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Everyone teaches you to be a pushover, now it’s time to learn how to stand up for your dreams.
The brain is wired to understand the physical boundaries around you to keep you from falling off a cliff, but society has taught you to sacrifice your personal boundaries at the expense of everyone else. And while doing so, you have little time for your dreams.
On today's episode of the Forms and Focus Podcast (EPISODE #025), we are discussing focus and boundaries. And what you can do TODAY to establish healthy boundaries, increase your focus on long-term goals, and accomplish your dreams. Let’s dig in…
0:00 - Intro to Boundaries
0:34 - Podcast Intro
1:02 - Problem/Boundaries and how it impacts our focus.
10:03 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
The Brain Creates a Buffer:
Meghan Rabbit in “What you need to know about personal Space.”
There are brain regions that are sizing up the space around you: the parietal cortex (which processes sensory information) and the premotor cortex (which plays a role in generating movements).
“These areas of the brain have neurons that fire to let you know if something or someone is getting too close, and you unconsciously respond, says Graziano. “I call them ‘bubble wrap’ neurons, and they align your vision, hearing, and sense of touch to build a multisensory map of space that helps you create a bubble wrap of safety around your body.”
Why we Suck at Setting Personal Boundaries: Bethany Juby, “Personal Boundaries: Types and How to Set Them.”
From childhood, we’re often taught to bend and mold ourselves to make others comfortable. EXAMPLE: Messaging is implied (as in school dress codes). Direct (“I don't care if you don’t want to hug your grandfather, it’s rude not to!”).
She continues.. We’ve been taught from a young age to put the feelings of others ahead of our own needs, to the point that many of us don’t even know how to answer, “What are boundaries?” How do I set them?”
Annie Tanasugarn in “Personal Boundaries and Building Self Love.” Unhealthy or weak personal boundaries are often identified as having a poor sense of self-identity or limited feelings of self-worth. For many who grew up in a codependent environment, they may be out of touch with their own feelings, or may have not been allowed personal space earlier in life.
How to set personal boundaries.
First and foremost, from the book Boundaries by Henry Cloud, “It is an act of kindness to yourself and those around you to set boundaries.”
Some tips from Ben Hershey, “8 Ways to Establish Healthy Boundaries at Work.” He references Doctor Dana Gionta’s book, From Stressed to Centered, which offers a step-by-step process for assessing personal boundaries at work:
Know your limits
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Not everyone has an inner voice, but we all have an inner critic. Through evolution, parental guidance and cultural scripts, we have all been trained how to act, think and perform in a way that benefits others. As adults this leads to a battle between our inner critic and our inner nurturer. For many of us, the critic is winning.
On today's episode of the Forms and Focus Podcast (EPISODE #024), we are discussing focus and Inner Narrative. And what you can do TODAY to put your inner critic in its place, confide in your inner nurturer, and accomplish your dreams. Let’s dig in…
What does science say about our inner narrative?
The Inner Critic and The Inner Nurturer
How do we stand up to our inner critic?
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Fear and anxiety are not the same, but both are killing your dreams.
Whether it’s a bear attack or fear of rejection, our brains may respond the same, run. The psychological impact of generational fear heightened by modern day fear mongering is training your brain to live in a constant state of FEAR. This separates us from our goals and dreams.
On today's episode of the Forms and Focus Podcast (EPISODE #023), we are discussing focus and fear. And what you can do TODAY to reverse the effects of fear on the brain, increase your focus on long-term goals and accomplish your dreams. Let’s dig in…
0:00 - Intro to Fear
0:39 - Podcast Intro
1:12 - Problem/Fear and how it impacts our focus.
14:36 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
What Is Fear?
(APA Dictionary) Fear is an intense emotion aroused by the detection of imminent threat, involving an immediate alarm reaction that mobilizes the organism by triggering a set of physiological changes.
Your body will increase rapid heartbeat, redirection of blood flow away from the periphery areas of the body, tenses of the muscles, and a general mobilization to take action: fight-or-flight response.
How does the brain respond to fear?
(Lacagnina), IMMEDIATE THREATS (BEAR ATTACK): The visual information comes in. It's getting into the visual processing pathway. Then moves into the amygdala, which is the threat-detection center… or the “threat reflex” as Huberman Labs explains.
How the brain stores information to prevent danger. (Anand and Dhikav) The Hippocampus is a complex brain structure embedded deep into the temporal lobe. It has a major role in learning and memory.
What are we afraid of?
It is pretty rare to be attacked by a bear, (1 in 2.1M), odds of shark attack (1 in 3.7M, odds of being struck by lighting (1 in 500K), odds of being killed by any animal ( 1 in 1.6M) odds of being killed by terrorist attack (1 on 30M) odds of being killed by foreign‐born terrorists is (1 in 104M).
Fear is on the rise.
(Winkelmeyer) 54% said they're more fearful than hopeful about what's in store for the world in 2022, while 44% said they're more hopeful.
What You Can Do TODAY
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Conflict is around us, conflict is within us, and conflict can keep us from focusing on our dreams. There are several types of conflict, but what we are most familiar with is what we experience on a micro level, a terrible coworker, a bully at school, or shitty family members. But another form of conflict that we are greatly influenced by is on a macro level, global conflict, our culture of conflict, our consumption of charged content and the conflict within.
On today's episode of the Forms and Focus Podcast (EPISODE #022), we are discussing focus and conflict. And what you can do TODAY to reverse the effects of conflict on the brain, increase your focus on long-term goals and accomplish your dreams. Let’s dig in…
0:00 - Intro to conflict
1:02 - Podcast Intro
1:34 - Problem - Conflict is killing your focus.
11:40 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
STATISTICS
WHAT MODERN CONFLICT RESPONSE LOOKS LIKE:
SOLUTIONS
STEP ONE:
STEP TWO: Say, “I need a minute.” Take a walk and change settings. Step 1 and 2 pulls you out of your amygdala and puts you back into your prefrontal cortex
STEP THREE: Now you can work through the conflict. Either personally or with the person that you are interacting with.
SOLUTION FOR WHEN FACED WITH CULTURAL CONFLICT
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#focus #dream #stress
SUMMARY
Chronic stress can literally rewire your brain to focus on the wrong things, and over time, kill your dreams. Stress can influence what consumes your focus. This can reduce productivity & motivation for long-term goals, which can lead to depression, and eventually kill your dreams.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
1:25 - Problem - Stress is killing your focus.
7:26 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
Problem
Top Down Attention
Solution
Turn up your “Top Down” Attention
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SUMMARY
We live in our monkey brains, the “monkey brain” includes the majority of our tissue, and controls more complex tasks as well as emotions. Most mammals lead with their “monkey brain”, which is fueled by our most basic responses to fear and desire.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
0:55 - Problem - Your Monkey Brain is killing your focus.
8:40 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
SHOW NOTES FOR EPISODE #20
PROBLEM
SOLUTION/HABITS
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SUMMARY
Work and money are the top two stressors that are reprogramming our brains. Unfortunately, we have convinced ourselves that it is normal and part of life. In this podcast, we challenge this norm and provide solutions to reduce tension so you can focus on your dreams.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
2:30 - Problem - Stress is killing your focus.
6:40 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
SHOW NOTES FOR EPISODE #19
PROBLEM
SOLUTION/HABITS
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#focus #dream #tension
SUMMARY
Take an eye break. Breaks are critical, even your eyes need a break. The average American spends close to 8 hours a day looking at screens and checking their phones 58 times a day. All this without resting our eyes. In this podcast, we will talk about the problems of eye fatigue and some simple solutions to rest your eyes.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
1:20 - Problem - We don’t rest our eyes.
7:00 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
SHOW NOTES FOR EPISODE #18
FACTS
PROBLEM
SOLUTION/HABITS
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#focus #dream #eyefatigue
SUMMARY
Just breathe. Your body demands oxygen to function, especially your brain. Focusing on intentional breathing can dramatically improve your focus.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
1:30 - Problem - We are not intentionally breathing
7:49 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
SHOW NOTES FOR EPISODE #17
PROBLEM/FACTS
SOLUTION/HABITS
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#focus #dream #breathing
SUMMARY
It is time to stand up for your dreams.
On average, Americans sit for 11 hrs each day which is slowly killing you. In this episode of forms and focus, we talk about how you should stand up for your dreams by standing the f#$k up.
At Forms & Focus, our mission is to increase your focus so you can accomplish your dreams. Many of us have dreams and goals. What keeps us from them is our inability to remove distractions and focus. We will accomplish our mission by providing you with guided forms that manifest radical focus.
0:00 - Intro
1:10 - Problem - We sit down way too much.
8:30 - Solution/Habits for better focus.
SHOW NOTES FOR EPISODE #16
PROBLEM/FACTS
SOLUTION/HABITS
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