This episode is for both women and men. Erectile dysfunction has a bigger impact on relationships than most people realize. Because of performance anxiety, shame and guilt secondary to erectile dysfunction or fear of it, connection and intimacy suffers in relationship. 

Let's talk about how to navigate this in relationship for the healing of the man-woman relationship and for greater union.

This episode features Ean Wood, a men's coach who specializes in sex and relationships. Ean Wood has spent 10+ years guiding men to master their sexuality, confidence, and presence. TEDx speaker, former pro snowboarder, and lover of all things curious, he blends insight with real-world experience to help men unlock their full potential—in and out of the bedroom.

Listen to this episode now where we discuss:

• The importance of men doing men's work early on, including men's groups and circles
• How tantra is different from regular sex
• How pornography affects how a man experiences and operates during sex
• Intimacy beyond performance
• The importance of presence during all sexual experience with self and other
• Separating pleasure from orgasm and how to do this
• The healing power of touch and foreplay
• Reprogramming the nervous system for greater arousal and pleasure
• How to heal sensory distortions and return to pleasure
• Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety and where it comes from
• Why women should throw away their vibrators
• The problem with the younger generations taking viagra
• Communicating and opening up about sexuality

We go deeper into more practical ways inside the bonus content where we talk about: 

• how to desensitize back to pleasure if you've been wanting to experience more pleasure in your relationship
• for men - how to sensitize yourself back to receiving pleasure from simpler sensations if you have erectile dysfunction, especially from watching porn
• for woman - how to re-sensitize yourself if you've had challenges orgasming with your partner due to overstimulation of your clitoris from using a vibrator

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Public Service Announcement: Porn is killing deeper intimacy and true connection. 

This episode features Gavin Meenan - recognized as Ireland’s No. 1 Men's Mentor & Award Winning “Coach of the Year" in 2024 and 2025, author of 2 books, and former European Powerlifting Champion.

We discuss:

• the detriment of pornography on society, including sex trafficking, relationships and intimacy
• the impact of pornography on your relationship
• the many ways to engage sexually and discerning what's actually pleasurable
• understanding shame and disconnection
• rewriting the narrative of intimacy
• the role of religion in sexual shame
• the courage to open up to your partner
• the madonna-whore complex
• the journey of healing together as a couple
• a ritual idea to explore and heal your deviant and shadow sexual aspects with your partner
• and more

Gavin is open about his own life struggles, including overcoming trauma, a fatal car accident he caused and overcoming porn addiction.

For more, join us inside the bonus content we share:

• practical tips on how men and women can show up for each other for sexual healing, deeper connection and greater union. 
• for women - supportive embodiment to encourage your man to open up to you and how to create a safe space for honesty, sharing and to help heal sexual insecurities, pornography addiction and/or shadow kinks and fetishes.
• for men - how to best show up in response to your woman's reactions and feelings, especially when truth is shared and in challenging moments. 

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More about Gavin:

He focuses on helping men strengthen their minds, bodies, and overall lives, emphasizing the importance of mindset for success.

He hosts the very successful Modern Warrior Weekends, taking men through a transformative experience over the course of a weekend, and is the founder of the Modern Warrior Program, a coaching initiative aimed at empowering men and supporting their development, dealing openly with topics such as self-forgiveness, addiction, trauma, and personal growth.

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From navigating relationship challenges to the role of external support for greater union, tune into this episode featuring Preston Smiles. 

This episode focuses on forging greater love through the fires that inevitably occur while in relationship, knowing when to stay or go and how we can transcend them. 

From surf instructor to multi-millionaire, Preston Smiles is the epitome of someone who’s committed to the work and humanity. As an Abundance Coach, thought leader, experiential speaker, and author of his newest groundbreaking book, Spiritual Millionaire Unlock the 7 Inner Laws of Abundance. 

Want to experience greater love? Then healing your relationship with your mother and your father is foundational and imperative. 

Our relationship with our mother and father as well as the masculine and feminine affect our romantic relationships, therefore, spending time healing our mother and father wounds, as well as any anger or upset with the masculine and feminine will support us in experiencing greater love and union. And sometimes we have to do this healing work multiple times with different types of modalities and facilitators. 

Inside this bonus content with Preston Smiles, he guides us through some powerful prompts and practices to support us in healing our relationship with our father and the masculine. Subscribe for access to the bonus content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2230089/supporters/new

Preston is a force to be reckoned with on the personal growth scene. With an emphasis on freeing the body through nervous system work, Coaching over 100k people since 2005, and leading cutting-edge workshops worldwide with his equally powerful wife, Alexi, Preston Smiles is on fire, like his HUGE personality. Winning awards like Millennial Mentor of the Year, gracing the cover of Inspired Coach Magazine, and being featured on some of the biggest podcasts and media platforms, such as Impact Theory and School of Greatness, and more, Preston is touching the hearts and souls of thousands of people daily through his provocative social media videos and writings. As Jack Canfield and Rev Michael Beckwith have said, “Preston Smiles is unstoppable!"

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Many factors play a role in and influence our capacity to be in a powerful, loving, healing relationship with another, especially a romantic relationship we can categorize at the level of Divine Union / Sacred Partnership. 

In this potent podcast episode 115 features Nicolas Canon, an international bestselling author, thought leader and founder of Ayahuasca Colombia, who guides impact-driven leaders through sacred plant medicine initiations. He specializes in helping high-achievers get unstuck by breaking through their deepest blockages to embody authentic power, unshakeable clarity, and soul-aligned purpose through a mix of ancestral and modern tools.

We discuss:

• The role of Truth in intimacy
• The difference between the Mother's and Father's love
• Why it's so important to heal your parental relationship and any wounds associated with your mother and father
• Self-Reflection and Healing in Relationships
• Mature Love and take responsibility in relationships
• The nature of TRUE love and how sometimes it means tough love or doing what hurts the most 
• How love is unconditional but relationships are not
• Patterns lived in childhood extend into your relationships as an adult
• How relationship karma can clear once we do the healing work
• Understanding attachment styles
• and more

Inside the bonus content, Nicolas shares paradigm shifting questions to ask yourself and contemplate in order to call in the perfect partner for you as well as to help create a conscious partnership whether you are single or already in a relationship. Subscribe for access to bonus content here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2230089/supporters/new

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Only you have the power to end toxic patterns and cycles in relationship and this podcast episode of The Dr Nikki Starr Show supports you in this.

Featuring Blake Goldsmith, a transformational coach and speaker helping people heal deep emotional wounds and reconnect with their authentic self, we discuss what is required to heal attachment styles such as the avoidant, anxious or more challenging ways of relating such as the narcissist or empath, which all create suffering in relationships. 

As shared in this episode, the truth is BOTH people who find themselves in toxic relationships or patterns are wounded. But don’t worry, the healing of this is part of your awakening journey. And the goal of this season of the podcast is to support the healing of the man-woman relationship for greater union.

In the bonus content we share how you can best feel your emotions during a trigger or when doing your healing work to help process, release and integrate them. These trapped emotions are at the core of trauma healing and inner child work. When you do the work to transmute these energies, the quality of your relationships drastically improves for the better. Subscribe for access: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2230089/supporters/new

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https://www.instagram.com/blake.coach/

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In devotion to the healing of the man-woman relationship, this episode of the Dr Nikki Starr Show we discuss one of the most talked about relational dynamic we see on the internet - the narcissist-empath relationship.

Featuring Rev. Nathan Kohlerman , a once self proclaimed narcissist, former sergeant in the military, former top body builder, now father of 4, Reverend, bestselling author and international speaker, he and Dr Nikki Starr discuss the core wounding that predispose men and women to such relating due to childhood traumas.

This episode serves to bring awareness and compassion, both for oneself and the other, remembering that every relationship is a dance and takes 2 people to tango. Because of matching, complementary wounds, both people are receiving something from the dynamic.

This is not about villainizing anyone but rather taking radical responsibility to do our healing work to return to love and wholeness so that we can realize the divine union level love that we all desire.

In the bonus content, they collaborate on a 6 step roadmap and ritual to support partners in discussing challenging topics, which also supports good housekeeping for any relationship. This process blends compassionate communication with tender loving connection. Subscribe for access: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2230089/supporters/new

More about Nathan: His journey from personal despair to transformative healing illustrates the indomitable human spirit. Now through his transformation, he embodies hope and resilience for those facing life’s profound challenges.

Nathan’s unique blend of wisdom and courage in ‘Between Two Worlds’ offers a guiding light for navigating the complexities of life, death, and beyond. As a mentor and seeker of truth, Kohlerman’s work inspires global audiences, proving that even in darkness, there’s an enduring light. His story empowers us to be artists of our authenticity and architects of our destiny.

https://link.me/nathankohlerman

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Why is it that we fall short in relationships? We want true lasting love. We have every intention to show up as our best, but when the triggers happen and the chaos ensues, we can find ourselves repeating patterns in relationships we said we would never do again. 

Why is it that women get into or stay too long in relationships with men who make promises they can't keep? And why is it that men say things will be different next time but then they can't follow through with their word?

This episode of The Dr Nikki Starr Show featuring Ivan L. James II, coach, writer, and speaker devoted to helping men and women reclaim their power through truth, presence, and embodied leadership explores these topics and what men and women should consider if you're finally ready to do whatever it takes to heal and rise into greater union. 

In the bonus content, Ivan shares a powerful tip to help you keep your promises, be in integrity and follow through on your commitments. Though this was initially intended to support men in helping you in showing up better in relationship, this practice also helps women to be in greater integrity too.

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More about Ivan: 

After over 15 years of performing the role of the masculine (provider, protector, partner, including a decorated career in the military), Ivan faced a breaking point. On the outside, he appeared strong. Inside, he was disconnected, reactive, and unsure of who he truly was. That moment of reckoning sparked a powerful journey of healing, spiritual realignment, and emotional mastery.

What emerged was not just a new man, but a clear mission.

Today, Ivan guides both men and women to stop performing and start embodying. He works with individuals and couples, helping them lead with integrity, deepen polarity, and build relationships grounded in truth. His coaching style is compassionate yet direct, spiritual yet practical that's rooted in lived experience, not just theory.

IG: @ivanheals

Free Resources: https://ivanheals.com/free-page

Healing Community: https://ivanheals.com/healing-collective

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Are you obedient to love? Are you in devotion to love? Can you meet your partner in unconditional love, especially when they are suffering and allow love to lead?

This is an emotionally moving episode of The Dr Nikki Starr Show featuring Oren Harris where he shares about a miraculous healing that happened thanks to unconditional love as he was entering into deeper union with his beloved.

This episode has the power to inspire you to let your ego die so that the power of love lead your relationship into greater union. And this isn’t a technique or something you can learn in a book. 

Inside the bonus content we dive deeper into the pull and push that happens between the masculine leadership and feminine surrender - women want to surrender to their man’s leadership. And because we are polarizable, we can affect each other and inspire each other into greater leadership and surrender. This is a classic example of which comes first? Surrender? Or leadership? This conversation will inspire you to meet your partner in a new way for greater union.

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Oren Harris is a transformational speaker, coach, and creative catalyst. He is the world’s leading expert on flow and a peak performance advisor to some of the biggest names and brands on the planet. He empowers people to awaken to their limitless self, fulfill their divine potential ,and manifest their soul’s true legacy. As a beautiful bonus his unconditional love creates a space of effortless healing and transformation. 

 @orenharris

Orenharris.com

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We have the power to open or close our partners based on how we communicate with with them. How do you choose to wield this power?

In this episode Dr Nikki Starr and Justin Patrick Pierce go beyond compassionate communication and into the realm of communication as intimacy to deepen the love, connection and attraction you experience in relationship even during daily mundane tasks. 

They share specific examples for both men and women to be mindful of when talking to your partner if you wish to soften them and keep that juicy polarity alive!

In the bonus content experience a guided meditation to return you to your center to support communication as intimacy.

Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters are intimacy teachers and authors of the books Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship and The Awakened Woman’s Guide to Everlasting Love. Known internationally for their transformative work in personal growth and spiritual intimacy, they have dedicated their lives to love. Through workshops and private coaching, they help others heal their relationships, overcome the challenges of long-term commitment, and learn how to grow spiritually and sexually alongside their partner.

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Announcing Season 7 of The Dr Nikki Starr Show dedicated to the healing of the man-woman relationship for greater union. In this season of the podcast, Dr Nikki Starr will be featuring male coaches and relationship experts to speak on various topics to support men and women in co-creating the highest level relationship. 

In this introductory episode, Dr Nikki Starr defines Divine Union as the type of love that supports our greatest becoming as individuals and as a couples to live our fullest potential in every aspect of our lives. And why it is the type of relationship we would all benefit from realizing. 

When we are thriving in love, our force of creation is greater than it is as an individual, and thus our love benefits the entire would. 

The prayer and intention of the podcast episodes of this new season is to serve us all in greater self awareness to rise into our best selves, do our healing work, relate more consciously with each other to enhance our relationships and to inspire us to be in devotion to Love for us live the greatest love story ever known, and to live our ultimate lives together in love as love. 

Enjoy! And contact Dr Nikki Starr on instagram @drnikkistarr if there are any specific male guests you recommend and wish to see on the podcast. 

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