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  • Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Adding Kink to Your Marriage with Brett | Ep. 11

    In today’s episode we interview filmmaker and actor, Brett Newton. Brett opens up for a soulful conversation about life in marriage, the kind of activities that can keep relationships alive, and new commitments when your partner moves in with you. Brett also shares some spicy details on how the couple keeps the spark alive in their marriage.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

    Guest: Brett Newton

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00:28] – Introduction to the show and guests
    • [01:39] - How the smallest thing you do for someone can trigger a positive action
    • [02:02] – What brings back the freshness in a married life?
    • [03:15] – The relationship with your other half when you move in together
    • [04:46] – The commitment when opened up a joint checking and a joint savings account and all of our savings
    • [05:29] - Why knowing your other half deeply is really beneficial for the long run and for restoring a healthy sex life
    • [06:37] – “Have you ever cried or falling asleep during sex?” 
    • [07:29] - Always be seeking ways to improve each other and challenge in the area of excellence
    • [08:39] - The healthy outlook on life and insights on how introducing kinkiness can enhance the relationship between 2 people
    • [09:24] - Truly understand your needs and desires and not be afraid to communicate them
    • [10:21] – Does Brett watch porn together with the wife?
    • [11:39] - Being in the moment and sharing life deeply and seeking to bring pleasure is a wonderful thing to pursue
    • [12:53] – “If you could bang any celebrity, who would you bang?” 


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    19 min
  • What It's Like Using Tinder to Score Hot International Hookups with Marissa | Ep. 10

    In today’s episode, we share the mic with artist and painter Marissa as she shares her experience about traveling in different cities, Tinder success, her Scottish love story, her last relationship, how love and romance stimulate her creative process and much more in a fun and dynamic interview.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Marissa
     

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.28] – Introduction
    • [01.10] – Marissa introduces herself and s​ays us how everything is going in her life right now.
    • [02.03] – “​How is the dating life right now in New Orleans?​”.
    • [02.05] – “​Marissa portrays us how is the dating lifestyle in New Orleans and what has been her personal experience going out in the city.​”
    • [03.52] – ​What was the thing that tells you that you needed to end the relationship?.
    • [03.54] – ​Our guest describes her experience in the relationship and why she decided to end it.
    • [05.45] – “​Why do you think things went in that direction?”​.
    • [05.47] – ​Marissa tells us how everything went and how it was a romantic and passionate and fresh relationship.
    • [06.30] – “How do you think would be your ideal partner?”​.
    • [06.34] – She highlights someone kind, funny, and who does not get mad if she goes out with friends by herself.
    • [08.15] – “​How much of your creative process comes from your experience with love and romance?​”.
    • [08.19] – ​She highlights how that experience is important to her creative process, even a broken heart drives her and motivates her to experience new things..
    • [09.30] – “How do you typically meet new romantic partners?”.
    • [09.33] – ​Our guest comments that previously she used to use tinder and how the experience is different in each city.
    • [11.00] – “​What is your hottest story on tinder?”
    • [11.05] – ​Marissa describes us her experience in Scotland and how she spent more than a year dating the person.
    • [12.00] – “​What do you look for when you see the profile of a guy on tinder?”​.
    • [12.05] – Our guest tells us some particular rules that she follows on tinder.
    • [13.12] – “​What has been your longest relationship and what do you think is the key for you to continue dating the same person?”
    • [13.15] – “​She says us that her longest relationship has lasted about 2 years and how it is key to continue finding ways to can have fun together.”
    • [14.11] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [16.45] – “​What would you say to the younger version of yourself?”.
    • [16.47] – She would say trust your instincts.
       


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    19 min
  • Why It's Okay to Take a Break from Dating (And How to Get Started Again!) with Esli | Ep. 09

    Episode summary:

    In today’s episode we interview Esli, a photography enthusiast and marketing professional. Esli shares his philosophy on dating when you’re busy, and how to know when the right time to enter the dating world is after a long break. He speaks about dating apps and the personality traits he seeks in women. Esli will also share his thoughts on monogamy and non-monogamy and what it means to be committed.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle 
    Guest: Esli

    Timestamped Episode Highlights

    • [00.27] – Introduction
    • [00.45] – Introducing himself to the audience, Esli says that he does photography, finance sales, marketing and loves to travel 
    • [01.15] – Relationship status
    • [02.25] – “How is dating around during coronavirus for you?”
    • [03.18] – Esli shares about the personality traits he seeks before dating and that he doesn’t like girls who focus too much on materialistic things
    • [04.27] – We discuss what a perfect match would look like for Esli
    • [05.23] – Esli shares with the audience his thoughts on monogamy and non- monogamy
    • [07.42] – “If you are on dating apps, what’s the craziest date you’ve ever been before?”
    • [08.39] – Esli says that he would not be rude to girls who would catfish.
    • [09.08] – “We live in a society where we just try to get accepted all the time”
    • [10.00] – “What would you say is your favorite part of companionship than been with someone else?”
    • [10.45] – “Do you see that consistency why relationships fade out?”
    • [12.13] – What it means to be committed
    • [13.46] – Speaking of when one should eject in a relationship, Esli says that it all depends on what type of relationship it is.
    • [14.31] – Bad Sex is a definite deal breaker for him when it comes to a relationship.
    • [15.15] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [17.49] – As a piece of advice, Esli says “if you are single, go get rejected a couple of times, just get used to it and everything will be easier and be yourself.”

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    20 min
  • Are Smart, Strong, Entrepreneurial Women Too Busy For Love? (Maya's Story) | Ep. 08

    In today's episode, we share the mic with entrepreneur and businesswoman Maya. Maya joins us in a fun and candidly personal conversation. She tells us about her dating life, how she manages between her busy schedule and her love life, the fun story of how was the first date with her current partner. In addition to seeing her most fun role in our rapid questions.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Maya

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.30] – Introduction
    • [00.56] – Maya introduces herself and tells us how everything is in her life.
    • [01.09] – “How is your dating life right now?”.
    • [01.17] – Maya tells us briefly how her love life is going and how she maintains a relationship at a distance.
    • [01.52] – Our guest says us how long they have been dating and how they make them work despite the distance and the tightness of their schedules.
    • [03.20] – “How was the beginning of the relationship?”.
    • [03.22] – Maya tells us about the beginning of the relationship and how they felt a special connection from the beginning.
    • [04.30] – “ Have you ever felt that men have been intimidated by your success?” .
    • [04.34] – Our guest tells us about how in her dating experience she has met men who come out with the idea that she represents and others who feel intimidated by her.
    • [05.30] – “How is your process for finding a partner?.”
    • [05.32] – Our guest tells us about her process to identify red flags when dating someone.
    • [06.09] – “ What are the red flags for Maya?”.
    • [06.13] – Maya says to us what the red flags are for her in a relationship, and how those red flags are things that are not negotiable for a person in a relationship.
    • [10.20] – “Tell us a funny story about you and your partner”.
    • [10.25] – Maya tells us the funny story of how was the first date with her partner in Miami .[13.16] – What would be a dream magic date for you? .
    • [13.20] – Maya says us about her dream date .
    • [13.50] – “If you could give some advice to the younger version of yourself, what would it be?”.
    • [13.55] – “ Be more selective with crazy guys and have a lot of fun.”
    • [14.25] – ““Rapid Fire Round”.
    • [14.30] – “ Our guest relaxes in our “Rapid Fire Round” and answers all our quick questions. 



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    19 min
  • How to Read the Signs Your Date is Giving You (And When to Escalate) with Justice | Ep. 07

    Episode summary:
    In today’s episode we interview marketing manager and athletics enthusiast, Justice. Justice shares his experiences dating in Los Angeles. He gives his insight to the most important aspect that should be in a relationship and the importance of showing one's personality when dating. Justice also contributes the lessons he learned about the “five love languages”.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle 
    Guest: Justice

    Timestamped Episode Highlights: 

    • [00.28] – Introduction
    • [00.00.38] – Introducing the guest, Meesh says that Justice is a marketing manager who is into athletics and currently in a relationship.
    • [00.59] – Sharing about his dating life, Justice says that their relationship is still fresh.
    • [01.48] – Introducing himself, Justice shares that he is an early riser and shares how he maintains contact with friends and what he does to maintain fitness.
    • [02.51] – Sharing the fact that he was not a fan of dating apps, Justice says that he was old school and believed meeting in person so that he can show up his personality as it gives the opportunity to express yourself better.
    • [04.16] – Justice shares how he would be frisky with girls who he would date and also emphasizes the fact that as a guy you should not use explicit language.
    • [08.22] – “What is it about the current relationship that made you decide to take it to the next level?”
    • [09.30] – According to Justice, once you find that connection through each other’s personality and if the sex is good that’ll make the couple come together.
    • [10.08] – Justice shares one of his experiences where he had a physical connection but couldn’t mentally connect.
    • [11.56] – “What would make you most fulfilled in your love life?”
    • [13.10] – “Five Love Languages” and Justice’s eye opening experience
    • [16.20] – Justice emphasizes on the fact that as a guy you have to put in time to make her feel appreciated in the way she likes.
    • [18.00] – Justice shares an experience he had with one of his dates, how she checked his social media which eventually led to certain problems.
    • [21.17] – “What’s the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you on a date?”
    • [24.19] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [29.09] – Conclusion

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    31 min
  • The Secret to a Polyamorous Marriage and (Almost) Zero Jealousy with Audria | Ep. 06

    Episode summary: 

    In today’s episode of Dirt on Dating Show, we interview Audria, who is a certified intimacy coach and a sexologist. Audria shares insight to what dating is like for her, and she dives deep on the topic of “Polyamory”. We’ll also explore the connection and dynamic Audria has with her husband, as they both have other lovers. She also shares her thoughts on monogamy and her experiences as an intimacy coach in helping others ignite the spark in a relationship.

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle 
    Guest: Audria O’Neill 

    Timestamped Episode Highlights: 

    • [00.29] – Introduction
    • [00.39] – Meesh introduces Audria as an intimacy coach and a sexologist.
    • [01.04] – “How is your dating life right now?”
    • [02.32] – Audria shares that she was polyamorous since she was 15 years old, a age when she didn’t even know what polyamory was.
    • [03.55] – Audria gives a glimpse into how she met her husband and what led to that relationship.
    • [05.06] – Explorations of “Serial monogamy” and Audria’s view
    • [06.11] – “What’s your favorite part about your relationship status right now with your current husband?”
    • [07.10] – Audria shares a kinky experience she shared with her husband and gives an insight into open-relationships.
    • [10.03] – Sharing her desire to be monogamous with her husband, Audria says the only thing that is a challenge is his frequent travel schedule for work.
    • [11.13] – According to Audria, polyamory works for her because she is a very extroverted social person.
    • [12.07] – Agreeing to what Meesh says, that some people have high expectations from their partners which would eventually stress them, Audira shares some examples of such situations.
    • [14.48] – Audria emphasizes on the fact, “it’s really hard to live in a house where you are feeling rejected.”
    • [15.35] – “What are some practical things that people can do to spice up their love life?”
    • [18.30] – “Have you ever experienced any jealousy from your husband with your relationship or has he been cool about that the whole time?”
    • [21.49] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [24.20] – Conclusion

     
    Get in contact with our guest:

    Patreon:
    http://www.patreon.com/TheUncagedHeart
     
    Official website:
    https://www.theuncagedheart.com/

    YouTube:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN_54YrDcQBRgPk1ff-ZmEA

    Instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/audria.oneill

    Podcast:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/lk/podcast/mak e-love/id1478227628

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    26 min
  • 7 Easy Ways to Start Being a Better Boyfriend Today | Ep. 05

    In this special weekend edition of the Dirt on Dating show, Meesh and Noah talk about 7 easy to do things that guys can start doing today to be a little bit better as a boyfriend. These are by no means “silver bullets”, but these tips are sure to help bring a little bit more understanding and positivity into any relationship. Tune in to hear them all!

    Timestamped Episode Highlights

    • [00:00:30] Introduction
    • [00:01:07] Noah shares some of his experience in trying to understand what it means to be a boyfriend and how to reflect on some of his past actions
    • [00:01:49] Number one is to not whine. Noah shares why it’s attractive when a guy doesn’t whine.
    • [00:03:10] Noah shares the importance of being fun.
    • [00:04:17] Noah shares how giving frequently is another way to be a good boyfriend
    • [00:06:00] Number four is to be helpful
    • [00:07:18] For number 5, Noah shares a really powerful tactic to be more present in your relationship
    • [00:10:56] Number six, Noah shares some strategies to be a better listener.
    • [00:12:15] noah goes on to talk about how important it is to be strong as a man, and how to deal with the pressure to be strong in a positive way.
    • [00:14:03] Conclusion

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    15 min
  • What Does Noah Think About Dating? | Ep. 04

    In this episode of the Dirt on Dating show, we change it up and have Meesh interview Noah about his dating life. Noah shares some raw and vulnerable philosophies about finding a dynamic that enables him and his partner to be their happiest. We also discuss whether most people truly want a monogamous relationship or if it’s unnatural.

    Timestamped Episode Highlights

    • [00:00:27] Welcome to this episode of the dirt on dating show. 
    • [00:01:00] Noah shares his current relationship status with a primary lover in a FWB status
    • [00:02:15] He shares that it’s taken a lot of trust to get to that point. And that their dynamic, less pressure works better.
    • [00:04:00] We discuss whether the friends with benefits model has ever backfired for Noah.
    • [00:06:10] Noah shares that he doesn’t hold grudges.
    • [00:07:15] Do most women want a conventional relationship? 
    • [00:08:22] “I think that there are many cases where a conventional marriage is very beneficial. I have a lot of friends who are married, so it works out for them.”
    • [00:10:04] How do you typically meet women? 
    • [00:11:09] Noah shares how he’s attracted to tall women.
    • [00:12:16] Why should people listen to the podcast? 
    • [00:13:03] Noah shares his mission behind the podcast. 
    • [00:15:15] Closing Thoughts


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    17 min
  • Finding a Partner Who Compliments Your Style with Cole | Ep. 03

    Episode summary: 

    In today’s episode of Dirt on Dating Show podcast, we share the mic with singer and musician Cole to learn his experiences on dating and his philosophy on love and relationships. Cole shares the most important quality he seeks in women. Diving more into dating, Cole shares that “being present is probably one of the most important” aspects when it comes to dating. 

    Buckle your seatbelts, this interview is filled with wild stories and hilarious adventures! 

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
    Guest: Cole

    Timestamped Episode Highlights 

    • [00:28] – Introduction
    • [00:43] – Cole introduces himself and says that he is a singer in a rock band and that he is more of a spiritual guy.
    • [01:18] – Cole mentions that apart from singing he has an interest in both surfing and skating.
    • [01:36] – We talk about Cole’s current relationship status
    • [02:10] – Cole shares about the quality that sparked an interest in the girl he dates right now and how they got connected.
    • [03:16] – Cole shares his concern over that fact that people don’t really meet in person anymore like they used to do in the past.
    • [04:26] – According to Cole, Style is the quality that makes him attracted to a girl, and an important factor in building relationships.
    • [04:54] – “What is it about a women’s style that makes you feel that this is something worth dating?”
    • [05:27] – According to Cole, being present is very important in a relationship. Having said that he shares with the audience that he had been in relationships where he was more physically attracted than been mentally attracted.
    • [06:02] – “What’s the most psycho thing a girl has done to you?”
    • [08:03] – Cole shares a beautiful moment he spent with his girlfriend along with all the romantic and public sexual adventures.
    • [11:00] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [13:49] – Conclusion


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    16 min
  • Just Because You Want Monogamy Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Love BDSM with Phoenix | Ep. 02

    Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

    Guest: Phoenix

    Episode summary: 

    In today’s episode we interview singer and actress, Phoenix. Phoenix opens the kimono and reveals some very spicy stories of what it’s like to date her, and how to navigate the quest for a partner while still having fun. Phoenix also shares her perspective on the importance of maintaining high standards when it comes to relationships. We also dive deep into online dating and how “timing” plays a part in meeting a partner.

    Timestamped Episode Highlights:

    • [00.28] – Introduction
    • [00.43] – Phoenix introduces herself and says that she is a singer and an actress by profession
    • [02.02] – “What is it about a man that gets you to be attracted to them?”
    • [03.15] – Phoenix describes the characteristics of a martial artist actor from the film ‘Rocky’ that made her get attracted to him.
    • [04.46] – Describing her relationship goals, Phoenix says that she wants a man who she respects and who would motivate her.
    • [06.37] – Phoenix shares with us the reason why she maintains high standards when it comes to relationships.
    • [08.21] – “What’s your view on monogamy and nonmonogamy?”
    • [10.53] – Phoenix shares her wild experience with dating apps.
    • [12.15] – “I’m not that type of person who plays games with a person that’s serious.”
    • [13.03] – Both Meesh and Phoenix share their ideas on online dating and explore the fact that most people aren’t serious when it comes to online dating.
    • [14.34] –With respect to timing when it comes to online dating, Phoenix stresses the importance of being a complete happy person in terms of career before diving into a relationship
    • [16.40] – “Rapid Fire Round”
    • [17.07] – Phoenix shares with the audience her wild experiences as a sub and working in a BDSM dungeon.
    • [20.50] – Phoenix shares the riveting story that caused her to exit out of BDSM.
    • [26.02] – Phoenix gives her two word advice to any amateur going into the dating world.

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    28 min

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