Get ready to dive into a seldom spoken-about topic: freedom from family.
After more than a decade of turbulence in my own family, with extended periods spent estranged from various members within it, I truly believe that while you can't choose your family, you CAN choose how you allow yourself to be treated by them.
This belief and the actions associated are, more often than not, rejected by society.
"Family comes first" and "family is forever" are excuses I've heard used for bad behaviour, time and time again.
I decided years ago that just because I may share blood with someone, that doesn't allow them to treat me poorly and it doesn't mean I must put up with it.
Bonnie knows this better than most.
She's been through the wringer with her family and has suffered terrible abuses at their hands.
Despite growing up in an affluent family, she quickly learned that her family couldn't buy her happiness.
This conversation is one that I believe NEEDS to see more light of day.
Families come in all different shapes, sizes, configurations and levels of involvement.
Bonnie and I want to empower you to choose your family because you want to, not because you feel you have to.
And to feel freedom around your family interactions or the lack thereof.