The Decoding Couples Podcast: Unfiltered Relationship Advice & Marriage Tips

How do you have a healthy relationship when the roles & responsibilities feel so uneven? Laura Danger sheds jaw dropping light on how the patriarchy sets up men and women to fail in partnerships. This episode explores the root of relationship problems with the mental load and our ability to have conflict resolution with our partners. This week's DC in the DMs has Laura & Stacey in the hot seat, answering questions from the Decoding Couples community on if what they need is, "too much" or just basic partnership requirements.

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If you struggle with jealousy, trust issues and boundaries because of an ex…don’t miss this week's episode. Past relationships are always going to be a part of your current relationship dynamics...but how much is up to you! You don’t want to miss the DC in the DMS where Rachel takes on stories of ex’s and if she thinks something shady is going on, and how’d she handle your ex scenarios!

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In this episode, Rachel and Stacey are joined by therapist Mac Stanley Cazeau to talk about the changes to intimacy and sex throughout the span of a relationship. Mac shares the male perspective performance, body and sexual changes and how these impact intimacy and romantic relationships. They end by sharing proactive and in the moment tips to maintain a healthy intimate life for long term relationships and how to get out of a dry spell.  Rachel and Mac are answering the DC in the DMs where they give their tips on how to get out of different intimacy barriers and dilemmas the DC community has shared.

Want to hear more from Mac? Check out Mac Stanley Cazeau on Instagram www.instagram.com/talk2mac as well as his podcast Menage A Mind www.instagram.com/menageamind

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Stacey and Rachel dive into the idea of “daddy issues” and “mother wounds”. They discuss what creates those types of wounds and how they show up in adult relationships. They also touch on what can happen as a result of losing a parent at a young age or never having met a parent figure at all. Rachel and Stacey give multiple ideas and thoughts around “what to do now” if you realize you are dating or in a relationship with someone like one of your parents and how to grow together to break past patterns. Stacey is on the hotseat for DC in the DMs this week doing rapid fire on if certain behaviors are “nature” or “nurture”...you won’t want to miss the last one!

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Buckle up! This episode dives deeper than the typical cheating/infidelity discussions you've heard before. While we agree cheating is an incredibly heartbreaking experience for the betrayed to go through and is a choice that has huge life changing implications...we wanted to have a deeper conversation about the motivation behind why people do it. In this episode, Rachel and Stacey are joined by therapist Mac Stanley Cazeau LMHC to explore why people cheat. Rachel, Stacey They discuss how to define what counts as cheating, emotional affairs and the idea of limerence. Mac and Stacey are on the hot seat for DC in the DMs where they rapid fire answer “cheating” or “not cheating” for different community experiences.

Want to hear more from Mac? Check out Mac Stanley Cazeau on Instagram www.instagram.com/talk2mac as well as his podcast Menage A Mind www.instagram.com/menageamind

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Rachel and Stacey start off by admitting what gets them defensive. They also talk about how it shows up & impacts their relationships. They review how defensiveness gets created, the purpose defensiveness serves and tips on how to work through defensiveness and talk about it with your partner. DC in the DMs puts Rachel on the hotseat answering how she would respond to different situations where defensiveness is at play.

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This episode covers the impacts no one talks about when it comes to kids + relationships. Rachel and Stacey talk about how their marriages changed after kids, why relational satisfaction takes such a hit, and the positive changes that can come from parenthood.

DC in the DMS puts Rachel on the spot responding to community experiences about changes in relationships after kids. You do NOT want to miss her hot takes and direct advice in this segment.

Ready to take the guesswork out of your relationship’s future? Check out Before the Next Step, an online course that will leave you with a clear picture of where changes need to be made in your relationship, what areas feel solid, and where future conversations and work need to happen in order for your relationship to successfully take the next big step! www.decodingcouples.com/courses

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This episode is part 1 covering how your family of origin impacts adult relationships.  Rachel and Stacey talk about the common sentiment “I’ll never date someone who is like my dad/mom/caregiver” and why it is really likely that you WILL date someone who was like your parent. Rachel and Stacey talk about how they have dated partner’s like their parents and what that looked like for them. This episode dives into the unconscious and conscious process of repeating relationship patterns and dynamics that you experienced growing up, why it happens, what warning signs to look for that isn’t happening and what you can be aware of in yourself to have a corrective experience with your partner.

For this  week’s DC in the DMs, Stacey is in the hot seat responding to the question “what happens in your family that your partner(s) think is weird/odd but you think is completely normal”. You don’t want to miss this one as Rachel learns some new, hilarious facts about Stacey and her family!

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In this episode, Rachel and Stacey break down the "unsexy" parts of sex...to make them feel sexy again! Rachel and Stacey start by discussing what younger versions of themselves used to find attractive and sexy and how it has changed through age and different phases of life. They then dive into topics such as when partners have different libidos, crying during/after sex, what to do when you or your partner want to try new things in the bedroom but the other doesn't, body image and so much more. In this episode, Rachel is taking on DC in the DMs, where the DC community wrote about their "unsexy" experiences with their partners for our tips and feedback. 

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This episode tackles all things couples therapy! Rachel & Stacey explore why couples therapy gets such a bad rap and what typically lands couples in therapy. They share their experiences in couples (including what went wrong!) and when individual therapy is more appropriate than couples therapy. 

This weeks DC in the DMs is a little different: Stacey & Rachel were flooded with couples therapy horror stories from their Instagram community, so they set the record straight on exactly what to expect and NOT expect in couples therapy. 

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Check out Decoding Couples on YouTube by subscribing here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpgk8G_ktrhH0JfpjbzVPLw

Want Rachel and Stacey to tackle your relationship situation on DC in the DMs? Make sure you follow them on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/decoding_couples