I say this without judgement, the reason I know this is true, is because I have lived through it. I thought I loved myself, I thought I loved my body, I thought I respected my soul, and I thought I had a connection to the universe. The truth is, I had a lot of hatred buried inside, and I hated myself for my dark parts. If you only like your light parts, then you will continue to send shame and guilt to your dark parts, and that my friend is not self love.