"Adulting is Hard!" Is that this generation of young adults, aka Gen Z and Millenials, really believes?

Ever since we turned 'adult' into a verb, society has increasingly made it seem that being a responsible adult is something too hard for young people to handle. But is it true, or just an easy excuse to not step up to the challenge of growing up? In this episode, Chris Alessi and his wife Richelle sit down to examine a recent viral video that seems to exemplify this mindset - and explain why they aren't buying it as young adults.

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Stay or Go? Choose The Right Move as a Young Adult (w/ Stephanie Alessi Muina) | S1 E13

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Have we stopped expecting kids to demonstrate good manners? Is teaching kids to maintain discipline in public a lost art?

Go to any public place with families with kids, and you'll see examples of parents who have either struggled to show their kids proper manners to use in social settings - or parents who choose not to even try.

But do manners still matter? For the Alessis, the answer is a  definite yes.   

In this episode, the Alessis dive deep into the crucial topic of teaching children discipline and manners in a social setting - especially they are throwing embarrassing tantrums in public.

They discuss the need to enforce discipline and manners within their own family and share practical strategies for teaching children how to navigate social interactions with grace.

If you enjoy this, you'll love:

Gentle Parenting or Tough Love? Why Your Kids Actually Need (and Want) Strong Discipline | S5 E15

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Is celebrity church culture destroying the spirit of serving others in ministry?

And how do we protect our own ministry and family from this destructive mindset? 

In this episode, discover how the Alessis have avoided falling prey to feelings of entitlement as pastors and worship leaders, as they share personal anecdotes and insights about the importance of stepping out of comfort zones in ministry to build valuable relationships and support systems.

This episode was inspired by the backlash received by speaker, author and worship leader Natalie Runion, founder of the "Raised to Stay" platform when she pointed out the hypocrisy of pastors and worship leaders staying enclosed in green rooms instead of engaging in worship services and connecting with the congregation.

Tap here to read the Raised to Stay "Green Room" post

That post, and the recent events at the GMA Dove Awards simply uncovered a lot of controversy that is happening behind the scenes in many prominent churches.

As veterans in the ministry and recording industry, the Alessis have witnessed the tendency of musicians and artists to become entitled and covetous of special treatment, and you'll learn how to keep that mentality out of your family ministry, church, or staff as a church leader.

If you enjoyed this, check out:
Who's in Charge? Marriage, Leadership and Defining our Roles | S2 E9

How We Found Our Sound: Blending Music, Ministry and Business in the Family | S3 E11

Sharing the Mic: How We Communicate Truth in Our Family Business | S2 E10

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How can you make sure your children - especially young boys - know what really matters in a world that constantly celebrates superficial things?

In this episode, Steve Alessi and his son Chris get serious about the objective value of a son's experiences from a father's perspective.

You're learn the immense importance of sharing Truth and enduring values with your children, and discover why these values are essential if you want the next generation of young men to be strong and secure in who they are.

Bonus: You'll hear the first official appearance on the podcast of the newest Alessi, Marino John - which didn't exactly go as planned. (listen to the end to see what we mean - or watch the episode here) 

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Your Family Vision: How to See It, Share It and Make It a Reality | S3 E4

A Father's Journey: How to Lead Your Family with Love (Even When Life Hurts) w/ Jonathan Pitts | S3 E23

From Father to Son: Building a Strong Father-Son Connection | S1 E7

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Becoming a grandparent is one of the greatest blessings any parent can experience, but it also comes with some of the greatest challenges. 

If you've experienced this massive change, you may be feeling a mix of joy, anxiety and frustration as you navigate this new role - especially if you are still in the parent role as well. 

In this episode of "The Family Business with The Alessis," Mary and Steve Alessi share their experiences and insights on transitioning from parenting to becoming grandparents - all while continuing to guide their adult kids. 

 You'll learn about blessings and challenges that come with grandparenthood, the importance of passing down the family legacy, and the joy of being able to enjoy your grandchildren without the pressure of being disciplinarians. 

If you've struggled to make the switch being less hands on with your adult kids, you'll learn how to provide  trust and support for your children's parenting abilities as the Alessis offer advice on how to navigate the grandparenting journey.

If you loved this, you should really check out: 

How to Handle Seasons of Caring for Aging Parents | S6 E4

Moms Unfiltered: How to Overcome Fear and Insecurity as a Modern-Day Mother with Dr. Faith Fredrick | S5 E27

Building the Foundations of a Strong Family | S1 EP1

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Have you entered a season when you now take care of the people that raised you?

If so, you're not alone.

More and more, adults are finding themselves stepping into the role of caring for their aging parents.

But it's not easy.

The struggle with balancing time, emotional needs, medical issues and changing roles as parents age can cause stress on any family.   

To help you navigate this challenging season of life, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down and share their own stories of managing the new season of actively caring for their own mothers, who both lost their husbands in the past few years.

You'll learn about the joys and struggles of embracing this new reality, and you'll be equipped with helpful tips and encouragement so that you can make the most of all the moments you have with your aging parents.

If this episode encourages you, you'll want to check out:

Moms Unfiltered: How to Overcome Fear and Insecurity as a Modern-Day Mother with Dr. Faith Fredrick | S5 E27

What's In a Name: Why Legacy Matters in Our Family Business

7 Ways to Support Your Spouse Emotionally In Tough Times S5 E14

Building the Foundations of a Strong Family S1 E1 

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You may think you've heard it all when it comes to the abortion debate - but some important facts have been hidden from you. 

Here at The Family Business with The Alessis, we believe strongly in empowering families with the truth so they can build a generational legacy, so we have prepared a 2-part series on abortion to give you the best foundation and information as things stand now, after the overturning of Roe. V. Wade in 2022.

To help us in this important conversation, we are blessed to welcome a family friend and expert on the laws, history and ideological concepts around the abortion industry - Cristina M. Squiers.  Cristina has a long, deep friendship with the Alessis, and has risen to the top of her field as a ligitator and counsel in cases involving pro-life causes and the abortion industry. 

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Listen to Part 1 of The Truth About Abortion

In part two, the Alessi ladies  - Gabrielle, Lauren, Stephanie (Muiña) and Richelle - sit down with Cristina to expose the medical risks that easy-access abortion methods have created, and unpack why society is so quick to dismiss the beauty and blessing of motherhood. 

Cristina Squiers graduated from Princeton University and was a recipient of the University's ReachOut Fellowship. During her fellowship year, Ms. Squiers worked at the nation's largest adoption agency and started a mentoring program for youth leaving foster care.  She received her J.D. from Southern Methodist University Dedman School of Law where she served as Editor-in-Chief of the SMU Law Review and interned for Catharina Haynes of the United States Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit. 

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Note to Parents: This episode contains graphic descriptions of the procedures and medical facts concerning abortion. We strongly advise using discretion in sharing this with young children.

For decades, the abortion debate has been a flashpoint of passion and division in our society -  precisely because it is so much more than words and arguments.
 
It strikes at the very heart of what it means to build a family. 

Here at The Family Business with The Alessis, we believe strongly in empowering families with the truth so they can build a generational legacy, so we have prepared a 2-part series on this topic to give you the best foundation and information as things stand now, especially after the overturning of Roe. V. Wade in 2022. 

To help navigate this complex topic, we are blessed to welcome a family friend and expert on the laws, history and ideological concepts around the abortion industry - Cristina M. Squiers. 

 Cristina has a long, deep friendship with the Alessi family, and has risen to the top of her field as a ligitator and counsel in cases involving pro-life causes and the abortion industry. Today, she sits down with several of the young ladies in the Alessi family to dig deeper into how this issue affects women and families beyond the soundbites and political chatter. 

Cristina Squiers graduated from Princeton University and was a recipient of the University's ReachOut Fellowship.  During her fellowship year, Cristina worked at the nation's largest adoption agency and started a mentoring program for youth leaving foster care.  She received her J.D. from Southern Methodist University Dedman School of Law where she served as Editor-in-Chief of the SMU Law Review and interned for Catharina Haynes of the United States Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit. She now practices law in Dallas, TX and is married to her husband Dr. Jack Squiers. Together they have 3 children and are expecting their fourth. . 

If this helped you, you should also listen to:

From Mother to Daughter: Honest Questions about Marriage, Motherhood and Changing Seasons | S3 E17

Twin Talk: Why Wise Women Need To Share Their Stories w/ Mary Alessi and Martha Munizzi | S5 E19

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The Family Business is back in business for Season 6 - and a LOT has happened since the Alessis last stepped into the podcast booth.

The Alessis welcomed a brand new baby / grandson (Marino), celebrated their first grandbaby's first birthday (Gianna), discovered that there will be a THIRD new Alessi baby in December...all in the midst of a lot of renovation and re-adjustments in their church and personal lives.

In the midst of all that excitement and stress, it's easy to forget the precious moments and memories being made - and that's not good for any family. 

Listen in as Steve and Mary Alessi help you protect the precious family memories that makes life special from the stress of everyday life, AND give you a sneak peek at all the powerful conversations coming your way in Season 6!

If you like this episode, you'll love:
 
How Successful Parents Set the Right Family Priorities | S1 E2

The Perfect Family Meeting: How to Create a Memorable Mission with Your Loved Ones with Lee Domingue | S3 E20

Fun, Family and Feasts: Sharing Our Favorite Traditions During Thanksgiving and The Holidays | S4 E12

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Are you concerned about the health of your marriage, especially as you deal with a chaotic culture that throws so much negativity into your relationship? 

In this bonus mid-season episode, you'll get a look inside Sundays in the Family Business as Steve and Mary Alessi reveal the secret sauce to a healthy, God-centered marriage to their congregation at Metro Life Church - gleaned from  35+ years of working on their relationship.

They shine a light on the false "sandcastle" ideologies that the world often imposes on you, and share Biblical wisdom so you can guard your marriage and family from these misconceptions.

By listening to this entire episode, you'll learn how to:

• Overcome common relationship pitfalls 
• Steer clear from the trap of trying to 'fix' your partner
•  Settle arguments in a respectful manner and
•  Strengthen your bond by appreciating the different ways men and women express love. 

Make sure to subscribe so you're ready for Season 6, coming soon!

If you enjoyed this, you'll also enjoy:

Leaving and Cleaving: How to Protect your Marriage from Excessive Parental Influence | S3 E19

I Hate It When You Talk To Me That Way! | S2 E1

Keep Romance Alive in the Family Business | Ask The Alessis Q&A S1 E15

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