I’m your host, BpB, fellow road warrior, big fan of cool rental cars, and high end meals but also gained the weight to prove it. I lost 40 lbs and got my girlish figure back, biz travel fans. It can be done. You can leverage the road to become who you want, who you need to be for your work, your health, and your home life.
I do this every flight out of town - BYOM - bring your own meal AKA: MTHC (make the healthiest choice)
The point is we were both on the 1st day of a business travel trip and we both made a key decision how we’re starting off our trip.
Would you consider yourself a Creature of Habit?
The challenge is getting out of our bad habits we’ve found ourselves in especially after years of travel.
1. Social - those everyone shared: Mondays / New Month / New Quarter / Holidays
2. Personal - unique to the individual: birthdays / anniversaries / job changes.
1. They allowed people to open “new mental accounts” in the same way a business closes the books at the end of one year and opens new books in the next year.
2. They also interrupt attention to the everyday minutiae causing people to take a big picture view of their lives and focus on achieving their goals.
And I call this concept Anchor Days
Here’s my definition of an Anchor Day:
“(An Anchor Day is) Key behaviors done on a specific date to serve as a kickstart for a period of time”
What does an anchor do?
There are THREE Key Aspects of an Anchor Day to be effective and be powerful:
1. Set Date - there must be a CLEAR starting date - This is the WHEN - a "specific day"
2 Catalyst Behavior - Key actions you need to do - This is the WHAT
3. Specific Triggers - reminders or cues / IF this, THAN that = WHERE
Here are my own personal on-going anchor days on a consistent basis:
1. Mondays
2. New Month
3. New Quarter
4. 1st day of a business trip
Business Travel
Every single road warrior has this one thing, the same thing in common for absolutely every one of us and on every single business trip.
1. Taking my Breakfast with me - don’t leave to chance (AND if I have a healthy breakfast I’m FAR more likely to have a healthy lunch / dinner)
2. Snacks - bringing / buying (stopping somewhere to get fresh snacks) - finding a Whole Foods / Trader Joe’s, etc.
3. Hotel Room - I found this to be a big one for me because it’s my Home Away From Home on a trip and certain behaviors can really set me up - they’ll be an upcoming episode on this topic leveraging the acronym HOME to leverage this aspect of an anchor day
4. Connect - Check in with Home - this is done by early morning videos / audio / text messages so my family has them from me before they even wake up (we’ll talk much more about that in the 6th energy habit of CONNECT)
5. Rest - Early Bed Time - this is SO key the 1st day because most of the time I have an early flight and changing time zones AND if I start out sleep deprived on day one, I rarely if ever make up that sleep and we all know where that leads affecting our performance then coming home absolutely blitzed and exhausted useless to anyone back home and our 1st day back from a business trip
Now, remember, after the Set Date and Catalyst Behavior, is the 3rd aspect of the Anchor Day which is...
- Specific Triggers reminders or cues / IF this, THAN that = WHERE
- Water bottle / tupperware / snack bag out the night before
- Apple Watch alarms - stand / drink water
- and the example I gave in detail: Hotel Key hitting the room door - trigger for the H.O.M.E. acronym to kick i