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You’ve been told tolerance is a virtue. But what if it’s the very thing destroying you from the inside out? Evil doesn’t kick the door in—it asks nicely, waits on the couch, and takes over while you’re playing ‘nice guy.’ Today, we’re exposing the lie. What you tolerate today will own you tomorrow.

Why do we have such a problem with tolerance in culture today?

Have you ever noticed that the people who preach tolerance are some of the most intolerant people.

Men don’t lose their lives in one moment—they surrender them one compromise at a time. What you tolerate in your thoughts, habits, leadership, and household will grow roots and own you tomorrow. You’re either killing it—or it’s killing you.

ACTION STEPS:
1. Identify What You've Been Tolerating

• Hidden sin, lazy patterns, emotional immaturity, spiritual apathy, dishonor in the home.

2. Confess It and Cut It

• Repent and eliminate. Not later—now. Cold-turkey courage, not soft excuses.

3. Build a Zero-Tolerance Code

• Set the new standard in writing. Post it. Live it. Preach it in your home.

4. Get a Brother to Check You

• Accountability isn’t weakness—it’s war strategy. Isolation is compromise’s best friend.

MARCHING ORDERS:

• Name the compromise. Write it down. Kill it this week. Make a violent shift—because what you tolerate today will own you tomorrow. Terrorism starts with tolerance. It's time to declare war!

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“If you're sitting around waiting for a breakthrough, you’ve already lost. Breakthroughs don’t come to weak men—they’re built by disciplined ones. Stop praying for your life to change while living the same. Get up. Get moving. Become the breakthrough.”

QOTD: “Don’t wait for a breakthrough—be the man who causes it.”

SOTD: James 1:22 (ESV): - “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

The first code in The dangerous man code is REJECT PASSIVITY! The idea that you need a breakthrough to start moving is a lie. You become the breakthrough—through movement.” 

Tactical Action Steps
1. Take One Massive Action in the Area You’ve Been Waiting

• Stop journaling. Stop planning. Act. Today.
• Sign up. Confront it. Cancel it. Start it.

2. Create a 7-Day Momentum Streak

• Pick one habit you’ve neglected.
• Do it daily for 7 days. No skips. Stack your proof.

3. Don’t Declare It Publicly

• Tell one person maybe if you have to…
• But keep this to yourself and let your actions show the shift.

Say it with me men: “I’m not waiting anymore. I am the breakthrough.”

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All the way from the great state of TEXAS, Hadley Baker joins TDMP to deliver one of the most raw and powerful conversations about Porn addiction we’ve ever had. As a man battling sexual addiction in secret for over 20 years, Hadley opens up about the hidden war, the crushing weight of shame, and the brutal road to freedom. This one will wreck you—and restore you! 

If you’ve ever felt trapped by something no one knows about—this is your wake-up call. This episode is for every man who’s tired of the mask, tired of the guilt, and ready to be free. Let’s get after it."

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Most men are chasing sparks, motivation, and breakthrough moments—but the ones who actually win? They just keep showing up. In this episode, we unpack why consistency is the most dangerous weapon a man can carry. No hype. No fanfare. Just daily, disciplined firepower that builds a life worth leading.

QOTD: Quote of the Day - “Consistency isn’t sexy. It’s not loud. But it wins every single time.”

SOTD: Scripture of the day - Galatians 6:9 (ESV): “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”

TACTICAL ACTION STEPS:
1. Pick One Area You’ve Been Inconsistent

• Marriage, Health? Scripture? Fatherhood? Finances?
• Identify it. Own it. And show up!

2. Set a Daily “Show-Up Standard”

• Not huge. Just unbreakable.
• Example: Read 1 chapter. Do 50 pushups. Pray out loud. No matter what.

3. Track It for 7 Days

• Build proof that you’re a man who follows through.
• Establish that consistency, make it who you are!

Dangerous Focus for the Week: “Pick one thing you normally skip out on—and show up with a decided presence every day this week. Because showing up is how you win.”

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What if the most heroic thing a man could do… was show up day in and day out and give it his all?

In this episode, we hit the mic's with Matt Gleaves, founder of Confined Space Coffee Co., construction worker, story teller, minister, husband, father, business builder, and all around general badass. We unpack the battle between chaos and consistency, impact and leading men, as well as the weight of leading your home, and how men like Matt are forging strength in the quiet moments no one sees.

This one’s for the guys grinding out the years in silence, showing up in the trenches of husbandry, fatherhood, work, and faith—because you don’t need a cape to be a hero. You just need conviction.

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Every man is wired with unique gifts—strengths, talents, instincts. But most bury them under insecurity, laziness, or distraction. This episode is a call to stop sitting on your weapons and start training with them.

Weaponizing your gifts means taking what God has naturally placed inside of you—and turning it into something that builds, fights, defends, and leads.

“A COMMON GIFT USED CREATIVELY CAN BE VERY POWERFUL!”

FIND YOUR STRENGTHS: https://high5test.com/

FIND YOUR SPIRITUAL GIFTS: https://gifts.churchgrowth.org/spiritual-gifts-survey/

SOTD:
1 Peter 4:10–11 (ESV)
“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace…”
“…in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.”

ACTION STEPS:

STEP 1: IDENTIFY IT. (Strengths finder, Spiritual gifts assesment links)

• What fires you up? What comes easy to you but impacts others? What do people seek you out for?
• Ask a few close brothers: “What do you see in me?”

STEP 2: TRAIN IT.

• Invest time and discipline—just because it’s a gift doesn’t mean it comes ready for war.
• Study it, practice it, build with it.

STEP 3: DEPLOY IT.

• Find a way to serve others or lead others with your gift.
• Use it in your family, your church, your community, your craft.

STEP 4: GUARD IT.

• Pride will twist your gift. Insecurity will bury it. Comfort will dull it.
• Stay humble, stay sharp.

Marching Orders (One Challenge, One Action):

• This week, weaponize one gift.

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In this raw episode, Rory exposes the quiet shift that happens when conviction outlasts criticism. The same people who once mocked your standards eventually mimic your moves. This isn’t about ego—it’s about endurance. It’s about staying the course when nobody claps, walking alone when it would be easier to conform, and understanding that real conviction will always expose the compromise in others. This is a gut-check for every man building something bigger than himself.

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This is where it starts. The what and the why behind TDMP.

This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a war cry.
We don’t coddle men. We forge them.
Get the mission. Catch the vision. Join the brotherhood.
Discipline your body. Sharpen your mind. Lead your home.
Weakness dies and Real men rise!

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MISSION: What we do

• DISCIPLINE the physical self
• DISCIPLE the spiritual self
• DEVELOP the mental self
• DEPLOY the dangerous self

VISION: Why we do what we do
"To forge a generation of men who reject passivity, embrace biblical masculinity, and live with dangerous courage—leading themselves, their families, and their communities with unwavering strength, conviction, and purpose."

SOTD - 1 Corinthians 16:13 (ESV)
“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.”

MARCHING ORDERS: 

• Follow & Lock In – Commit to the movement, not just content.
• Engage & Build – Leave a review, share an episode, bring another man in.
• Live It Out – Apply this or you are wasting your time

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You’re not burned out because you’re doing too much. You’re burned out because your mind is full of junk. Most men are mentally fried by 10AM—and it’s not from the weight of their mission, it’s from the garbage they carry with them. If your mind is cluttered, your mental energy compromised.

QOTD – Quote of the Day
“You can’t build a focused life, with a cluttered mind.” — Rory Lawrence

SOTD – Scripture of the Day  2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV):
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”

Things that carry a heavy cognitive load

• Decision Fatigue – Too many choices drain your willpower.
• Open Loops – Unfinished tasks or conversations that clutter your mind.
• Notifications – Every ping fractures your focus and burns bandwidth.
• Multitasking – Splits your brain, lowers performance.
• Drama & Negative People – Emotional chaos = mental clutter.
• Cluttered Environments – Messy spaces quietly stress your brain.
• Information Overload – Consuming more than you execute.
• People-Pleasing & Overcommitting – Mental energy wasted on fake “yeses.”
• Unresolved Conflict – Emotional weight running in the background.
• Over-Planning Without Action – Thinking without doing burns fuel.
• Constant Context Switching – Every task switch costs mental clarity.
• Internal Shame & Fear Loops – Mental spirals that block clear thinking.

Tactical Steps to Manage Cognitive Load
1. CUT THE NOISE

• Audit and cut: social media, notifications, negative inputs.

2. START STOP LIKE A SAVAGE

• Focus on one task with intensity.

3. DAILY BRAIN DUMPS

• Write down every task, worry, or open loop each night or morning.

4. AUTOMATE THE LITTLE THINGS

• Use routines for meals, clothing, and simple decisions.

5. USE A RESET PROTOCOL

• Little methods you resort to, to break the cycle of being overwhelmed.

DANGEROUS FOCUS:
“Audit your mental battlefield. Eliminate one source of noise, automate one decision, and lock in one block of focused, distraction-free work each day. Clarity isn’t found—it’s created.”

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If you really want to kill your demons for good, you need to starve them to death. 

In this episode, we go to war with the flesh, expose the top enemies men keep feeding, and give you a battle plan to shut it down for good. If you're tired of falling into the same pit, it’s time to cut the supply lines and watch the beast die. No more excuses and absolutely no more mercy for what’s destroying you.

"Every time you feed your flesh, you're fueling your failure."

Most men are losing because they keep feeding the thing that’s killing them. You don’t need more self-help—you need a starvation strategy.
This isn’t about behavior management. It’s about execution.

STARVATION STRATEGIES: (What to starve/what to feed.)

1. LUST

• Starve: Late-night screen time, seductive content, isolation.
• Feed: Accountability, physical exertion, fix your eyes on purpose.

2. LAZINESS

• Starve: Snooze button, passive media, excuses.
• Feed: Morning routine, time blocks, physical motion.

3. PRIDE

• Starve: Self-glorification, the need to win, resistance to correction.
• Feed: Repentance, feedback, silent service.

4. BITTERNESS

• Starve: Replays of offense, bitter circles, unprocessed emotion.
• Feed: Fast forgiveness, God-first processing, serve over sulk.

5.COMFORT

• Starve: Easy options, auto-pilot, feelings-based decisions.
• Feed: Daily difficulty, mission-based routine, hard right choices.

6. COMPROMISE

• Starve: "Just this once," soft boundaries, low standards.
• Feed: Clear non-negotiables, strong brotherhood, God-rooted identity.

7. FEAR OF MAN

• Starve: People-pleasing, approval addiction, silence.
• Feed: Fear of God, bold obedience, conviction in small things.

"Starvation is your strategy. Obedience is your oxygen."  - Rory Lawrence

SOTD: Romans 13:14 (ESV) “But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.”

MARCHING ORDERS: 

• Pick ONE enemy of your flesh and starve it.
• Find out where you're feeding it and cut it off.
• Replace it with

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