The Dirt on Dating

In today’s episode we interview Andrew, a 39 year old single gay man. He is five years clean and sober ago. Andrew’s sexual history started at age 21 and has consisted almost entirely of one night stands!

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Andrew

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  Whether we should opt for recovery or introspective, psychoanalytical stuff started happening in early twenties
• [02.02] – How Andrew portray himself humbly and says he as a whole is a mess,
• [03.15] – He doesn't have any, like self-hatred naturally but have a slight case of low self worth
• [04.46] –  Realizing that under that emotional mask of that smile is just as real as I am undermine and that's beautiful. It's so achievable and it just feels like comfortable and it feels safe
• [05:29] - Be portrayed as physically attractive is to look at their profile. That's the age, weight. Quality of the picture. If it all lines up, I start vetting them and making sure it goes well.
• [06.37] – Different sort of dynamics. Do you say, Hey, I'm going to touch your leg right now? Or like, you have a really great package?
• [07:29] -  They're looking at the loop on the table, their eyebrow raises let's go, that kind of thing. They've already shown interest in my, my toys that I'm gonna use with them. 
• [08:39] - There is a picket fence wrapped around this person and my person's relationship
• [10.21] – Relapse prevention classes, all the, you know, accepting of my homosexuality classes, the class that I have not, and how he found the courage to do his sexual addiction class.
• [13:39] - How someone who has a food addiction. It's like they're sitting down at a table dating. They're obsessed about the food. Well, I'm obsessed about the sex. 
• [15.53] –Especially through the first month and a half of a quarantine, that one pleasures themselves and get to themselves sexually.

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In today’s episode we interview Zuza. She is living life out of love, creating as many stories along the way as possible. A bikini brand owner and also a creative director. She is the definition of a nomad loving life and making others enjoy it a little bit more in the process too..  

Hosts: Noah Scott and Helene Cornell
Guest: Zuza

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  How Zuza's nomadic lifestyle has influenced her relationship models. She's explored many different types of relationships.
• [02.02] –  Zuza speaks on the dynamics of her current relationship and what makes it special.
• [03.15] –  All has to be lined with a huge amount of respect and love. A reverence for, the people that you surround yourself with.
• [04.46] – The key is just like not having expectations and making sure that everything's fine. As long as it's communicated. 
• [05:29] - The moment when entering a relationship who later became her husband and later became her ex husband. So. At that point. she was a very open minded person. 
• [06.37] –  The moment when the eight years we were together were like completely out of character.
• [07:29] - How she determines if someone is a match for a connection
• [08:39] - It is either a match with someone on like a friendship level or love lover's level or, you know, take it further, but it's, energetic. 
• [10.21] – relationship that I'm in right now and putting my work into that before I can, you know, diversify my energy into other relationships
• [13:39] - How important it is to be comfortable with your partner and yourself first and foremost. Do you have any advice on how someone maybe is a little insecure in the bedroom might gain some self esteem in those areas
• [15.53] –  You still need more because you keep on doubting that confirmation that you already got. Paint us a picture of how you keep that intimacy fresh?

Connect with Zuza:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zuzawroblewska/
Bikini Co.: https://hautkini.com/

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In today’s episode we interview Jeremy. Jeremy is a social coach, podcaster and influencer. Growing up, Jeremy struggled with severe social anxiety; to overcome this he decided to become a social ninja and now shares his knowledge and experience with others that seek help connecting with others. 

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Jeremy Greene

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  How to keep yourself from recycling through a lot of the same thoughts.
• [02.02] – Experience of going through was kind of depressed if I'm being honest and I decided to be random and spontaneous, and I booked a one way flight to Taiwan
• [03.15] – Knowing that huge part of me was nervous to, to invest all in emotionally because I didn't literally went to Taiwan to find myself and I wasn't really expecting this relationship
• [04.46] – The first preview of self improvement. There is of course, aspects of putting the girls down and the routine jeans and just the cockiness.
• [05:29] - The pickup community and negative dynamics of it, but there was an element of self-improvement improve yourself. Believe in your value, believe in your worth. Concentrate on an effort over results. 
• [06.37] –  How a lot of women only looking for something casual and newsflash girls like sex. Just as much as guys is that your girlfriend told you.
• [07:29] - The tendency of our brain can see cock block straight up. Give yourself a timeframe so that you don't have a chance to back out of it
• [08:39] - Importance in creating a positive relationship with our brains. Like even when it's being mean and saying mean things about to yourself and you're being hard on yourself, it's just this dynamic of like, Hey, listen, I understand you want me to have peace deep down, but yo, I want to talk to some more girls. 
• [10.21] – What would make you feel the most fulfilled in your love life? What is the dynamic that you're looking for?
• [13:39] - What's the wildest fetish that you've ever encountered?
• [15.53] – Advise on being your true, authentic self unapologetically and to shift from hunter mentality to fishing mentality

Connect with Jeremy:
The Social Ninjas Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-social-ninjas/id1493186275
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremytalkstostrangers/

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In today’s episode we interview Jasper. He's a 32 years old interior design enthusiast trying to make it in LA.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Jasper

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  His experience as gay just because that's where the most vulnerable, and finding a partner that he wants to share all of that with.
• [02.02] – Have a bond not necessarily over relationships, but what it looks like to be polyamorous 
• [03.15] – Why he considers himself a deceptive introvert. Jaspers describes himself as very much an outgoing people person and love knowing people's history, even calls himself anthological a lot just 
• [04.46] –  The skills to develop genuine connection with people. Something that's not forced, something that's not pretend. Which is kind of what he is finding the most hardship within dating right now.
• [05:29] - Important to having someone that you can speak to and talk to comfortably and not worry about talking too much, if you are talking too much and not worry about having to force the conversation 
• [06.37] –  Discussion regarding flirtatious nature and put out that sexual nature just to feel it out. Why it is precious to him, because it's so rare to just happen across it,
• [07:29] -  Do you find that the sex is better if you've had that chance to show your real self and that vulnerability?
• [08:39] - How it is unrealistic to believe that we can be everything for each other. Like it just, it had nothing to do in monogamy because I'm not talking cautious decision making as far as like commitments 
• [10.21] –Could have made my relationship with that partner, Ian and healthier if I had sought somewhere else for those needs without guilt and without shame.
• [13:39] - What's the wildest fetish that you've ever encountered?
• [15.53] – What kind of advice would you have for people that are of the same grain that are struggling to make those kinds of connections, especially in a place like LA, which is so superficial.

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In today’s episode we interview Marissa, she’s 23 from st. Louis, but has lived in Los Angeles since she was 18. She used to be in cannabis, but now is working on getting her real estate license.She loves being with her friends, her dog, and anything with good energy that makes her feel good

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Marissa

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  Know the qualities does this relationship have that made you feel like this was a good thing to dive in and commit the strongly to.
• [02.02] – How we compliment each other in so many ways. 
• [03.15] –  It teaches you about caring for somebody else and being there for the other person
• [04.46] – Why it's really important just to do the stuff you both like to do together and definitely date nights and stuff like that.
• [05:29] - Sometimes some things get mundane and, it's like the same thing as if you'd go out, you have a nice state, you come back and something's new and something's fresh
• [06.37] –  Challenges that you go through and if you have some strategies that you've found that work particularly well to overcome them.
• [07:29] - People just want to be heard and respected and they just don't want to feel like people to like put them down,
• [08:39] - If you hold it over somebody's head or whatever, you're mad about something for days and days. It's just toxic for you. It's just bad energy
• [10.21] – Perhaps it is like the sun makes you horny or whatever it is, but definitely have the craziest sex when on vacation
• [13:39] -  Role playing really gets the mood going. Toys are fun for foreplay tpp.
• [15.53] – Is there a story about a time that you've tried something that was just like out in left field?

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In today’s episode we interview Aidan. Aidan was born in Preston, England, and grew up in Perth Australia before making the US his home. Film and Cinema have always been a love for Aidan as kid, and although he wasn't sure he wanted to be an Actor he knew his path didn't involve working 100 hour weeks in a bank. He continues to audition, train, and steadily work his way to being the best at his craft.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Aidan

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
• [01:39] -  If our value systems aren't lining up, anyone can kind of sniff that out pretty early
• [02.02] – Relieve your loved ones of any heartaches, is something to strive. 
• [03.15] – At times we need to learn to try to receive the other person's energy
• [04.46] –  The superficial things have in common, but then also realizing that like there's like value systems that you share
• [05:29] - Compartmentalize the relationship simultaneously with that and be able to create a space for it
• [06.37] – Philosophical and modality of living to make that work
• [07:29] - Create a safe space to be able to totally talk about anything
• [08:39] - Talking on the phone prior to the first hangout where we meet, where I can kind of get a sense of there's like a crazy factor or not.
• [09:24] - Being a big believer that physically through communicate
• [10.21] – The experience where you just went and total surrender and had this moment, maybe it was on a vacation somewhere
• [11:39] - Their own separate life outside of our relationship, and in that separate life is really taking care of them and themselves 
• [12.53] – What its like being frustrated with hesitancy
• [17:30] - Understand that the sooner you can make you and your partner, like let go of all that BS

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In today’s episode we interview Elisabeth, who is actually Meesh’s sister and she lives in st. Louis. She is married with a baby girl named Charlotte. She loves to get together with friends and go boating on the river.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Elisabeth

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  Describing what some speed bumps along the way and what are some of the things that you've learned as a couple
• [02.02] – It is very rarely do we ever disagree or see things differently and Michelle can attest to that
• [03.15] –What it means to see things from different points of view in whatever we do
• [04.46] –  Ways to keep things fresh by finding things to do anything in particular for example date nights
• [05:29] - Important that we each have our own lives outside of our life. 
• [06.37] – We think a lot of people lose themselves and like lose their relationship with their partner when they have kids
• [07:29] - Spinning and vibrant and fun. What’s also important that she goes out with her old coworkers. 
• [08:39] - How it is so important for your mental health and you'll be a better parent when you get a little bit of a break.
• [10.21] – Elisabeth paint us a picture of one of the most romantic evenings that you've had.
• [11:39] -  Understand that your gut is everything. When you're with the right person, it's really easy.
• [12.53] – Describing her craziest adventure: I've swam with sharks before but I want to do it with my husband. I want him to get into, and I think that'll be a wild experience

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In today’s episode we interview Jasmine. Jasmine is 24 years old and has been officially single for about five years now. She does social media marketing for work and has been living in LA for the last two years.She's a Sagittarius and a super into spirituality being mostly vegan and activism.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Jasmine Caputo

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  Everyone is so not really it like a mature place for a relationship during college
• [02.02] – Advice to focus on your career and like fulfill myself in other ways and focus on my friendships 
• [03.15] – What brings the most fulfillment for you in connection with somebody else?
• [04.46] –  The kind of your thought you're dating a guy, like he was kind of giving off all the signs of a relationship
• [05:29] - Once emotions are involved, all logic goes out the window. 
• [06.37] – How are you not seeing the situation for what it is you want to like shake your friend, 
• [07:29] - Tips to find a casual, but still connected sort of relationship
• [08:39] - Have that independence and have your separate lives and just focus on you and not kind of put all your energy into that other person 
• [10.21] – Bringing new people into your life and then escalating that to a romantic level or a sexual level.
• [11:39] -   Why it is difficult when you're trying to meet people by going out at night to bars and especially in LA 
• [12.53] – What are some of the annoying habits or ticks or something that, that other couples do that you find irritating? 
• [16:20] - Have you ever done like a swing thing?
• [17:20] -  Definitely focus on yourself and make yourself happy and put your time and energy into work and like your female friendships

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Connect with Jasmine: @jasminemelodyy
www.instagram.com/jasminemelodyy

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In today’s episode we interview Jody. Jody is 32 years old and currently live in Houston, Texas. He was born and raised in Texas, lived in Houston in the metropolitan area of Houston for the last eight years.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Jody 

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  The story of the marriage just didn't work out and we just decided to go our separate ways.
• [02.02] – Know that there's always going to be a lot of time that you need to, to build that self discovery again.
• [03.15] – Jody want stability for my daughter, even though she’s the one that provided instability by divorcing my ex wife and leaving her and splitting up the family and doing all that.
• [04.46] – Understand that there's a certain level of growing up and this new level of looking at life,
• [05:29] - 110% commitment to each other to meet in the middle on everything that you go through. 
• [06.37] – The need to come to a resolution and work through it together, and you gotta have patience
• [07:29] - What happens when sheltered a lot of feelings and I just didn't want, I don't like conflict. I don't like dealing with problems unless they're my own personal problems
• [08:39] - The art of approaching the next phase of your life with a little more intention and a little more forethought and almost designing what the next. 
• [10.21] – Importance for goals to set out for themselves in a career path that they love and enjoy that is motivated to get up and every get up every single day and be the best that they can be
• [11:39] -  What's one of the wildest adventures you've had romantically? 
• [12.53] – Do you prefer to take control or be submissive? 
• [16:20] - Common thing for 50, 60 years for people or for women to get pregnant at an early age?
• [17:20] -  Have you ever tried edible underwear? What's your favorite part of a woman's body? How would you convince someone that you're from the future 400 years? 

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In today’s episode we interview Tara. Tara is a creative entrepreneur and writer living in Los Angeles. She's in love with musical theater, soaking in a hot bath of bubbles with warm flickering candles, and a good book feels incredible to her.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Tara Parker

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  What are the most attractive attributes to you and a man?
• [02.02] –  The ideal fantasy of getting married to one person and living out the rest of my life with them
• [03.15] – What are some of your biggest turnoffs?  
• [04.46] – Have you ever like really liked someone and then you found out they were a big weed smoker?
• [05:29] - How they had this like sexual tension between each other but we still had to see each other through work. 
• [06.37] – Would make you the most fulfilled in your love life? Cause a lot of fun adventures that you have, and there's also desire for monogamy and stuff. 
• [07:29] -  Do you think monogamy is boring?
• [08:39] -  We're entering this like very dynamic time in like relationships and the whole models are changing so frequently
• [10.21] – Do you have any fetishes that you've, that you've tried that have been a lot of fun or, or have you encountered someone else that has some cool ones that you want to share?  
• [11:39] -  How she sometimes really want the presence of a man in her life.
• [12.53] – What is one sex toy or romantic product? That you've purchased in the past. That has changed your life, for example a sex toy purchase or romantic product?
• [16:20] - Understand your true self, maybe there's a fear of boredom, and think what can we do to spice things up

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