Welcome to the ERW podcast. I’m your host, BpB, fellow road warrior, husband, father, entrepreneur, author, and right now on a worldwide mission to help road warriors transform not just their work but especially their health, and their home life and where? On the road. It’s possible. I’ve did it lousy for a very long time and finally figured it out and hoping you join me.
Energy Habit #4 is DEVELOP - and we develop on the road in three ways -
- Sharpen the Mind
- Process the Thoughts
- Monitor the Heart
Sharpen the Mind - is what we put in to sharpen us in multiple ways
Process the Thoughts - is getting out of our head all that we put in
Monitor the Heart - is keeping a pulse on how we’re REALLY doing
If you eat lousy at home, few turn it around on the road.
If you don’t sleep well at home, you rarely sleep more or even better on the road.
If you don’t workout at home, you rarely turn into a gym rat on the road.
And I can go on and on and on.
A habit defined is a behavior that is repeated enough times to become automatic.
It can be divided into four simple steps:
Cue. A piece of information that suggests there’s a reward to be found, like the smell of a cookie or a dark room waiting to light up.
Craving. The motivation to change something to get the reward, like tasting the delicious cookie or being able to see.
Response. Whatever thought or action you need to take to get to the reward.
Reward. The satisfying feeling you get from the change, along with the lesson whether to do it again or not.
The cue is about noticing the reward.
The craving is about wanting the reward.
The response is about obtaining the reward.
This is key: All behavior is driven by the desire to solve a problem.
They’re the most over-worked / stressed / burned-out / unhealthy / and disconnected they’ve EVER been in their lives.
The book Atomic Habits offer
Four Laws of Behavior Change:
Make it obvious. Don’t hide your fruits in your fridge, put them on display front and center.
Make it attractive. Start with the fruit you like the most, so you’ll actually want to eat one when you see it.
Make it easy. Don’t create needless friction by focusing on fruits that are hard to peel. Bananas and apples are super easy to eat, for example.
Make it satisfying. If you like the fruit you picked, you’ll love eating it and feel healthier as a result!
Obvious…………………. Invisible
Attractive……………….. Unattractive
Easy…………………….. Hard
Satisfying………………. Unsatisfying
KEY: “The most effective form of motivation is progress”
Atomic Habits gives five ways get out of road rut
1. Start with an incredibly small habit.
Make it so easy you can't say no.
—Leo Babauta
This is the wrong approach. Research shows that willpower is like a muscle. It gets fatigued as you use it throughout the day. Another way to think of this is that your motivation ebbs and flows. It rises and falls.
Stanford professor BJ Fogg calls this the “motivation wave.”
2. Increase your habit in very small ways.
3. As you build up, break habits into chunks.
4. When you slip, get back on track quickly.
5. Be patient. Stick to a pace you can sustain.