🎧 Bi-Comfortable — Lex & Dr. Dew on Stigma, Rules, and Play (Part 2)

The conversation continues. The Professor and Mrs. Doll go deeper with Lex and Dr. Dew on what “bi-comfortable” looks like in practice—how stigma shows up, how rules evolve when curiosity meets reality, and how couples can rebuild trust without shutting down desire.

• When “bi-comfortable” meets real scenarios: navigating interest, hesitation, and mixed signals.
• Stigma in play spaces: language, assumptions, and creating safer rooms for everyone.
• Rules that flex: moving from rigid “no’s” to clear, simple boundaries you can remember at 2am.
• Jealousy as information: what it’s telling you and how to debrief without blame.
• Event etiquette for mixed-orientation play: invitations, aftercare, and consent check-ins.

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• CouplesNextDoor — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network
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🎙️ Credits
Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. DollGuests — Lex & Dr. DewProducer — Down & Dirty Productions CompanyMusic — Victoria

🎧 Bi-Comfortable — Lex & Dr. Dew on Stigma, Rules, and Play (Part 1)

The Professor and Mrs. Doll sit down with Lex and Dr. Dew for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about what it really means to be “bi-comfortable.” From the stigma that still surrounds bisexual men and women in the lifestyle, to setting boundaries that actually work in mixed-orientation relationships, this episode dives into identity, attraction, and play without judgment.

💬 In This Episode:

• Lex shares what being “bi-comfortable” means in real-world play situations
• Dr. Dew breaks down stigma and mental health inside lifestyle spaces
• How couples can build rules that protect connection without killing curiosity
• When jealousy becomes information, not punishment
• What hosts and event organizers can do to create inclusive environments

❤️ Sponsors & Partners

• CouplesNextDoor — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play
• Glitz by Jax — Custom body art & glitter for events
• PassionScapes Photography — Boudoir & event photography
• Playcations by Stacey — Lifestyle travel & event planning

📣 Promos & PSAs

• CND New Member Promo Code: DDPOD
• Upcoming Events & hotel takeovers listed at CouplesNextDoor Events

🎙️ Credits
Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D
Guests — Lex & Dr. Dew
Producer — Down & Dirty Productions Company
Music — Victoria
Studio — Down & Dirty Productions Company

📅 Release Date: October 28, 2025 · 05:00 AM CDT

It’s your Halloween hotel-takeover crash course: costumes that actually work in crowded spaces, how to handle the 10:30 lingerie change without stress, and newbie survival tips that keep the weekend fun and consent-forward. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D share what to pack, how to pace, and how to plan your night so you make it through the main event and the after-party.

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Credits
Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D
Studio — Down & Dirty Productions Company

🎃 Eye Candy Halloween Hotel Takeover Preview

The Professor, The Dean, and The Prince preview the Eye Candy Halloween Hotel Takeover at The Glow in Sioux Falls — featuring a Friday masquerade with a 10:30 lingerie change, Saturday pool party, room crawl, 8–1 main event, and upstairs after-party. They also recap Northern Invasion and discuss bar bottlenecks, updated host-hotel rates, and key newcomer PSAs: create a CouplesNextDoor profile to RSVP (free trial counts), book the host hotel to keep full takeovers viable, dress up, pack lingerie, pace drinks (especially at the pool and room crawl), and plan both nights. Producer David also plugs Caliente Latin Night at the Blue Saloon and the #Save2ndBase contest.

💎 Sponsors & Partners

• CouplesNextDoor — Studio sponsor & event RSVP (free trial works)
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play
• PassionScapes Photography — Event photography & mini boudoir shoots
• Glitz by Jax — On-site vendor & activations

📣 Promos & PSAs

• CND New Member Code: DDPOD
• #Save2ndBase — Breast Cancer Awareness month contest on CouplesNextDoor
• Caliente Latin Night — C&D Nights meet-and-greet (see Events)

🔗 Links

• Events & details: https://downdirtypodcast.com/events
• Show page: https://downdirtypodcast.com

🎙️ Credits
Hosts — The Professor, The Dean (early segment), The Prince
Producer — David
Studio — Down & Dirty Productions Company

Scarlet is back for Part 2 to go deeper on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From EMDR and brainspotting to jealousy, veto power, and talking with kids, this conversation is candid, practical, and very real.

• What EMDR and brainspotting actually do — and why they help after tough moments
• Jealousy, reassurance rituals, and renegotiating time after a breakup
• Veto power in the moment vs. pre-set rules (and how both can fail)
• NRE (“new relationship energy”) versus long-term connection — spotting the difference
• Individual therapy vs. couples/polycules: why one size doesn’t fit all
• Kids & honesty: giving language for the world they already see at home

Sponsors

• GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nights
• PassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + boudoir shoots
• Playcations by Stacey — Curating your next lifestyle getaway
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play, shop with our referral link
• CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network

CND New Member Promo Code: Use code DDPOD when signing up to support the show.

Series: This is Part 2 of 2.Credits:• Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll & Chuck D • Guest — Scarlet • Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions Company • Music — Victoria

Dean’s Surprising Porn Tastes — Voyeurism, Wax, and Boundaries

What happens when your porn searches surprise even your closest friends? In this candid roundtable, the crew dives into unexpected categories, real-life voyeurism, and the awkward truth about grooming and boundaries. From Chuck D’s waxing confessions to washcloth debates and “never again” moments, nothing is off-limits in this laugh-out-loud community episode.

In the mix: porn categories that shocked the hosts, why voyeurism feels hotter than you think, anal play honesty, and the reminder that talking about boundaries and aftercare makes the fun better for everyone.

Links & Offers

• Join the conversation at CouplesNextDoor.com (Promo code: DIRTY25)
• Partners: glixbyjax.com · passionscapesphotography.com · playcationsbystacey.com
• Remote Play: Lovense referral link

Credits

• Hosts: The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D, and The Dean
• Producer: David
• Studio: Down & Dirty Productions

The Professor recaps the White Party energy and looks ahead to a stacked fall: Sioux Falls’ Hoedown weekend, a new Minneapolis bar takeover on October 4, and the big one—WC Halloween—where we’ll record our first-ever live Down & Dirty podcast on-site.

• White Party recap: packed rooms, everyone looking sharp in white, great vibe
• Sioux Falls Hoedown: Friday meet & greet + full Saturday slate; earlier start for dinner vibes
• Oct 4 Minneapolis takeover: new north-side venue; think club wear—dress sexy
• WC Halloween (2 nights): two DJs, two ballrooms, speed dating, and a masquerade vibe—bring a quality mask
• Pro tips: read every event detail; follow house rules; single males must complete vetting

Sponsors

• GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nights
• PassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shoots
• Playcations by Stacey — Curating your next lifestyle getaway
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play, shop with our referral link
• CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network

CND New Member Promo Code: Use code DDPOD when signing up to support the show.

Recorded live at a pool party, the crew tackles a spicy audience question: are soft swap couples welcome—and what happens when jealousy shows up? The answer: these parties are appreciation first, not about who’s hooking up. From the difference between jealousy and envy to the real “are you good?” check-in, this micro episode keeps it raw, funny, and useful for anyone navigating the lifestyle together.

In the mix: soft swap etiquette, why honesty beats ego, a candid jealousy story from Chuck D, and the reminder that this is supposed to enhance your relationship—not replace it.

👉 Join the conversation at CouplesNextDoor.com

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Remote Play: Lovense Toys — referral link: https://www.lovense.com/r/eoxx1c

Credits

• Hosts: The Professor, The Dean, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D
• Producer: David
• Studio: Down & Dirty Productions

Scarlet joins The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for a candid Part 1 on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From jealousy breakthroughs to therapy insights and parenting in open relationships, this episode brings real talk and practical takeaways you won’t hear anywhere else.

• Reframing jealousy into reassurance rituals that actually work
• Therapy takeaways for navigating non-monogamy (solo & couples)
• Parenting considerations: privacy, house rules, and scheduling
• Boundary drift vs. boundary breaks — and how to repair trust
• Talking labels with community: swinger, poly, open, or “don’t label it”

Series: This is Part 1 of 2. Don’t miss the conclusion in S3E18, airing October 7.

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• GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nights
• PassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shoots
• Playcations by Stacey — Curated lifestyle getaways
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play (our referral link)

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The Professor and Chuck D face off on public play “points”: does joining the Mile High Club really score higher, or is two-woman in-seat action riskier (and hotter)? From movie theater tactics to afterparty burnout, orgy suite debates, and the line between soft and full swap — this 16-minute micro pulls no punches.

• Scoring “points” by risk vs. location
• Mile High vs. in-seat — which really counts?
• Noon movie theater tricks and boundaries
• Orgy suite vs. bedtime rules
• Soft swap, full swap, and the sunshine digression

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• GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nights
• PassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shoots
• Playcations by Stacey — Curated lifestyle getaways
• Lovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play (our referral link)
• CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community network

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