of experience as a Registered Psychiatric Nurse Therapist.

    She is a Certified Soul Care Practitioner and Reiki Master. She brings new purpose and passion for raising awareness, gaining new perspectives and teaching others to Shine Their Light. She believes, like The Rising Phoenix, that everyone can rise from the ashes of their old life and build themselves stronger to shine their light into the world.

    To connect with Lesley:

    Website: https://www.riseofthephoenix.org/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesley-evans-49a779203/

    Facebook: https://fb.me/RiseUpwithRiseOfThePhoenix

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

    Thanks for Listening!

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    32 min

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