Happy New Year y'all! Thanks for coming back for another episode of the podcast. I recently celebrated my birthday in a way that felt great for me. It was a dope celebration and a great way for me to start the year. Been making some time for community and stepping out of my comfort zone as well. Let's make the most of this year y'all. What are you doing to make it as dope as ever?

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Sorry it's been a minute since my last episode. It's been a lot going on and I've been taking the time to reflect. Thank you so much for the support and I hope you enjoy the holidays! If you would, please complete the link for feedback on how to improve the podcast. https://forms.gle/Coc1ehvxi5g1yoEr6

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Man, it's wild when you finally accept who you are and stop hiding from the things that can and will propel you to another level. It's all part of the healing process, right? Despite the healing, there's always that self-doubt that tries to creep in and derail your progress. Listen as I discuss how we go from afraid to be seen, to walking head high into success!

One thing I've come to realize is that I lack community. This is something I've had growing up having several cousins around and having a neighborhood full of kids. Not only that, but I've also been a part of some team since middle school. What happens to us when we become adults? What makes it so hard for us to build community today?

Been a minute since I've done an episode and for good reason. Several things have been going on lately and I was handling things the best way I can. The Black Fathers Summit was a success, business is picking up with G Squared, and things are going well here overall. I love and appreciate you and all of your support!

Boredom is a bitch! We get into a bit of a slump and then you start doing things that don't serve us in any way, shape, form, or fashion. We make bad decisions and/or we don't listen to our gut. Boredom can come from inadequate rest or nutrition, monotony of the mind, or a high need for excitement. Instead of feeding into the boredom, let's do the things we enjoy so boredom has no chance to take over!

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Man, you ever needed a break from everything? I had to take a break from my group and the podcast for a bit because I was so overwhelmed! However, I'm back at it now. I also talk about dating how much of a simp I was with this one chick and how that has changed my perspective on things, especially boundaries. Finally, I end up discussing all of the dope things that are coming up soon!

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How often are you pissed off when something is planned and it ends up getting cancelled or things change last minute? Do you fuss, get discouraged, throw a tantrum or do you adapt and overcome? Listen as I discuss how a change of plans can lead to an amazing discovery!

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Been in my feelings all this month because my brother's birthday is coming up. He would have been 40 this year and I'm angry, sad, and frustrated I will not be able to celebrate with him. Grief shows up whenever it feels like it. There's no time limit on grief at all and you're allowed to feel what you feel. Personally, I've been more depressed than usual, however, I'm acknowledging it and allowing others to help when I need them to.