Oklahoma Hotel Takeovers, Sooner Swing & Consent Workshops (with Justin from OTB)

Justin from OTB (On the Border) joins The Professor, Chuck D, and producer David to break down what the lifestyle really looks like in Oklahoma—and why it’s bigger (and wilder) than most people assume.

From full-weekend hotel takeovers to a massive campground festival-style event called Sooner Swing, this episode hits real-world event flow, what couples should expect, and how education + consent workshops can make the difference between a messy weekend and an amazing one.

Topics / Search Terms

• ​Oklahoma lifestyle / swingers / ENM
• ​Hotel takeovers (weekend flow)
• ​Sooner Swing (campground festival)
• ​Consent workshops + boundaries
• ​Event etiquette + signals
• ​Hedonism trips

Guest / Tickets

• ​OTB (On the Border) — https://otbls.com

Also Mentioned

• ​Mardi Gras hotel takeover: February 20–21

Sponsors / Partners

• ​PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapes.com
• ​Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com

Studio Partner

• ​Couples Next Door — https://couplesnextdoor.com
• ​Referral code: DD25

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Produced byDown & Dirty Productions Company — https://downdirtyproductions.com

Burnout in the Lifestyle isn’t just being tired — it’s when your capacity disappears and play starts to feel like pressure. In this Ladies’ Den episode, the crew gets real about emotional labor, mismatched energy, and how to protect your connection without forcing yourself through another weekend you don’t actually want.

Topics include:

• Lifestyle burnout and why it happens
• Emotional labor and invisible pressure
• Capacity vs desire
• Letting go of rules that kill the vibe
• Choosing intention over obligation

Guests: C; The Cowboy

Audio note: Mrs. Doll and The Cowboy share a mic in this recording; some responses may overlap.

Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door
https://couplesnextdoor.com
Referral code: DD25

Sponsors:
PassionScapes Photography
https://passionscapesphotography.com

Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax
https://glitzbyjax.com

Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

The Down & Dirty Podcast is a sex-positive, consent-forward space for honest conversation. This episode reflects personal experiences and opinions and is not medical, legal, or therapeutic advice.

Sex Games with Eliza is back — and this time it’s all playful chaos: sex trivia, dirty word prompts, and “what would you do?” scenarios that turn into real talk about turn-ons, boundaries, and what people actually mean when they say “I’m into that.”

Eliza joins Chuck D and The Professor (with the Dean in the room) for a light, funny, adult conversation that’s part game-night, part confession booth — and fully unfiltered.

Key topics / search terms:

• Sex games & sexy icebreakers
• Sex trivia
• Turn-ons & boundaries
• Dirty word prompts
• Confidence, comfort levels, and consent

What we talk about:

• Rapid-fire prompts and game moments
• How people communicate turn-ons without overexplaining
• Comfort levels, privacy, and boundaries
• Where humor helps — and where clarity matters more

Guests & credits:
Guest: Eliza
Hosts: Chuck D, The Professor
In-room: The Dean

Sponsors / Partners:

• PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com
• Couples Next Door — https://couplesnextdoor.com

Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

The Down & Dirty Podcast is a sex-positive, consent-forward space for honest conversation.

🎙️ Lifestyle Goals Without the Burnout: More Fun, Fewer Rules (Ladies Play Den)

The Ladies Play Den crew gets honest about setting lifestyle goals without turning play into pressure. This episode is about letting go of burnout, unrealistic expectations, and self-imposed rules that quietly drain the fun out of events, connections, and relationships.

Instead of resolutions and checklists, the conversation focuses on intention, energy, confidence, and doing what actually feels good — whether that’s saying yes more often, slowing down, or redefining what a great night looks like.

🔥 Topics include:
• Lifestyle burnout and why it happens
• Letting go of rules that kill the vibe
• Confidence without pressure or performance
• Setting intentions instead of resolutions
• Events, play, and knowing your own pace
• Choosing more fun, not more obligation

🎧 Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📢 Sponsors:
• PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Glitz by Jax (Merch) — https://glixbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
• CouplesNextDoor — https://couplesnextdoor.com
• Referral code: DD25

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast — Ladies Play Den
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company — https://downdirtyproductions.com

🎙️ 2026 Swinger Lifestyle Resolutions — Do’s, Don’ts & Real Talk

New year, new standards. In this episode, the crew runs through what they will and won’t do in 2026 — the lifestyle habits we’re leaving behind, what we’re doubling down on, and the simple shifts that make events, flirting, and nights out way better.

🔥 Topics include:
• 2026 lifestyle do’s and don’ts
• Confidence vs. ego (and why it matters at events)
• Better communication, cleaner boundaries, fewer regrets
• Approaching people without being awkward or pushy
• What to stop tolerating in 2026
• How to have more fun without overthinking it

🎧 Listen / connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📢 Sponsors:
• PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Glitz by Jax (Merch) — https://glixbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
• CouplesNextDoor — https://couplesnextdoor.com
• Referral code: DD25

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company — https://downdirtyproductions.com

🎙️ OnlyFans, Privacy, and Real-Life Consequences

In this episode, the conversation turns honest and unfiltered about what happens when online attention meets real-world life. Eliza (aka Waterworks) joins the show to talk about privacy, visibility, and the unexpected consequences that can come from being seen — both inside and outside the lifestyle.

This isn’t a how-to or a glamor pitch. It’s a real conversation about boundaries, confidence, attention, and where lines start to blur when online personas collide with everyday reality.

🔥 Topics include:
• Privacy and visibility in the age of OnlyFans
• Attention, validation, and confidence
• Navigating real-life consequences of online presence
• Lifestyle crossover and boundary management
• What people don’t always consider before being seen

🔗 Eliza (Waterworks):
• OnlyFans — https://onlyfans.com/ejdesiresvip?rec=190284369
• SextPanther — https://www.sextpanther.com/ejdesires

🎧 Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📢 Sponsors:
• PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Glitz by Jax (Merch) — https://glixbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
• CouplesNextDoor — https://couplesnextdoor.com
• Referral code: DD25

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Company — https://downdirtyproductions.com

🎧 When Attention Gets Complicated — Cold Approaches, Confidence & Waterworks (w/ Jax + Eliza)

How do you approach people at lifestyle events without making it weird… and what happens when attention, confidence, and “Waterworks” enter the chat? 😈

In this Ladies’ Play Den episode, guest Jax (Glitz by Jax / 50 Shades of Play) joins the crew for a real-world breakdown of cold approaching at events — reading the room, simple openers, and how to exit politely. Midway, Eliza (“Waterworks”) jumps in and the conversation shifts into confidence, alter-ego energy, and an explicit (and hilarious) talk about communication, prep, and what to expect when things get… messy.

💬 Topics include:
• Cold approaching without the cringe (green lights vs. not-right-now)
• Easy openers that don’t feel like pickup lines
• Signs it’s going well — and how to exit clean without awkwardness
• Vendor/host perspective on event energy and familiar faces
• Confidence, alter egos, and “fake it till you make it” in the lifestyle
• Explicit segment: “Waterworks” talk — prep, communication, and boundaries

🔗 Guest links:
• Waterworks (OnlyFans): https://onlyfans.com/ejdesiresvip?rec=190284369
• Waterworks (SextPanther): https://www.sextpanther.com/ejdesires

🌐 Listen & show info:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📸 Presenting Sponsor:
PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com

👗 Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door — use referral code DD25
https://couplesnextdoor.com

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions

🎬 Eliza Is Coming — Behind-the-Scenes Teaser (Trailer)

Quick teaser for what’s coming next: two special episodes featuring Eliza (“Waterworks”). The Professor and crew pull back the curtain with a few behind-the-scenes moments — plus a taste of the conversation (OnlyFans, Fansly, SextPanther, and the stories that come with it).

🔜 Next up:
• Two upcoming episodes featuring Eliza (Waterworks)
• More creator talk + platform stories + unfiltered behind-the-scenes

🔗 Guest links:
• Waterworks (OnlyFans): https://onlyfans.com/ejdesiresvip?rec=190284369
• Waterworks (SextPanther): https://www.sextpanther.com/ejdesires

🌐 Listen & show info:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📸 Presenting Sponsor:
PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com

👗 Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door — use referral code DD25
https://couplesnextdoor.com

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions

🎧 Inside a Midwest Swinger Club — Vetting, Wild Nights & Running a Lifestyle Space

What really goes into running a lifestyle club — and what do owners wish guests understood before they ever walk in the door?

In this episode, we’re joined by The Count, owner of Forbidden Omaha, for a behind-the-scenes conversation about building a Midwest lifestyle space, managing the vibe, and the reality of vetting, rules, and keeping things fun (and safe) for everyone in the room. Sultan of Sexy also jumps in with questions and banter along the way.

💬 In this episode:
• How a Midwest club runs day-to-day — and what most people never see
• Vetting and membership structure (including single-male considerations)
• House rules, hosting boundaries, and how staff handles situations in real time
• Building community vs. “one-and-done” guests
• Wild night stories, lessons learned, and what keeps people coming back

🌐 Listen & show info:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📸 Presenting Sponsor:
PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com

👗 Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door — use referral code DD25
https://couplesnextdoor.com

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Hosted by: The Professor & Mrs. Doll
Featuring: The Count (Forbidden Omaha) & Sultan of Sexy
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions

🎧 Christmas in the Lifestyle — Party Hangovers, Holiday Chaos & Why New Year’s Hits Different

The holidays hit differently in the lifestyle, and this episode is proof. Recorded during the Christmas stretch, the conversation moves through post-Halloween fallout, packed party calendars, emotional hangovers, and how holiday expectations collide with real-life energy.

This isn’t a how-to or a highlight reel — it’s a real look at what happens when the season gets busy, boundaries get tested, and New Year’s starts feeling heavier than festive. From party burnout to relationship check-ins, this episode reflects the reality many people feel but don’t always say out loud.

💬 In this episode:
• Holiday fatigue and lifestyle burnout
• When parties stop feeling fun and start feeling heavy
• Emotional hangovers after events
• Why New Year’s feels different than expected
• Navigating expectations vs. reality during the holidays

This episode is meant to be listened to as a full conversation — not rushed, not clipped.

🌐 Learn more about the show:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

📸 Presenting Sponsor:
Passionscapes Photography — Lifestyle & Event Photography
https://passionscapesphotography.com

👗 Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax
https://glitzbyjax.com

🎙 Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door
Use referral code DD25
https://couplesnextdoor.com

🎙 The Down & Dirty Podcast
Hosted by: Chuck D, & The Professor
Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions