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  • Love Without Labels: What Makes a Modern Relationship? With Maddox | Ep. 21

    In today’s episode we interview Maddox. Maddox is a DJ and event producer based in Los Angeles. She is very openminded and all areas empathetic and generally intuitive. 

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

    Guest: Maddox


    Timestamped Episode Highlights:


    • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
    • [01:39] - How to think emotionally especially when you're an empath and why it can be a little exhausting,
    • [02.02] –  The kind of filters to have for when someone comes into your life? How do you know if there's going to be an attraction?
    • [03.15] – How have things changed with coronavirus and just staying in doors and with the protests now
    • [04.46] – Matters faced and any difficulties living together. Cause when you spend a lot of time together, sometimes you have some bumps and how do you overcome those?
    • [05:29] - Stories that they've maybe had two arguments and over a year and very small and just that good communication 
    • [06.37] – The conventional sort of structure of a relationship, with that comes like new definitions of what it means to like have other lovers or like cheat
    • [07:29] -  What is a weird psychological thing that has definitely evolved since then, but wanted to see other people more attracted
    • [08:39] - How we gotta be together forever and we're going to get married and we're done
    • [10.21] – Why being present is super important. Tell us a fun story about this current, this current relationship. What's one of the most memorable dates or just sexual adventures? 
    • [11:39] - What are your biggest turn-ons?
    • [12.53] – Over time, if you really love the person and they make you feel really relaxed, you can't be like really tense. See now you have to just let go.
    • [16:20] - Maddox shares a story about her favorite intimate product


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    20 min
  • The Play by Play Guide to Dating "Out of Your League" with Ashwin | Ep. 20

    In today’s episode we interview Ashwin. Ashwin is a Los Angeles based producer, strategist, and host. His practice focuses on the intersection of branded content, digital and traditional entertainment. He has been working as the principal at New Hollywood a consulting firm in Los Angeles, California. In addition to his work in entertainment Ashwin is involved various investment and advisory roles with technology and entertainment based companies. He is well known as connector and works with various celebrities and brands to produce events and connect people across industries. Ashwin is the host of the popular New Hollywood Podcast which has charted in the top 100 podcasts charts on iTunes.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

    Guest: Ashwin Jacob

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:


    • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
    • [01:39] -  The time when he was least likelihood of getting a right swipe on any dating app
    • [02.02] – Why he as way less cool in real life than on Instagram.
    • [03.15] – The art to gamify someone into wanting to have a conversation on it, and rather not have that conversation
    • [04.46] –  The reaction you get when people are out at protests and people are out hiking trails
    • [05:29] - How Boston was one of the last places to desegregate schools
    • [06.37] – Remembering when the most couture fashion brands in the world that would let Ashwin gift girls that I was dating like red bottom heels
    • [07:29] - Dating and relationships with hi best female platonic friends who were models
    • [08:39] - Culture that is so over-sexualized and people don't view people as person. [09:24] -  “What is your dirtiest story?”
    • [10.21] – The experience of being accused sex in the bathroom
    • [11:39] - “The wildest fetish that you've encountered?” 
    • [12.53] –  The most amazing sex toys, sex products, or even just relationship, books or products that you've purchased that's changed your life?
    • [17:30] -  How the most mind changing is like soul gazing because your body releases a dose of oxytocin, which is like an amazing natural high.


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    19 min
  • How Loving (and Pleasuring) Yourself Can Wildly Enhance Your Relationships with Alexa | Ep. 19

    This 24 year old model has learned a thing or two about how to attract a good partner. In this episode of the podcast, we share the mic with Alexa, who shares some very intimate moments with us about how to connect with a partner and unlock a whole new level of satisfaction in a relationship. She shares her adventures of falling in love during a pandemic, and how she was able to get very close to her new partner even while living at home with her family.

    Episode Highlights:

    • [00:00:30] Introduction to Alexa who is a 24 year old Cuban American model living in Miami and 2020 has got her lost in the sauce.  
    • [00:01:30] Alexa shares her wild story of how she unexpectedly met a partner and started a new relationship.[00:03:21] She talks about her trip to New York and back to Miami where she met her new boyfriend at a bar.
    • [00:04:18] when you're like falling for someone, everything is like Rose colored, but the world outside, like that situation is just like going up in flames.
    • [00:04:47] Thoughts about how being in love during chaotic times is such a blessing
    • [00:06:31] How to trust that fate is preparing you for a better situation.
    • [00:07:52] How Alexa has always found love and connection when she least expects it.
    • [00:08:54] Alexa talks candidly about what it’s like to live with a traditional Cuban family and date.
    • [00:10:15] Stories about how Alexa and her partner found creative ways to get frisky when family is home.
    • [00:11:00] Alexa confides that she is a serial monogamist, and that that style of dating suits her best.
    • [00:12:00] She shares her thoughts on how to have an intimate connection with your own body
    • [00:12:45] Why she feels sex is like very much a dance, and how to get comfortable with your own rhythm
    • [00:13:13] “And then when you bring that version of you into the bedroom with someone else, what happens in there is next level.”
    • [00:14:45] Alexa’s heartfelt advice for others to not force a relationship, but go with the flow.
    • [00:17:00] How she believes you shouldn’t change who you are to please a partner, they fell for the you that walked into that room. 
    • [00:18:30] Closing thoughts

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    18 min
  • A Single Man's Approach to Exploring Relationship Models with Jerry | Ep. 18

    Dating is a mystery we're all trying to figure out. In today's episode, Jerry shares how he is on the path of discovering how this all works. From experimenting with a swinger couple to traditional relationships, he's explored a lot of options in the Texas dating scene and shares his heartfelt reflections on what feels best for him.

    • [00:00:30] Introduction to Jerry, a hat maker who lives in Houston, Texas. He is a Leo and he's 33 years old. 
    • [00:01:30] Jerry shares how his hats are great conversation starters
    • [00:02:18] Jerry speaks about his relationship status and how it’s not seriously defined right now. 
    • [00:04:29] He talks about how dating life is in Texas compared to other places.
    • [00:05:43] A candid conversation around jerry’s unique dating style as a loosely structured thing.
    • [00:07:15] A story about what an ideal relationship would look like, as well as his thoughts on swinger scenarios
    • [00:09:48] Jerry’s thoughts on jealousy and open relationships
    • [00:12:00] How vulnerability plays into communication
    • [00:13:11] What Jerry thinks an ideal dating life would look like
    • [00:15:37] A wild story of how Jerry found himself locked in a closet in Barcelona
    • [00:19:37] Jerry shares stories of how he prefers women who can take control sometimes
    • [00:22:00] A steamy story of how Jerry and a date splurged on toys at a sex shop
    • [00:24:07] Conclusion

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    25 min
  • How This Jetsetter Keeps Boyfriends In Multiple Countries (While Pursuing Marriage) with Mimi | Ep. 17

    Meet travel and adventure enthusiast Mimi. Mimi is a spontaneous and fun loving vegan chef with a passion for romantic adventures in foreign countries. Get ready for some very colorful and intimate stories with this free spirited romantic. Mimi shares her philosophy on finding a perfect husband who will be able to give her the freedom and adventure that she craves, while still being able to have a child and traditional marriage. Tune in for this steamy international tale of love and adventure!

    • [00:00:30] Introduction to Mimi, she’s a vegan chef and has been to 32 countries under the age of 30. 
    • [00:01:00] Mimi describes how she recently became single. She has a few boyfriends in a few different countries and is working her way to marriage.
    • [00:01:45] She talks about how things work with her boyfriends in different countries 
    • [00:03:15] Mimi shares that Freedom is her favorite part of her relationship status. “I can do whatever I want and I'm not tied down.”
    • [00:04:30] Mimi shares a story of how she read the book sacred circle and went on a spiritual journey in Israel and Jordan.
    • [00:04:49] “I just really want babies.”
    • [00:05:30] The qualities she’s looking for in a man that would be the sign that says this is a man she can still have her freedom with.
    •  [00:06:15] She describes how she can get jealous and control situations by manipulating. 
    • [00:07:45] “Monogamy is important to me when it comes to marriage, but right now I'm just enjoying my freedom.”
    • [00:09:00] Mimi shares a super hot story about a hookup in a hostel in Chile
    • [00:10:35] How Mimi thinks everyone in Jordan looks like Aladdin. Beautiful.
    • [00:11:45] She shares a hot story about a man she met in Jordan
    • [00:13:30] She shares a very vulnerable story of a relationship that didn’t end so well.
    • [00:16:00] The story behind Mimi’s original tattoo
    • [00:18:50] “So I really like other languages in bed. Those are fun.” 
    • [00:20:31] Closing thoughts

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    22 min
  • What It's Really Like Living with an Ex During Quarantine (Samantha's Story) | Ep. 16

    In today’s episode we interview Samantha from Dallas, Texas,currently in California. Samantha is a nutritionist and a health coach. Samantha shares a wild story of how circumstances and quarantine led her to living with an ex during the whole lockdown. She opens up about how to explore new horizons from a relationship and what she's looking for in future connections.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Samantha


    Timestamped Episode Highlights

    • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
    • [01:38] - How she separated from boyfriend and lived together. She went on a little bit of a travel spree after they separated
    • [02.02] – What would make you feel the most fulfilled in your dating life? 
    • [03.15] – You cannot really rely on anyone and you just need to be kind to yourself as much as you are
    • [04.46] –What are your thoughts on edible underwear? 
    • [05:28] - Her thoughts about almost like keeping tabs with each other
    • [06.37] – Have you ever slept with someone you work with? 
    • [07:28] - How to develop different qualities like patience and understanding
    • [08:38] - The way it can be a roller coaster of emotions when you’re in a relationship
    • [10.21] – How often do you think of someone else while you're having sex?
    • [11:39] - Is it true that definitely sex was never a problem in her relationship?
    • [12.53] – What's the easiest pickup line you've ever heard
    • [13:39] - What advice would she give for someone that is going through the sort of situation that she is in right now?
    • [14:39] - Some other great insights on dating that anyone can learn to cultivate


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    17 min
  • The Unfiltered Truth On Dating Multiple Men (Gay, Straight, and Beyond) with Shane | Ep. 15

    Buckle your seatbelts, this interview is charged with wild adventure and extra raunchy stories. In this episode we share the mic with Shane, who gets real and honest about what it's like to have multiple male lovers. Shane is very open about his sexuality and has found his straightforward approach has enabled him to find romantic partners even with straight men. Discover what it's really like to live a sexually liberated adventure as a non-binary socialite in this hilarious, and soulful story.

    Episode Highlights:

    • [00:00:28] Introducing Shane, a sexy saucy and a non-binary socialite who also does freelance consulting. 
    • [00:01:00] Shane describes how he is a polyamorist, “I don't have one partner. I have a multiplicity of them.” 
    • [00:01:28] Shane describes his straightforward approach to getting more D in his life.
    • [00:02:34] How did you discover that this was the way that you wanted to love and how did you decide that this was right for you? 
    • [00:02:53] Stories of Shane in college: bring on the orgies, the threesomes, the four somes. 
    • [00:03:10] Deep dive into why monogamy would never be suited for Shane’s outgoing style of life.
    • [00:04:18] Advice on how to approach people directly and avoid insecurities.
    • [00:04:45] Shane describes how the dynamic works as friends in his core relationships, and how important that is in determining his lovers.
    • [00:05:41] Shane share insights on talking dirty and communication in general, and how to spark electricity. [00:06:30] A super honest conversation about a time one of his lovers got “caught” having an affair and how that impacted Shane.
    • [00:08:03] How Shane manages the ups and downs of life, and uses sexual encounters to keep his energy.
    • [00:10:45] Shane shares a piece of advice to somebody who is, looking to have a bit more sexual freedom in their life.
    • [00:13:15] Shane talks candidly about a fetish he has of seducing straight men, and how vulnerable that is to talk about.
    • [00:13:54] Sex toy talk: Shane shares a story about a sex toy that has helped him enjoy giving oral.
    • [00:15:00] Conclusion


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    17 min
  • What An Independent Woman Really Wants In a Man (Tory's Story) | Ep. 14

    In today’s episode we interview Tory, a writer, producer and literary manager based out of Los Angeles. Tory reveals her philosophy on dating and how she meets men. She also goes into detail about how her dynamic of being an independent woman has impacted her relationships and changed her expectations. We'll also discover how Tory feels about initiating physical contact during a date.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Tori

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.28] – Introduction about the show and guests
    • [01.02] – Opinion about polyamory,  the feeling of genderless to just like be able to communicate as a human
    • [02.38] - Philosophy on relationships
    • [03.15] – The reason behind her criteria when looking for a match
    • [04.46] – Dating pre-covid vs post-covid
    • [05.34] - Does her relationship style feel serial monogamous?
    • [06.37] – Why athletic sex is quite enjoyable
    • [07:29] - The opportunity to open up on an intellectual and, emotional level as well in order to feel safe
    • [08.24] - Why she always felt a little bit restless in all her relationships and wished that they were more okay with that
    • [09.39] - The feeling of being caught in my own emotional melodrama
    • [10.21] – Most important lesson you'll you have figured out in a relationship
    • [11.34] - How do men react when someone who needs a lot of freedom and naturally a very independent person enters the relationship
    • [12.53] – What do you think about public sex? 
    • [13:22] - If you had a bang, any politician living or dead, who would you bang? 
    • [14:29] - What is a big sexual turn off 
    • [15:39] - Finding the perfect person is not just about emotional needs but also physical needs


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    19 min
  • How to Tell If You're Ready to Be Single Again with Jay | Ep. 13

    In today’s episode we interview Jay. Jay lives in the Los Angeles arts district. He has a creative agency and does marketing for a marijuana brand. Jay goes into detail about what it's like to be a career focused man who wants to date, but doesn't know how to read the signs if a girl's attracted in him. Jay just finished a short relationship and is now entering dating again as a single, and shares his thoughts on what that means for him.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Jay

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
    • [02.02] – motivation behind getting on hinge
    • [03.15] – Why purposely single for four years before this last relationship.
    • [04.46] –What are the boundaries one needs to have
    • [05:28]- If your biggest motivation is to get the love of the world, which being famous, go ahead and do it.
    • [06.37] – Hard lessons that he learned from this relationship
    • [07:28] - To engaging with what they do and really being passionate about it is really attractive
    • [09:18] - How if he see drive and just like someone with the original thought, that's like really not concerned about the people around them it drives him crazy
    • [10.21] – What's single Jay's process from meeting a stranger to getting frisky. 
    • [11:39] - The way in trying to grow one relationship to kill all the other ones that you've ever had.
    • [12.53] – Thoughts about cosplay
    • [13:39] - What are your biggest turn-ons?
    • [14:22] - Do you put your toilet paper over or under? 
    • [15:38] - How sometimes we have to get hit in the brick with a head for someone to be like let's shit like shack up,
    • [16:29] - What's your favorite part of a woman's body? 


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    21 min
  • This Playboy Model Gets Real About Monogamy and Public Sex (Korin's Story) | Ep. 12

    In today’s episode we interview LA based model, actress and vegan enthusiast, Korin. Korin talks candidly about how to balance her love for passionate sexual adventures with a committed monogamous relationship. She goes into detail about how she met her current love interest and how the dynamic works between them.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Korin

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
    • [02.02] – How does the communication dynamic work with her partner?
    • [03.15] – Is fighting natural or normal?
    • [04.46] – Korin shares why being compassionate and loving towards one another is important
    • [05:28] - Would you guys ever trust each other with passwords to your social media accounts?
    • [06.37] – Korin speaks about her experience discussing parting ways and how it went down.
    • [08:38] - How she had sex on a hike, like at the top of the mountain, and then at the beach. During the day with people around and at night on a lifeguard tower.
    • [09:28] - How to actually just forgive and then the fight is going to be over.
    • [10.21] – Story of her favorite sexual adventure with her partner
    • [11:39] - How she loves sexual toys, which includes the handcuffs and vibrators
    • [12.53] – Her thoughts about group sex and would she engage in it?
    • [13:22] - What do you think would change in your relationship or forgiving partner that there would be maybe also more and more loving?
    • [14:29] - If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 
    • [15:29] - How many, swimsuits do you have?
    • [16:39] - Closing Advice: Just live your life. Just don't wish you were getting older, 


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    18 min

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